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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

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"True Love is never associated with violence,deception,abuse ( emotional,physical or verbal) constant sacrifice for the good of only one person,jealousy,fear or mistrust"

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Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

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Whether he would have died at a later time is unknown. What is known is that his wife was more concerned with her immigration status and boyfriend than her gravely ill husband. Her husband was admitted to the hospital in January. A Filipino doctor notified an American friend that there was a retired American in the hospital that had received no visitors in over a month. The American friend notified a local expatriate group who organized visits and raised funds for his medicine. It was only after the other Americans began visiting him that the family of Janaleze Hunt began showing up at the hospital. He has a stepson in Arizona who became involved with the expat group trying to help his father. His father wanted to be buried in Arizona. Janaleze Hunt's family opted for the burial in the Philippines.

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

US Embassy Manila website. bringing your spouse/fiancee to USA

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3204.html

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

Edited by lotus101

"True Love is never associated with violence,deception,abuse ( emotional,physical or verbal) constant sacrifice for the good of only one person,jealousy,fear or mistrust"

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National Domestic Violence Hotline

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

WOW....

Something got lost in TRANSLATION again..... :devil:

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

geez, relax. I was not saying you implied the old man should be abused. there are many forms of Elder Abuse. he was penniless in the Philippines. he receives an SS Check that is deposited in a joint account. I didn't see anywhere that said she forwarded any money to him in the Philippines.

no need to respond to your other comments....

US Embassy Manila website. bringing your spouse/fiancee to USA

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3204.html

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

WOW....

Something got lost in TRANSLATION again..... :devil:

:yes:

US Embassy Manila website. bringing your spouse/fiancee to USA

http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3204.html

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

WOW....

Something got lost in TRANSLATION again..... :devil:

:yes:

Sometimes people want to hear what they want to hear or see... I understood exactly what you were trying to say Roy. :thumbs:

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tanung ko lang po alam ba ng USembassy ito sa manila, nagtatanung lang po...

09/28/08-green card received

1-751

07/02/10-mailed it 2day

07/06/10-they received my application forms

07/13/10-received notice receipt(gc extended for one year)

07/28/10-received biometric appointment

09/23/10 GC approved!!!

9/26/20 Gota pproval notice

10/01/10 GC receivedd

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

geez, relax. I was not saying you implied the old man should be abused. there are many forms of Elder Abuse. he was penniless in the Philippines. he receives an SS Check that is deposited in a joint account. I didn't see anywhere that said she forwarded any money to him in the Philippines.

no need to respond to your other comments....

Geezzz! sorry for misunderstanding...I was in a hurry to responded to your post; and was not able to read the website you was reffering to, somebody knocked on the door. :D

yes I agree, what the Filipina wife done to her husband is kinda neglect not only financially but also emotionally.

but we still don't know the "whole story" ............If ever this woman know about this website and shes reading about the issue, I hope she will come out and speak her side, speak the truth about what is really happening.

"True Love is never associated with violence,deception,abuse ( emotional,physical or verbal) constant sacrifice for the good of only one person,jealousy,fear or mistrust"

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National Domestic Violence Hotline

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

Are you kidding me!! Where did you get that the old man was abuse?? STOP PUTTING THE WORDS IN MY MOUTH BECAUSE I NEVER IMPLYING THE OLD MAN SHOULD BE ABUSE....NO NEED TO GIVE ME INFORMATION ABOUT IT because I already know about it long time ago before you know it. :devil:

EDIT: YOU MUST BE OLD THEN AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IS JUST STOP PROJECTING MY POST INTO YOURSELF....

WOW....

Something got lost in TRANSLATION again..... :devil:

Duhh... that is normal sometimes People MISUNDERSTOOD other people what they are trying to say....even the native english speaker can misunderstand to his/her fellow native english speaker. :bonk:

"True Love is never associated with violence,deception,abuse ( emotional,physical or verbal) constant sacrifice for the good of only one person,jealousy,fear or mistrust"

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National Domestic Violence Hotline

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

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Why do I have this feeling that somebody here is a relative to someone... If you all know what I mean. :whistle:

The fact that the wife is enjoying the leisure of being with her boyfriend in Va. instead of caring for her husband - or at least be there during his last dying days - is enough for me to think of her as heartless. There may be another side of this story, but still, you took the vows of in sickness and health, etc. when you got married and you are supposed to take the vows in your heart if you truly love the person you married to. From what I see, she could be a "fairweather wife" then.

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Link shows pictures of Janaleze and her lover Albert Dermott of Virginia. He was very hostile to expatriates in the Philippines who were trying to assist Mr. Hunt with medicines. This expatriate group even offered a roundtrip ticket to Janaleze and she refused it.

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2310

http://www.livingincebuforums.com/ipb/inde...ost&id=2300

Is that the man who she hugging is her new lover? what about that Filipino guy is he also her BF? I am confused about these thing.........anyway if she only working as a care giver probably the salary is not enough for the 3 of them for her son, and for her old sick hubby. thats probably why she refused to get back her old hubby to the US. she cannot able to take care of him full time because shes busy to earn for a living.... I know that as a wife. she have responsibilities to her husband. she could have try her best to see her hubby atleast even at his last breath. also I am wondering what happened to the other Family of this old man? are they aware of what happened to him in the Philippines. if so, why they never request to bring his dead body to the US. are they heartless too!?

personally,,, I don't want to judge this woman that she is really a good or a bad person because we never heard yet her side. and remember sometimes the news is NOT 100% accurate.

Also, I dont think that its ALL her faults why her husband died. her husband died because of the acute disease; and besides he's too old and its natural people die.

It maybe its her fault because she's not sending some money to buy his medicine and other expenses in the hospital but even then you cannot garantee that the old man can survive.

:huh: a little reading info for you. Elder Abuse... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elder_abuse

her husband has a monthly pension from ssa amounting to $1000.00. in the phils. $1000 is big enough to support her husband medicine and hospital bills unless she is supporting the bf and her whole family in cdo.

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Why do I have this feeling that somebody here is a relative to someone... If you all know what I mean. :whistle:

The fact that the wife is enjoying the leisure of being with her boyfriend in Va. instead of caring for her husband - or at least be there during his last dying days - is enough for me to think of her as heartless. There may be another side of this story, but still, you took the vows of in sickness and health, etc. when you got married and you are supposed to take the vows in your heart if you truly love the person you married to. From what I see, she could be a "fairweather wife" then.

You read my mind exactly!!! :thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs:

Yes, everyone has their own good sides and bad sides but if you were given a chance with all resources would you still say "NO" to it? The wife is the immediate relative, the stepson (her mom died long time ago) was waiting for the SPA (maybe someone will not understand what SPA means - SPECIAL POWER OF ATTORNEY) I suggest read all the group e-mail conversations and you will picture out what happened. The siblings of the late Tom live in other states and has no idea where he was as they have no communication for quite a while. The cousins were asking help to bring him back to the US but once again they can't do it without the wife's help. The VA (not Virginia state but for Veterans Affair if i'm right) can't send him back home because he is not consider "POOR" to simplify the term they used in the news. He gets his pension thru US joint account which the wife also have an access as she has her own atm.

Now, if you're husband is dying whether he is old or young would you rather choose your green card than him? This is simply means there is no love in this but status is more important. Or maybe we can say oh he's dying he can't do anything for my greencard so let it him die. Denying her DAUGHTER take note not son (check the picture in IMEEM it's in the woman's profile) in the USCIS is already a RED FLAG what about I CANT GO HOME BECAUSE MY GC has not arrived yet but she has an extension letter so means she can travel outside the US and can GO BACK. But oh yeah WE HAVE NO MONEY FOR ROUND TRIP TICKET, what about those who are willing to buy her ticket, why did she refuse? Tagalog idiom " PAG GUSTO ME PARAAN PAG AYAW ME DAHILAN" does it apply here?

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