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mrsjeffs Explorer

mrsjeffs   0

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I carved "I love Bush" in my forehead back in 2000. Regretting that now.

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

If this is a totally isolated incident, then I wouldn't worry about it too much, but if he cuts himself regularly (or even not that regularly, but often enough), this can be a form of a mental illness. People that "cut" themselves usually have self-esteem and depression issues.

You should probably talk to him about this and make sure you fully understand what his mental state is.

Good luck.

I agree :thumbs:

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07.28.08 --------- Married Mr Jeffs

11.13.08 --------- Mailed AOS to Chicago

12.01.08 --------- Checks Cashed

12.08.08 --------- Received NOA1

12.11.08 --------- Received Biometrics

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04.07.09 --------- Received Interview Letter

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canadian_wife Grand Master

canadian_wife   1,829

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I agree, even if it is a total non-issue for the medical, it should be enough of an issue for you to speak to him about it.

Good luck.

USCIS
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February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1

NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC

Medical
May 4, 2009

Interview
May, 26, 2009

POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

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October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

Chica Yeyé Grand Master

Chica Yeyé   41

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It might come up during his medical. Will it cause issues? It has the potential, since it is harmful behavior and the panel physicians do not tend to take self-mutilation lightly (and they should not). I would presume your spouse has sought counseling of some sort and can provide a letter from a mental health care professional?

p.s. TYPING IN CAPS IS BAD MANNERS.

Edited by *Len*
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Bobby+Umit   161

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My tatoos would be a real problem then???

Two different things.

He could always get it tattooed over...

But the OP should talk to him about it...

My Advice is usually based on "Worst Case Scenario" and what is written in the rules/laws/instructions. That is the way I roll... -Protect your Status - file before your I-94 expires.

WARNING: Phrases in this post may sound meaner than they were intended to be. Read the Adjudicator's Field Manual from USCIS

married1989 Explorer

married1989   0

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Hi i talked to my husband today, he says its completely healed, no redess or anything like that, hes gotten real tan lately from his construction job, especially his arms so it covers even more. It blends with his skin color now so i dont think its a problem anymore. im just gna hope for the best and put it in gods hands. hopefully he has a good medical and interview, and it shouldnt be a problem, hes never been on drugs or tried to commit suicide or any of that crazy stuuff, and its not like he did it yesterday to wear its highly visible. im just gna pray for the best at his medical and his interview, and that he gets the visa, and we can be together again. ive been too stressed for too long and now i have something to be happy about, his upcoming interview. im going to pray for the best and i know god will make it work for us. i will only be positive from now on.

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HannahP   119

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When I was in seventh grade, a girl carved "I Love Satin" into her arm.

She had misspelled Satan.

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

I-129 sent: 01-07-07

NOA2 approved: 04-02-07

packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

interview date: 06-25-07 - approved!

marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

AOS/EAD/AP NOA1: 09-14-07

AOS approved: 11-19-07

green card received: 11-26-07

lifting of conditions filed: 10-29-09

NOA received: 11-09-09

lifting of conditions approved: 12-11-09

canadian_wife Grand Master

canadian_wife   1,829

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When I was in seventh grade, a girl carved "I Love Satin" into her arm.

She had misspelled Satan.

Maybe she just really liked silky fabrics

USCIS
August 12, 2008 - petition sent
August 16, 2008 - NOA-1
February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1

NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC

Medical
May 4, 2009

Interview
May, 26, 2009

POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

September 29, 2015 - sent letter to senator.

October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

HannahP Proficient

HannahP   119

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When I was in seventh grade, a girl carved "I Love Satin" into her arm.

She had misspelled Satan.

Maybe she just really liked silky fabrics

Nooo! We asked. 'cause she was, like, gothy.

"Why do you love Satin?"

"No, it's Satan."

"....."

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

I-129 sent: 01-07-07

NOA2 approved: 04-02-07

packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

interview date: 06-25-07 - approved!

marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

AOS/EAD/AP NOA1: 09-14-07

AOS approved: 11-19-07

green card received: 11-26-07

lifting of conditions filed: 10-29-09

NOA received: 11-09-09

lifting of conditions approved: 12-11-09

Jauque Community Regular

Jauque   1

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My tatoos would be a real problem then???

Two different things.

He could always get it tattooed over...

But the OP should talk to him about it...

There you go if scar ointment doesn't work tattoo over it.

K-1

05/05/2009 - NOA1

07/17/2009 - NOA2

08/27/2009 - Visa Received

10/09/2009 - Married

AOS/EAD

11/18/2009 - NOA1

01/15/2010 - EAD Approved

02/25/2010 - AOS Interview

Adjuticator's Field Manual

Old VJ Adjuticator Q/A

Disclaimer : 100% of the time I only think I know what I'm talking about.

atk_721 Community Regular

atk_721   0

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Hi i talked to my husband today, he says its completely healed, no redess or anything like that, hes gotten real tan lately from his construction job, especially his arms so it covers even more. It blends with his skin color now so i dont think its a problem anymore. im just gna hope for the best and put it in gods hands. hopefully he has a good medical and interview, and it shouldnt be a problem, hes never been on drugs or tried to commit suicide or any of that crazy stuuff, and its not like he did it yesterday to wear its highly visible. im just gna pray for the best at his medical and his interview, and that he gets the visa, and we can be together again. ive been too stressed for too long and now i have something to be happy about, his upcoming interview. im going to pray for the best and i know god will make it work for us. i will only be positive from now on.

Thats good........Just believe in God and every thing will be fine and you guys will be together...trust me we all have so many ifs and buts in our minds before interview.Keep in mind...whatever happens ,happens for a good reason....so dont worry and relax.....

Mar 4,06 I-130 sent ,rcvd Mar 7,06

Oct 24,08 USC, called to Upgrade

Nov 1,08 Citizenship certificate sent

Jan 3,09 Case upgraded.

Jan 6,09 TOUCHED!!!

Feb 13,09 Approved : )

Feb 20,09 Case # assigned

Mar 2,09 bill paid online,DS-3032 emailed

Mar 4,09 NVC recvd fee

Mar 10,09 AOS sent

Mar 30,09 mailed DS-230

Apr 13,09 CASE COMPLETED(per operators)

Apr 20,09 FINAL REVIEW

Apr 21,09 CASE COMPLETED (per AVR)

Apr 23,09 called:INTERVIEW JUNE 24th

Jun 24,09 AP, 1-3 months

Calling DOS begins,here is what I was told

Jul 7,09 No info @ DOS

Jul 10,09 Case sent to DC-pending

Jul 17,09 Pending

Jul 24,09 Pending,you can call every day for update but the day they call him for passport it means something is up so you get to know it before we do

Jul 31,09 Pending AP

Aug 06,09 Call from USEM requesting to submit passport

Aug 07,09 Every thing looks very good,visa issuance is up to the consulate!!!

Aug 07,09 Passport submitted

Aug 07,09 USEM is requesting applicant's passport :)

Aug 17,09-call 1 Visa issued Aug 3rd,EM recvd passport on 10th but still havent returned it

Aug 17,09-call 2 Case pending some kind of processing (URGHHHHHHHHH NOT AGAIN)

Aug 18,09 call to pick up passport,picked up from AMEX

Sep 26,09 REUNION :)

married1989 Explorer

married1989   0

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thanks for your kind words, everyone needs them now and then. its just this journey is so stressful and it makes you think about the negatives. i pray to god everyday and inshallah everything goes smooth and ill see him soon. good luck everyone!!!!

 
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