1st wedding anniv... forever ruined.. sad

[sj5 4]

I have simple rule... if there is no kids, NO COMMUNICATION with the EX. Take it or leave it.

But what if there is court-ordered Spousal Support? The man needs to then send ex a check each month, so to some degree there will be communication whether man wants it or not.

[T_and_A 3]

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

[belovedbyme 0]

I didn't like the way your husband and ex behaved. I am not a jealous type of person but I am candid of my feelings towards a situation like that. That's a big insult on my part. Every time na uulit ulitin niya ang paghang-out sa ex, there is something going on. They dont have kids . Only dogs? What for? Don't worry too much, the baby will be affected. Get some rest and relax.

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

[RICHIE07 0]

I totally agree with you belovedbyme. In my part, I will get uncomfortable feeling and would never allow for them to hang out together, it's okay if they have kids but if not there's no reason for them to keep in touch. You should talk to your husband and tell him what you feel because it doesn;t make sense why your husband and his ex hang out together, they can remain friends but your husband should respect your wishes.

I can totally imagine what you been through but you have to remain strong for the sake of your baby. Be strong and Take care yourself always.

I didn't like the way your husband and ex behaved. I am not a jealous type of person but I am candid of my feelings towards a situation like that. That's a big insult on my part. Every time na uulit ulitin niya ang paghang-out sa ex, there is something going on. They dont have kids . Only dogs? What for? Don't worry too much, the baby will be affected. Get some rest and relax.

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

[chinese_mutt 11]

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

Alam ko na sis!!! ask your husband if he is willing to share custody of the dog...

kumbaga.... Mon-Wed sa ex.. tapos Thurs-Sundays sa inyo.

Para share kayo.. tutal mukhang di naman kalayuan ung bahay ni ex kasi gabi na ayaw pa umuwi.

And i know how you feel about not telling ur family here, ganyan din ako. Mahirap na... syempre in the heat of the moment baka kung anu masabi mo tapos forever na silang galit sa hubby mo. Diba? Eh, andito lang naman kami for you. Kung andyan na ko sa US... pwede tayong mag-chikahan! Unfortunately, mahal pa ang long distance for now. Hehe... so dito muna tayo mag-usap.

Same tayo, medyo yan nga kinatatakutan ko rin pag-dating ko dyan... middle class din kmi dito, pero sobrang spoiled ako sa bahay. mahirap din naman kasi may past nga ung tao, minsan di ko naman matangal sa sarili ko na baka i-cocompare nya ko sa mga ibang GFs and Ex nya. Pero I always try to work on my self-esteem and be secured sa relationship namin.

Di naman ako selosa... and I even encourage my asawa to talk to the ex minsan kasi they have kids (both are already adults) pero may grandkids na sila so feeling ko dapat kahit hiwalay na sila try pa rin nila maging civil. PERO kapatid... exaggerated na yang asawa mo ha!!! Kung di mo kaya masabi ng harapan try mo daanin sa sulat? Kasi ganyan kami ng hubby ko... ung di na namin kayang sabihin through phone... emails na lang. Kasi at least sa sulat minsan mas may lakas ka ng loob mg-sabi ng totoong nararamdaman mo. Subukan mo lang.

Oh well, suggestion lang naman. mahirap talaga mag-asawa noh? Kung di mo talaga mahal ung tao... siguro mamamatay kang talaga sa konsumisyon!

[John&Juvy 36]

"Alam ko na sis!!! ask your husband if he is willing to share custody of the dog...

kumbaga.... Mon-Wed sa ex.. tapos Thurs-Sundays sa inyo.

Para share kayo.. tutal mukhang di naman kalayuan ung bahay ni ex kasi gabi na ayaw pa umuwi."

Kakatawa naman yan !

[T_and_A 3]

ako rin di selosa... di rin naman ako talaga insecure.. pero pag ganito ang nangyayari.. ay kakaloka rin.

tngirl, sana kasi makarating ka na dito... pero mas malapit lapit naman... basta contact mo agad ako ha... hihihi..

in all fairness naman, nag-uusap na kami ng asawa ko paunti-unti about it. ano yung gusto ko, siya di masyado nagsasabi kung ano gusto niya. Sabi niya lang mahirap lang din daw sa kanya mag-give up ng friendship na he had for such a long time now. I understand where he's coming from. di naman talaga ako demanding, and nagging.. im really open minded...

just an update... sweet sweetan kami this weekend ng asawa ko... sabi ko nga eh, kung kami kami lang wala naman talaga akong problema. nagtanong pa nga siya sa akin if gusto ko raw pumunta kami sa FL to celebrate our first anniv... ganun... syemps, gusto ko... pero don't know if i can travel pa with this condition na malapit na 8 weeks na lang inaantay namin. dami pang kelangan bilhin for the baby... so baka postponed na muna.

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

Alam ko na sis!!! ask your husband if he is willing to share custody of the dog...

kumbaga.... Mon-Wed sa ex.. tapos Thurs-Sundays sa inyo.

Para share kayo.. tutal mukhang di naman kalayuan ung bahay ni ex kasi gabi na ayaw pa umuwi.

And i know how you feel about not telling ur family here, ganyan din ako. Mahirap na... syempre in the heat of the moment baka kung anu masabi mo tapos forever na silang galit sa hubby mo. Diba? Eh, andito lang naman kami for you. Kung andyan na ko sa US... pwede tayong mag-chikahan! Unfortunately, mahal pa ang long distance for now. Hehe... so dito muna tayo mag-usap.

Same tayo, medyo yan nga kinatatakutan ko rin pag-dating ko dyan... middle class din kmi dito, pero sobrang spoiled ako sa bahay. mahirap din naman kasi may past nga ung tao, minsan di ko naman matangal sa sarili ko na baka i-cocompare nya ko sa mga ibang GFs and Ex nya. Pero I always try to work on my self-esteem and be secured sa relationship namin.

Di naman ako selosa... and I even encourage my asawa to talk to the ex minsan kasi they have kids (both are already adults) pero may grandkids na sila so feeling ko dapat kahit hiwalay na sila try pa rin nila maging civil. PERO kapatid... exaggerated na yang asawa mo ha!!! Kung di mo kaya masabi ng harapan try mo daanin sa sulat? Kasi ganyan kami ng hubby ko... ung di na namin kayang sabihin through phone... emails na lang. Kasi at least sa sulat minsan mas may lakas ka ng loob mg-sabi ng totoong nararamdaman mo. Subukan mo lang.

Oh well, suggestion lang naman. mahirap talaga mag-asawa noh? Kung di mo talaga mahal ung tao... siguro mamamatay kang talaga sa konsumisyon!

[RonMay 1]

ako rin di selosa... di rin naman ako talaga insecure.. pero pag ganito ang nangyayari.. ay kakaloka rin.

tngirl, sana kasi makarating ka na dito... pero mas malapit lapit naman... basta contact mo agad ako ha... hihihi..

in all fairness naman, nag-uusap na kami ng asawa ko paunti-unti about it. ano yung gusto ko, siya di masyado nagsasabi kung ano gusto niya. Sabi niya lang mahirap lang din daw sa kanya mag-give up ng friendship na he had for such a long time now. I understand where he's coming from. di naman talaga ako demanding, and nagging.. im really open minded...

just an update... sweet sweetan kami this weekend ng asawa ko... sabi ko nga eh, kung kami kami lang wala naman talaga akong problema. nagtanong pa nga siya sa akin if gusto ko raw pumunta kami sa FL to celebrate our first anniv... ganun... syemps, gusto ko... pero don't know if i can travel pa with this condition na malapit na 8 weeks na lang inaantay namin. dami pang kelangan bilhin for the baby... so baka postponed na muna.

that's good na strong parin yung relationship nyo in spite of the outsider distraction. yun ang importante... masaya sa FL pero i dont think its good for you too while malapit ka ng mag ka baby maliban nalang kung mag sa-sun bathing ka lng dun or konting shopping heheh... kasi halos lahat ng fun stuff don is mga rides, mahabang-habang lalakarin atbp... if you havent been to FL, masaya pag pumunta ka sa sea world, universal studious, Disney pero mapapagod ka lng in your condition. wait ka na lng pag dating ni baby kasi para may picture kayong pamilya ... keep your spirit up!!! God bless!!!

[belovedbyme 0]

That's so good to hear you are doing everything you can to make it work. I had a problem last time with regards to my husband's ex gf but when he arrived from a trip I talked about it. We are doing okay now. I implied what I dont like and what I like and asked him what he dislikes of my behavior. Communication talaga is very important.

[chinese_mutt 11]

"Alam ko na sis!!! ask your husband if he is willing to share custody of the dog...

kumbaga.... Mon-Wed sa ex.. tapos Thurs-Sundays sa inyo.

Para share kayo.. tutal mukhang di naman kalayuan ung bahay ni ex kasi gabi na ayaw pa umuwi."

Kakatawa naman yan !

eh naisip ko lang... siguro malapit lang ung ex nung asawa nya.. kasi gabi na ayaw pang umuwi!!! di ibig sabihin ilang mins ride away lang un.

pero diba? hehe parang anak anakan si Frosty. I-pasa pasa natin sya! may-toyo kasi ung ex na yan!!! dapat dyan ginaganito >>>

[chinese_mutt 11]

ako rin di selosa... di rin naman ako talaga insecure.. pero pag ganito ang nangyayari.. ay kakaloka rin.

tngirl, sana kasi makarating ka na dito... pero mas malapit lapit naman... basta contact mo agad ako ha... hihihi..

in all fairness naman, nag-uusap na kami ng asawa ko paunti-unti about it. ano yung gusto ko, siya di masyado nagsasabi kung ano gusto niya. Sabi niya lang mahirap lang din daw sa kanya mag-give up ng friendship na he had for such a long time now. I understand where he's coming from. di naman talaga ako demanding, and nagging.. im really open minded...

just an update... sweet sweetan kami this weekend ng asawa ko... sabi ko nga eh, kung kami kami lang wala naman talaga akong problema. nagtanong pa nga siya sa akin if gusto ko raw pumunta kami sa FL to celebrate our first anniv... ganun... syemps, gusto ko... pero don't know if i can travel pa with this condition na malapit na 8 weeks na lang inaantay namin. dami pang kelangan bilhin for the baby... so baka postponed na muna.

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

Alam ko na sis!!! ask your husband if he is willing to share custody of the dog...

kumbaga.... Mon-Wed sa ex.. tapos Thurs-Sundays sa inyo.

Para share kayo.. tutal mukhang di naman kalayuan ung bahay ni ex kasi gabi na ayaw pa umuwi.

And i know how you feel about not telling ur family here, ganyan din ako. Mahirap na... syempre in the heat of the moment baka kung anu masabi mo tapos forever na silang galit sa hubby mo. Diba? Eh, andito lang naman kami for you. Kung andyan na ko sa US... pwede tayong mag-chikahan! Unfortunately, mahal pa ang long distance for now. Hehe... so dito muna tayo mag-usap.

Same tayo, medyo yan nga kinatatakutan ko rin pag-dating ko dyan... middle class din kmi dito, pero sobrang spoiled ako sa bahay. mahirap din naman kasi may past nga ung tao, minsan di ko naman matangal sa sarili ko na baka i-cocompare nya ko sa mga ibang GFs and Ex nya. Pero I always try to work on my self-esteem and be secured sa relationship namin.

Di naman ako selosa... and I even encourage my asawa to talk to the ex minsan kasi they have kids (both are already adults) pero may grandkids na sila so feeling ko dapat kahit hiwalay na sila try pa rin nila maging civil. PERO kapatid... exaggerated na yang asawa mo ha!!! Kung di mo kaya masabi ng harapan try mo daanin sa sulat? Kasi ganyan kami ng hubby ko... ung di na namin kayang sabihin through phone... emails na lang. Kasi at least sa sulat minsan mas may lakas ka ng loob mg-sabi ng totoong nararamdaman mo. Subukan mo lang.

Oh well, suggestion lang naman. mahirap talaga mag-asawa noh? Kung di mo talaga mahal ung tao... siguro mamamatay kang talaga sa konsumisyon!

uy!! sweet na ulit sila.. kakaingit!!!

Antayin nyo na si baby... tapos pag-nag-lalakad na si baby.. tska kayo mag-FL. hehehe... para ganda pics nyo sa disney.

tska baka matadtad ka pa nyan... mahirap na. ingat ingat lang hangang lumabas ung baby.

Post mo agad picture ni baby dito ha!! Siguro ang cute ng anak nyo... hehe.

[T_and_A 3]

hahaha... may toyo... kakatawa... pero mejo totoo.... kakaboba din... kaya ako distansya amiga... feeling ko mas madalas mo makakasalamuha mas malaki chance na mahawaan ka... kaya distansya na lang.

[Steve and Nor 0]

I totally agree with you belovedbyme. In my part, I will get uncomfortable feeling and would never allow for them to hang out together, it's okay if they have kids but if not there's no reason for them to keep in touch. You should talk to your husband and tell him what you feel because it doesn;t make sense why your husband and his ex hang out together, they can remain friends but your husband should respect your wishes.

I can totally imagine what you been through but you have to remain strong for the sake of your baby. Be strong and Take care yourself always.

I didn't like the way your husband and ex behaved. I am not a jealous type of person but I am candid of my feelings towards a situation like that. That's a big insult on my part. Every time na uulit ulitin niya ang paghang-out sa ex, there is something going on. They dont have kids . Only dogs? What for? Don't worry too much, the baby will be affected. Get some rest and relax.

thanks for all the support.. dito lang naman ako makapagvent lahat..

as much as possible, im the type of person that will try to understand all things... think things thru taking into consideration each other's place... how my husband feels, how the x feels... most of the time what i feel will be the last... kaya nagkandaloko loko na... it came to this point. but im trying to change it now dito sa US. Syemps, since i got here, at first i was just observing everybody and everyone around me. Pag sa Pinas, kabisado mo lahat. My life there is nothing compared to what im going thru here emotionally. Yes, di kami mayaman,pero di naman din mahirap and ive a good job, good education there... ive got a lot going on for me {its something that won't be taken away from me}. There, I have people doing things for me. I don't have to do any house chores and stuff... tapos dito... ganito... but i don't think of that anymore. I stand up with consequences of my decisions and these are all consequences in domino effect. I don't regret anything i've done, i can't do anything about the past, and can only be careful with what i will do in the future..

That's why i reach out to people here in VJ coz sometimes in order to make guided decisions, we need to reflect thru other people's experiences and opinions that will put you in the right perspective. Syemps, better this way... like no biases. Mahirap nga rin kasi wala kang mapag-kuwentuhan sa family mo, coz me i would like to spare them the worry, to avoid complications. Kahit minsan gustong gusto ko nang magkuwento... pero just always ends up here in VJ. Kaya i really thank you all.

Hay naku!!

TN, I really like for that!! hahaha

tama nga naman mag share na lang sila ng custody! LOL!

Seriously, gusto ko maiyak sa sinabi u T & A. Siguro nga our life will be so much different pag andun na kami.,tayo TN, sa totoo lang din hindi ko sinasabi sa mga relatives ko nor sa family ko if ever na misundrestanding kami ng asawa ko, You are right tn, ayaw ko din naman mag isisp ng masama ang family ko, kc hindi naman msama ang mga asawa natin. mahirap lang kc i share sa family or i-explain to them kc meron na kayong iniingatan na relationship.

I am originally from Tagum City, Davao but I ahbve been here in Mu7ntinlupa for 4 years, learn to be independent and I really learn to stand up for what I believe is right. palaban ako mga Sis at ayoko din na inaapi api ako.

But then I learn to submit to my husband kasi it is also Biblical. I am jsut sio hapopy my husband and I have the same religion, We are both born again Christians at nagkaka-intindihan kami most of the time. If minsan , we have misunderstanding, I just cry and ask for God's guidance and strength.

mahirapo din mag kaintindihan minsan because we have different family background, culture and tradition. It is just matter of understanding each other and be patient as much as possible.But then again, mahirap talaga in our situation.

I have just proven it , that we Filipinas are very sensitive and as much as possible we do not want to cause heartaches to anybody nor to offend them, particularly our husbands. But they just want to say things they want to say even if those words hurt, and then they would apologize later on. But that was tough HUh!! we just receive receive.

So I am glad we can vent in here. I just wish also na magkikita-kita tayo pag anjan na kami jan. I really would want to have Filipina friends there who can be trusted.

Here, in my place I only have one bestfriend who is trustworthy talaga and I get to share everything to her.

But of course mahal natin mga asawa natin, so we need to understand them. Just wish they will be more sensitive and patient too. hahaha.

By husband and I are happy, of course, but then we need to tell everybody that our relationship is far from perfect. But love conquers all. Love is the greatest.

Ano ba yan, mga Sis, nagdrama yata ako.

But Im happy I have got to share here. Sayang, my smartbro is not working i could have just stayed in this thread.

T & A, please be strong. Just pray that God will touch your husband's heart so he will be more sensitive of you and your feeling as a woman. Though we do not know each other personally, your friends here in VJ, will always be here for you.

It is okay to just vent. We are here to listen to anybody and give a helping hand.

God bless us.

[Steve and Nor 0]

Di naman ako selosa... and I even encourage my asawa to talk to the ex minsan kasi they have kids (both are already adults) pero may grandkids na sila so feeling ko dapat kahit hiwalay na sila try pa rin nila maging civil. PERO kapatid... exaggerated na yang asawa mo ha!!! Kung di mo kaya masabi ng harapan try mo daanin sa sulat? Kasi ganyan kami ng hubby ko... ung di na namin kayang sabihin through phone... emails na lang. Kasi at least sa sulat minsan mas may lakas ka ng loob mg-sabi ng totoong nararamdaman mo. Subukan mo lang.

Oh well, suggestion lang naman. mahirap talaga mag-asawa noh? Kung di mo talaga mahal ung tao... siguro mamamatay kang talaga sa konsumisyon!

hahaha!!1 TN, you are very, very correct!! Ako pag nasasaktan ang damdamin ko talgang sinusulatan ko ang asawa ko kc mindsan di ko masabi sa phone. tapos un reply niya at text messages niya ayun, apologize na siya for being insensitive at impatient sometimes. I try to be so nice when explaining to him in the mail about dun sa nararamdaman ko nga.Buti naman at naiintindihan niya naman.

Yes, try TN's suggestion at talagang masasabit you sa kanya lahat.

and TN, you are very correct again! All I thought ako kalang ang nagsasabi na mahirap mag-asawa!! Im so glad I heard it from you TN, hindi pala ako nag-iisa. Well, I know we love our husbands dearly but it is also true na---- MARRIAGE LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS A BED OF ROSES, IT CAN ALSO BE A BED OF NAILS---- hahaha. Kaya nga me vows tayo when we got married kc we do not know what will come-trials, afflictions, hurst, pains, etc, etc, etc! andami dami pa.

But because we love our husbands, we can do it. And God is always with us.

Ang hirap talagang mag-asawa. andami adjustments sa buhay!! hahaha! But I am so grateful God has given me a husband like mine. I am very sure lahat tayo grateful. Un nga lang kaakibat dun ang heartaches. hay naku. Eto pa nga lang malayo sa asawa eh, iyak na ako ng iyak. Pag me nabasa pa ako na experiences ng iba, I cant help but cry. napaka-iyakin ko pa naman. hay naku! nag buhay may-asawa. Me pait, me sakit, me tuwa at saya!!

Thank you mga Sis, sa mga experiences niyo. Alam ko andito lang tayong lahat for each other.

[Steve and Nor 0]

ako rin di selosa... di rin naman ako talaga insecure.. pero pag ganito ang nangyayari.. ay kakaloka rin.

Hi Sis,

Im so happy for you. Ganun naman talag tayo eh, away bati, away bati. yan yata nag buhay me asawa. Sige nga, sabihin nga ng iba jan kung puro ba sila sarap sa buhay me asawa. Im sure wla magsasabi nun, anoh.

Im glad that things are okay now. yes, communication is very important.

siyanga pala. antayin lang ng asawa you na makapanganak you. Sis, im not very good in giving advice Pero pag sexy na u uli, seduce your husband at do not give in yet! hahaha.

Ano ba ung cnabi ko, hindi yata appropriate! Out of context yata. hahha.

Naisip ko lang kc if sa akin nangyari un nangyari sa inyo" Siguro in my mind, eto sasabihin ko- Lagot ka pagkapanganak ko ha, hindi talaga ako mag-gi-give in! ( agad! hahaha)

hay naku, buhay me asawa nga naman!