im so confused..please help me

[jayhoneyche 1]

my fiance is from the philippines..been there several times too

my question is that why they will accuse my fiance such things????

[Jokris27 0]

my fiance is from the philippines..been there several times too

my question is that why they will accuse my fiance such things????

because Philippines is a high fraud country:-), there's one member here who just went through the fraud unit also from the Philippines, from my readings i think she eventually received her visa, maybe you could ask her, or look into her post, i think it's ariesgirl if i'm not mistaken,maybe she could help you

[SirJon 0]

I guess as it has been said in an earlier post, they were trying to rattle your fianceé. As I understand it, there is a problem with relationship fraud in the Philippines. Your fianceé will more than likely be under more scrutiny than if she was from a different part of the world.

The fact of the matter is that it is YOUR relationship that counts here, and it sounds like you should be in good position due to visits and all of your other evidence.

I wish you all the best with getting flights to be with her, and I wish her luck with her interview.

[jayhoneyche 1]

thank you very much to you all of you

[jayhoneyche 1]

So you mean to say she will be into more interrogation and the room that they gave her is the fraud unit?

[jayhoneyche 1]

attention aries girl! i was trying to leave a message but i cannot get through..

PLEASE!!!

hi ariesgirl,i have been informed that you have been through a lot of things but thank god everything is ok now.at the moment i am so desperate..can u please give me some advice as my fiance will have her next interview this monday,she was there thursday and was ask to come back monday,please help me.

[Steve and Nor 0]

hi i have a question my fiance got her interview yesterday and they want her to come back and have her final interview next week,,

we were very sad..my fiance was crying

the case was this:

1.)my fiance's sister has been married to a USC for 7 years..marriage was enter in good faith but things didnt work out,USC husband had secret affairs,at first the sister of my fiance tried to accept everything but he never changed which put the marriage on the rocks,since january of 2008 they have been living seperately,and in august of 2008 the husband filed for he divorce just after she got her citizenship,the divorce was final in january 2009,the sister of my fiance had found a new love also and since she was divorced already she filed a fiance petition to her boyfriend.

now at my fiance's interview the officer was accusing her that her sister's past marriage was fraud and she will do the same thing also.my fiance told the officer that's not true,her sister marriage was bonafide and real,they were really inlove 7 years ago and they tried everything to save the marriage but its not healthy for them anymore that's why the USC husband filed a divorce.and one more thing OURS hasnt anything to do with what happen to their lives.

we loved each other and we all have our proofs,,(Emails,calls,chat,multiple trips)

2.)second question was my employer, i have asked this question before already and i even frontload it in the application that i send.

in 2007 i was employed by my fiance's uncle.i have been working with him EVEN before i met my fiance which was in 2008,we were introduced online by her uncle who happens to be my employer,i have been visiting my fiance several times to be with her.now they were accusing her that everything was "planned".my fiance said no and she prove that our relationship was for real.she was even crying because she felt so hurt.how can they accused her such things like that when everything was for real???

they asked her to come again next week for her final interview.please help me what is the best hing to do?i feel sorry for my fiance that she experienced all of this.please advice us on what is the best thing to do.

thank you friends

Hi there,

What Im going to share you now is just based on what I read and on what I heard, yes, they probabaly just wanted to rattle your fiancee coz maybe they want to see her expression with what they were saying as they were really having background checkup. But look at the bright side, your fiancee was asked to come back the next week and was not even denied right away. In most cases here in my place, if the Consul found that the marriage is fraud ( or so they thought it is) he would automatically deny a visa.

This was according to my friend who was already interviewed before.

Please pray for it.

[jayhoneyche 1]

thank you very much...

we are praying that everything will be alright,actually there is nothing fraud here and the officer was accusing her but she answered them right.i hope this will turn out fine.

question:if i send an email or letter or sending her a new letter of intent would that be a help???

[mrsjeffs 0]

Her interview would be Monday,I woudnt have enough time t get a replacement to cover for me for my job.are there any other options?

Well, what are your priorities?

I also think it would be best for him to go to the interview but he NEEDS his job esp now. IMO.

[Peace be still 6]

One of the main issues is that you are working for your fiance Unclem, and that is how you met. Unfortunately it is a big red flag for fraud, even though this is not a fraudulant relationship. I don't think you being there will make too much of a difference. The first thing they will think is that her Uncle payed your way there. You should not have to prove anything about her sisters previous marriage, and I think that is a load of bull if you ask me. I hope that it goes well for you and your fiance in the end, and if not you may have to go and get married and file a spouse petition. My friends CR1 was sent back to the USCIS because she met her husband through his uncle and her husband's uncle was a co-sponsor on the AOS.

[Ed+Cindy 1]

Her interview would be Monday,I woudnt have enough time t get a replacement to cover for me for my job.are there any other options?

Well, what are your priorities?

I also think it would be best for him to go to the interview but he NEEDS his job esp now. IMO.

You can always get another job. If it is really the person they will spend their life with (and not a exotic fling), I would leave my job today. Depends on the seriousness of his relationship though. I think some people in foreign relationships marry just to be in the US, without spending more than a couple of weeks together, particularly when the foreigner is from a country that can’t easily visit the US. Sometimes the marriage is more serious. Only the OP can judge what the value of his relationship is verses his other obligations in life.

Think of it this way: what would you do if the visa was denied. If you would eventually end the relationship, then maybe its not serious enough. If you would leave the US to be with them, then it’s worth fighting for.

[Mr Nicholbum 0]

if it were me, and they denied us for any reason, I would appeal, appeal, appeal and apply again. Show that you are interested in the person, not the country (which I'm sure you have already done).

[jayhoneyche 1]

got an early flight and leaving tomorrow to be with her on her interview..how can they say that my employer paid for my trip when i can pay it myself.i have been working there EVEN before i met her.

can u please enlighten me would it be an advantage if i will be there??and if they ask me to marry her i can do it right there and then...

would they interview me also???

thank you

[jayhoneyche 1]

i was reading the thread of ariesgirl..been advised that she went through this also..

from ariesgirl thread:

As i have read in some thread, there's what they called redflag, one of those is the big age gap. Of course at first since the consul didn't know the background of the relationship, and they think that there's something to be cleared of or to clarify, they forward the case to the fraud unit, who conducts interview in a very detailed way which takes long hours. The applicant will ask first to answer a 2 pages questionnaire which includes educational background, the name of the parents and siblings and their ages, the work history, the residence since birth, some questions about the relationship, how and where did u meet, if you have engagement ring, and even the home address sketch.

-----this is exactly what happen to my fiance,now my question is that was she on fraud unit already on her last interview basing on what ariesgirl experienced?this is all that she've experienced,ask her to answer a questionnaire,sketch home address,ask about parents and siblings..etc etc...

now my question is what is her 2nd interview for?another fraud unit????

please help me...

[jayhoneyche 1]

UPDATE:::

my fiance had her interview monday,i accompanied her but i just stayed at the waiting area.she was interviewd for 6hrs been questioning her/rattling her.i feel sorry for her.they told her a lot of things which are not true,they even told her i had a bad background which is not true,she even told them to ask me to come inside so that they can ask me but they didnt call me.they've been forcing her to sign the withdrawal but she did not sign it.she questioned them everything over and over again.she was able to answer all the questions.she was interviewd by a filipino officer then a with a american officer who she said was a lot nicer!before she left she was asked to sign a paper then with the signature of the officer beside her signature,written there was all d questions they ask her and all the answer.

they told her they will just call her and was advised to bring her NBI id.they did not return her passport but they returned our pictures..

what is happening next?what can we do now?

we are all disheartened with everything that's happening.please advise us

thank you and godbless us