advice and help

[Nagishkaw 510]

WOW This drama been going on and on for how long now?? Write a book purge and move on!!

SHUT UP!

This place is for any one of us to vent.

God knows when you would be in a position to need someone and someone said something like that.

And Kat

I do agree with you, sorry, about him not being genuine from the get go but the best thing for you is to be as far away from him as possible. God has better things in store for you sweetie

Bolded for clarity.

[childress_london 3]

Just hang in there. Better days are ahead for you! You will be much happier in the near future, so don't lose hope. :-)

[bhajishah 4]

place to vent, ok well then dont deny me my freedom of speech godzilla.

you are enabling her wityh your there theres, she cont to play victim and poor why me.

Most of us over age thirty have had MAJOR losses in our life. If not, then what a shallow life. Because how then do we rise above it, learn and grow.

Sink or swim.

She is downing a basically happy usually jovial.MARRIAGE based forum board with her major situational depression. She Put this guy on the pedastal like GOd and we all know there is only GOd. Husband should be a compliment and companion to life. Or no go. sooner or latere we die and leave each other. As do the kids who grow up and apart from us move on with thier own.

She is covertly bashing and letting people like shooter basically discriminate against your type of men. I see you are not getting it.

she need to take her horse and pony show down the road, but hey cant really tell her to Shut up, FIrst amendment and all. bleh

[Brad and Vika 129]

place to vent, ok well then dont deny me my freedom of speech godzilla.

you are enabling her wityh your there theres, she cont to play victim and poor why me.

Most of us over age thirty have had MAJOR losses in our life. If not, then what a shallow life. Because how then do we rise above it, learn and grow.

Sink or swim.

She is downing a basically happy usually jovial.MARRIAGE based forum board with her major situational depression. She Put this guy on the pedastal like GOd and we all know there is only GOd. Husband should be a compliment and companion to life. Or no go. sooner or latere we die and leave each other. As do the kids who grow up and apart from us move on with thier own.

She is covertly bashing and letting people like shooter basically discriminate against your type of men. I see you are not getting it.

she need to take her horse and pony show down the road, but hey cant really tell her to Shut up, FIrst amendment and all. bleh

Why not let her vent? What is the harm?

[bhajishah 4]

Eyes open, be careful, look what happened to me. Leading many other wives to doubt thier foreign husband. Trust gone ,no marriage even to begin with. Soon They are all putting walls of doubt up against thier mena husbands/ there is plenty other forums then Mena to vent situations like this IMO. like the divorce forum or even somewhere else out there in WORLD WIDE WEB. yeah some joke around and tease a litttle. cough huh. but this lady is really really obviously being vindictive.

[Nagishkaw 510]

You didn't come in here to edify this lady nor just give a listen when she needed to vent, you came in here to spout off your mouth and lay down some pretty twisted perceptions.

[bhajishah 4]

I come in here on occasion , and its the same wretched story(ies) with no resolve.Dont see many the wives disrespecting the husband family or crying thier personals over in the desi threads. So i head back there. But hey thanks for trying to live in my head and deciphering what it is Im doing. i see the fingers of run the mouth are all pointing back to you Nag the Shah.

[Nagishkaw 510]

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Eyes open, be careful, look what happened to me. Leading many other wives to doubt thier foreign husband. Trust gone ,no marriage even to begin with. Soon They are all putting walls of doubt up against thier mena husbands/ there is plenty other forums then Mena to vent situations like this IMO. like the divorce forum or even somewhere else out there in WORLD WIDE WEB. yeah some joke around and tease a litttle. cough huh. but this lady is really really obviously being vindictive.

I am not vindictive at all. I do not want to hurt him and NO people should doubt their husbands. I am just in a bad situation trying to survive it. I love my husband so much.. I would never hurt him. He on the contrary HAS hurt me.. emotionally physically and every other way. I am barely hanging in there for dear life right now and I would never hurt him or anyone else. I lost my son, he battered me pregnant...he stopped with that... but emotionally i have been through the ringer.. If he didnt threaten my assets I would have never ever come to talk...I have other people on here who have known me for 3 years as I have talked about stuff and I havent posted alot in over 6 months I am really really scared to get brought up on VAWA even though I have never lifted a finger.. he battered me.. because these guys are using it to adjust alone ( not just mena) its a new loop. NO NOT ALL GO THROUGH THIS but he is being COACHED on how to not have to stay married to adjust.... you name it and threatening my house, my money and my life literally to not say a word to immigration is a tactic that some of these guys use.. I am sorry... I literally am scared for my life, my house and my children..... some of the guys not mena specifically HAVE taken womens assets....and mine is threatening and i signed joint asssets in Tunisia not knowing the ramifications and my marriage certificates have disappeared all of the sudden.. I cant find a single marriage contract...

[Ban Hammer 13,760]

I come in here on occasion , and its the same wretched story(ies) with no resolve.Dont see many the wives disrespecting the husband family or crying thier personals over in the desi threads. So i head back there. But hey thanks for trying to live in my head and deciphering what it is Im doing. i see the fingers of run the mouth are all pointing back to you Nag the Shah.

cindi, give it a rest. you're not earning any status points by posts like this and the previous.

[girl 37 7]

I love my husband so much..

Why do you love him?

He's abused you and disgraced you in front of your surviving children... I'd think if you love *them* you'd get some psychological help to get to the core of the matter (i.e. very poor self-esteem) before you and he damage them, too.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I love my husband so much..

Why do you love him?

He's abused you and disgraced you in front of your surviving children... I'd think if you love *them* you'd get some psychological help to get to the core of the matter (i.e. very poor self-esteem) before you and he damage them, too.

i am

[girl 37 7]

Glad to hear it!

[MsMariah 0]

I'm just really sorry that you are going through all this, I pray that you find peace and healing...

I had to leave an abusive husband before and I know it's so so so hard emotionally. At least you are the breadwinner and can keep your house and things. I just hope you take care of, and forgive yourself.

((hugs))

[Brad and Vika 129]

I come in here on occasion , and its the same wretched story(ies) with no resolve.Dont see many the wives disrespecting the husband family or crying thier personals over in the desi threads. So i head back there. But hey thanks for trying to live in my head and deciphering what it is Im doing. i see the fingers of run the mouth are all pointing back to you Nag the Shah.

cindi, give it a rest. you're not earning any status points by posts like this and the previous.