help me i'm so depressed, so urgent

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hi, i;m really in a bad situation now and i'm so depressed and i need ypur help. my husband did his interview in embassy 2 months ago, the CO put him in administrative process, few days ago we sent an email to the embassy to see if there is any update in my husband's case, they said that our records show that the CO requested additional proof to our relation, now we don't know what that means? is that a bad thing ? and in case we don't have additional proof will he be denied? we submittedall all our picturs at the interview date, many emails and our chattings every day, i don't have a proof of our calls because i use international cards with the home land line, we don't know what additional proof they need, please i need your help with me now.. any suggestions? what you think i can send more? i have emails and our chattings after his interview and thats it.

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you said husband,right? how about a copy of your marriage license? affidavits from family,or friends stating that your relationship is genuine? life insurance policies? joint bank accounts?

Edited May 20, 2009 by IamGodsProperty

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

If the CO asked for additional information at the interview then they should have given your husband a slip of paper describing what they wanted from him. Did he get a slip of paper? If so, what precisely does it say? If not, can you ask the consulate for a copy of the request? Perhaps they mailed the request to him but he didn't receive it. You really need to know the exact wording of the request in order to know what to send them.

Don't be too upset. The fact that they're asking for more information is a good sign. It means they're still considering his case.

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What does the sheet that your husband received at the end of his interview say?

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you said husband,right? how about a copy of your marriage license? affidavits from family,or friends stating that your relationship is genuine? life insurance policies? joint bank accounts?

Thank you for your answer..

i did send and submit an original copy of our marriage contract, i arrived to the US 8 months ago thats why i don't have or know about the life insurance or the joint back account , i will send them a notrized letter from me and my family hopfuly that can help. but they need mooooooore proof!!!

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If the CO asked for additional information at the interview then they should have given your husband a slip of paper describing what they wanted from him. Did he get a slip of paper? If so, what precisely does it say? If not, can you ask the consulate for a copy of the request? Perhaps they mailed the request to him but he didn't receive it. You really need to know the exact wording of the request in order to know what to send them.

Don't be too upset. The fact that they're asking for more information is a good sign. It means they're still considering his case.

yes, my husband got a paper at the end of the interview, this paper includes many boxes of diffirent 221(g), the officer didn't check any of the boxes, he just wrote at the bottom of the paper ( administrative process ) and thats it! and he told my husband we will call you after 2 weeks ! , i know he is in adm. process but no body told him that the officer needs more proof.. we just emailed them by accident and they replied they need more proof,, i'm sure that my husband's case was lying on one of the desks while that we're dying every day.

What does the sheet that your husband received at the end of his interview say?

it just says Administrative process

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

If the CO asked for additional information at the interview then they should have given your husband a slip of paper describing what they wanted from him. Did he get a slip of paper? If so, what precisely does it say? If not, can you ask the consulate for a copy of the request? Perhaps they mailed the request to him but he didn't receive it. You really need to know the exact wording of the request in order to know what to send them.

Don't be too upset. The fact that they're asking for more information is a good sign. It means they're still considering his case.

yes, my husband got a paper at the end of the interview, this paper includes many boxes of diffirent 221(g), the officer didn't check any of the boxes, he just wrote at the bottom of the paper ( administrative process ) and thats it! and he told my husband we will call you after 2 weeks ! , i know he is in adm. process but no body told him that the officer needs more proof.. we just emailed them by accident and they replied they need more proof,, i'm sure that my husband's case was lying on one of the desks while that we're dying every day.

What does the sheet that your husband received at the end of his interview say?

it just says Administrative process

Ok, it sounds like you need to send them another email. Tell them that the sheet your husband received after the interview is the ONLY correspondence you've gotten from the consulate since the interview. Tell them that the sheet didn't have any boxes checked, that the CO wrote "administrative process" on it, and that your husband was told they'd call him after two weeks but never did. Tell them you need to know precisely what additional information is being requested so that you can send it to them. Make sure you send the new email as a REPLY to their previous email to you, and that their previous reply is attached, just in case the person who receives the new email is not the same person who previously replied to you.

It sounds to me like somebody screwed up here. Perhaps your case is being investigated (which is usually what AP means), and no additional information was ever requested. In this case, the person who replied to your email probably misinterpreted the status of your case, and just presumed more information was needed. Otherwise, if additional information WAS requested then they somehow failed to notify your husband, or the notification was lost in the mail. In either case, what your husband was told doesn't match what the email said, and you need to find out which version is correct.

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Another idea for more proof would be cards and letters sent between both of you with the envelopes to show dates sent. Also, I use a calling card at times too, so what I did was kept copies of the Philippine calling card purchases I made to show I was buying calling cards to save money. Do you have any receipts to show of your purchased calling cards? We will submit all this if need be and once they look at the whole works, I think we will be fine. Gather all you have bewtween you both to use in your defense that your relationship is true and genuine. Even small things count. Good Luck!

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Edited May 20, 2009 by moparmusclecars

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

Another idea for more proof would be cards and letters sent between both of you with the envelopes to show dates sent. Also, I use a calling card at times too, so what I did was kept copies of the Philippine calling card purchases I made to show I was buying calling cards to save money. Do you have any receipts to show of your purchased calling cards? We will submit all this if need be and once they look at the whole works, I think we will be fine. Gather all you have bewtween you both to use in your defense that your relationship is true and genuine. Even small things count. Good Luck!

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Cards and letters with postmarked envelopes are good evidence.

Can you get an itemized list from the company that sells the calling cards showing dates, times, and phone numbers called? If not, the cards and receipts aren't going to be much use in proving an ongoing relationship. I've seen that fact repeated many times on this forum. For any evidence you provide, you should be able to show some reasonable connection between you and your fiance/e. For instance, for someone who did not use calling cards, a phone bill with an itemized list of calls would be good evidence, while a phone bill that only gave a total for international calls would not.

I think the OP's case is a little more complicated, though. It's not clear that they actually need any more proof of an ongoing relationship. She got this information in a reply to an email about the status of her case, but it doesn't jive with the sheet her fiance received at the interview. I think she should keep on them until she gets a detailed description of what, if anything, they're asking for.

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Ok, it sounds like you need to send them another email. Tell them that the sheet your husband received after the interview is the ONLY correspondence you've gotten from the consulate since the interview. Tell them that the sheet didn't have any boxes checked, that the CO wrote "administrative process" on it, and that your husband was told they'd call him after two weeks but never did. Tell them you need to know precisely what additional information is being requested so that you can send it to them. Make sure you send the new email as a REPLY to their previous email to you, and that their previous reply is attached, just in case the person who receives the new email is not the same person who previously replied to you.

It sounds to me like somebody screwed up here. Perhaps your case is being investigated (which is usually what AP means), and no additional information was ever requested. In this case, the person who replied to your email probably misinterpreted the status of your case, and just presumed more information was needed. Otherwise, if additional information WAS requested then they somehow failed to notify your husband, or the notification was lost in the mail. In either case, what your husband was told doesn't match what the email said, and you need to find out which version is correct.

thank you for your answer, i sent them email yesterday to explain to me what all this mean, i'm pretty sure that they will repeat the

same email of requesting moree proof.

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Another idea for more proof would be cards and letters sent between both of you with the envelopes to show dates sent. Also, I use a calling card at times too, so what I did was kept copies of the Philippine calling card purchases I made to show I was buying calling cards to save money. Do you have any receipts to show of your purchased calling cards? We will submit all this if need be and once they look at the whole works, I think we will be fine. Gather all you have bewtween you both to use in your defense that your relationship is true and genuine. Even small things count. Good Luck!

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i don't have receipts of purchased cards i just have some of the cards i used, and i don't have letters. we didn't thought these letters can help because we chat every day and sendinig letters overseas really makes no sense.

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i don't have receipts of purchased cards i just have some of the cards i used, and i don't have letters. we didn't thought these letters can help because we chat every day and sendinig letters overseas really makes no sense.

Sending letters is romantic, if nothing else

But you chat every day - what program do you use to chat? Most chat programs (MSN, Yahoo, AIM, Skype...) allows you to save chat logs. Start saving them every day if you can. My fiance and I use Skype and without any input from me, the program has saved chatlogs from December 28th of last year when I installed a new version of it. I'm sure I could've had chat logs from over a year ago if I hadn't bought a new computer and reinstalled everything

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If the CO asked for additional information at the interview then they should have given your husband a slip of paper describing what they wanted from him. Did he get a slip of paper? If so, what precisely does it say? If not, can you ask the consulate for a copy of the request? Perhaps they mailed the request to him but he didn't receive it. You really need to know the exact wording of the request in order to know what to send them.

Don't be too upset. The fact that they're asking for more information is a good sign. It means they're still considering his case.

yes, my husband got a paper at the end of the interview, this paper includes many boxes of diffirent 221(g), the officer didn't check any of the boxes, he just wrote at the bottom of the paper ( administrative process ) and thats it! and he told my husband we will call you after 2 weeks ! , i know he is in adm. process but no body told him that the officer needs more proof.. we just emailed them by accident and they replied they need more proof,, i'm sure that my husband's case was lying on one of the desks while that we're dying every day.

What does the sheet that your husband received at the end of his interview say?

it just says Administrative process

Have you seen the paper that the CO gave to your husband? It sounds odd that it does not tell you what you need to submit. For example, when my wife had her interview she was given a blue sheet pertaining to section 221. That sheet listed specific items (information about ex spouse, correspondence for a specific time period) that needed to submitted. Please check the paper that your husband received. There may be more information there.

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i don't have receipts of purchased cards i just have some of the cards i used, and i don't have letters. we didn't thought these letters can help because we chat every day and sendinig letters overseas really makes no sense.

Sending letters is romantic, if nothing else

But you chat every day - what program do you use to chat? Most chat programs (MSN, Yahoo, AIM, Skype...) allows you to save chat logs. Start saving them every day if you can. My fiance and I use Skype and without any input from me, the program has saved chatlogs from December 28th of last year when I installed a new version of it. I'm sure I could've had chat logs from over a year ago if I hadn't bought a new computer and reinstalled everything

we had all our chat logs since 9 months ago, my husband sent them all, and i keep saving all our yahoo chat every day to send them again...

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If the CO asked for additional information at the interview then they should have given your husband a slip of paper describing what they wanted from him. Did he get a slip of paper? If so, what precisely does it say? If not, can you ask the consulate for a copy of the request? Perhaps they mailed the request to him but he didn't receive it. You really need to know the exact wording of the request in order to know what to send them.

Don't be too upset. The fact that they're asking for more information is a good sign. It means they're still considering his case.

yes, my husband got a paper at the end of the interview, this paper includes many boxes of diffirent 221(g), the officer didn't check any of the boxes, he just wrote at the bottom of the paper ( administrative process ) and thats it! and he told my husband we will call you after 2 weeks ! , i know he is in adm. process but no body told him that the officer needs more proof.. we just emailed them by accident and they replied they need more proof,, i'm sure that my husband's case was lying on one of the desks while that we're dying every day.

What does the sheet that your husband received at the end of his interview say?

it just says Administrative process

Have you seen the paper that the CO gave to your husband? It sounds odd that it does not tell you what you need to submit. For example, when my wife had her interview she was given a blue sheet pertaining to section 221. That sheet listed specific items (information about ex spouse, correspondence for a specific time period) that needed to submitted. Please check the paper that your husband received. There may be more information there.

yes i saw the paper , my husband sent it to me the same day he got it, it's a printed paper of 221 g includes many reasons for denial or temporary denial but no one of them checked, the officer just wrote at the bottom of the paper ( administrative process ) and he told him that he will review his case again and call him after 2 weeks, well i think the officer decided that my husband's case need more proof but no one of the embassy called to let us know of the officer's decision, we just found that by accident ,i sent an email to the embassy a week ago to inquire about what exactly the officer needs , but yet no body answered me or my husband, i'll wait more 2 days and send them another one again.. i need to know what's going on