I Feel like a Slave

[Brad and Vika 129]

I vote it's a troll.

one little sign is he claims he started working 3 or 4th day after getting married.... ead takes at least 60 to 90 days after filing.

something just doesn't sound genuine about this one.

Sounds like someone who isn't familiar with the process and isn't really going through the paperwork most of us are familiar with that goes with the k1/ead/aos.

-S.

Dude you are forgetting about the 90 Days EAD that they Stamp at JFK

When was the last time you saw a foreign, Muslim man write "dude", "gonna", or any of the other many "Americanisms" I'm seeing in these posts?

Is this Platy the troll hunter? Good to see you back!

[Eric&Meijiao 0]

I had an ex g/f like this girl. OO i have hubby i can sit at home.

My wife wants to sit at home but we made one agreement in our case. If i am the only one working, no complaining about money or how its spent. If something is too much we don't get it. If you really want it go back to work and help. She runs the house i run the bills and public side of things.

Its a shame you ran into this. Need to sit with her and discuss and try to come to some mutual agreement you both can live with. If you can't live with it thats a choice you have to make unfortunately.

If it is a troll.. go back to your bridge.. people here have real problems.

Edited May 27, 2009 by Eric&Meijiao

[KingCan 0]

Having dated various American women long term, then living overseas for 5 years, I actually agree with what the website owner discusses. However, some of it is written in rather crude language.

Did you make your wife sign a marriage contract?

Oh yes I did! Made her signed a pre-nuptual agreement and all. I have learned from everybody's mistakes. It may seems un-romantic but a Marriage is a big contract and you have to treat it like its a business and protect your assets and your future if the partnership's going bad.

[justashooter 430]

This is a form of Modern day Pimping being done by American Women/with the ex husband against their foreign Husbands.

http://www.nomarriage.com/

LOL... the website is too funny

if it wasn't so true, it would be funny.

[Ed+Cindy 1]

Having dated various American women long term, then living overseas for 5 years, I actually agree with what the website owner discusses. However, some of it is written in rather crude language.

Did you make your wife sign a marriage contract?

No. She is not an American woman.

[kaffy 2]

to the OP- why did you marry her?

[cool 0]

Still facing all this Stuff from her, Every day a new Lie....

i have a Question if any body knows the answer i will be thankful

in August this year will be 2nd anniversary of our marriage still waiting for green card, every time we go to infopass they say its under process last time they told its under "Investigation" , Contacted our Senator and got a reply from USCIS saying that its security checks and stuff and they can not compromise on national security.

i wonder what if i get divorce from her after our 2nd anniversary before getting GC? will i still have to go back?

i really dont want to go back now, and she is giving me hell... do i have fire for me on both sides?

[Marilyn. 340]

This is a form of Modern day Pimping being done by American Women/with the ex husband against their foreign Husbands.

http://www.nomarriage.com/

LOL... the website is too funny

if it wasn't so true, it would be funny.

[cool 0]

believe me the pain i m going through is Not Funny at All

[Marilyn. 340]

I wasn't laughing at you

[trillium13 84]

Still facing all this Stuff from her, Every day a new Lie....

i have a Question if any body knows the answer i will be thankful

in August this year will be 2nd anniversary of our marriage still waiting for green card, every time we go to infopass they say its under process last time they told its under "Investigation" , Contacted our Senator and got a reply from USCIS saying that its security checks and stuff and they can not compromise on national security.

i wonder what if i get divorce from her after our 2nd anniversary before getting GC? will i still have to go back?

i really dont want to go back now, and she is giving me hell... do i have fire for me on both sides?

Remind us again where you're at in this process...I'm honestly too lazy to go back and read through the whole thread. Have you had an interview?

[cool 0]

came to US on k1 had interview on march 2008, still waiting for GC approval

[Kathryn41 3,205]

The two year anniversary doesn't count if you don't have your green card yet. If you don't have your green card and you divorce you will have no grounds to stay in the US. The two years is only important in determining what type of green card you will get. If it is approved and you have been married (and are still married) less than 2 years, then you will get a 2 year conditional green card and will need to remove conditions in 2 years. You can remove conditions by yourself if you are divorced. If you are married (and still married) more than 2 years when your green card is approved then you will get a 10 year card and don't need to remove conditions. You can get divorced and still be a permanent resident. The thing is, you can't get divorced before you get your green card and still be able to remain in the US.

[Brad and Vika 129]

The two year anniversary doesn't count if you don't have your green card yet. If you don't have your green card and you divorce you will have no grounds to stay in the US. The two years is only important in determining what type of green card you will get. If it is approved and you have been married (and are still married) less than 2 years, then you will get a 2 year conditional green card and will need to remove conditions in 2 years. You can remove conditions by yourself if you are divorced. If you are married (and still married) more than 2 years when your green card is approved then you will get a 10 year card and don't need to remove conditions. You can get divorced and still be a permanent resident. The thing is, you can't get divorced before you get your green card and still be able to remain in the US.

I thought there was a procedure for that. If the marriage was legitimate and the divorce happened before the green card was granted, the beneficiary can apply to stay anyway right? I don't know about the relevance of time in the US, but I wonder if there isn't an appeal.

[Sandrila 1]

Cool, i dont know how you can remain "cool" in a situation like this.

Some of it sounds similiar to what I am going through, however, I have taken very good care of my husband and haven't asked for anything in return but his love and care.

I am sorry that you have met someone so selfish and controlling.

I think you need to start standing up for yourself and find a way to separate yourself from this woman.

SHE IS POISON. I admire you for doing your best to support her financially but she has done nothing to support you emotionally.

we all have our issues and vices but for her to do all what she wants and keep you down like she does is very unethical and exhausting I am sure.

A marriage is a partnership. The respect and emotional/financial support and caring for the other goes BOTH ways.

Unfortunately some relationships cannot be salvaged and once set in their ways or unyielding, people cannot and will not change.

i wish you the best of luck and strength from GOD above to achieve the respect, peace and happiness you deserve.