help please it is a Nightmare

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Well this is not the first time I have been poked at by a certain member . On the same thought path that was presented I can see why some babies are taken from the unfit before they are born because of the evil in their parents souls kills them. The wrath can be powerful when you choose to stand judge.

I know you are a parent. How can you say this to someone who has lost a child? Aren't you turning around and judging them?

ETA: I reported the post. This is way out of line.

The first time I ever encountered Sylvia on the boards, she said that she wished my AP was as big as my arrogance.. I had never even spoken to her(and wasnt speaking to her then)

There is an example of bias opinions ... I already have a bias opinion of Sylvia since she lashed out at me for no reason and wished a longer seperation from my husband.

This is a DISGUSTING thing to say to someone. Here she is again saying something even more evil to another member.

Sorry again AKQ for going offtopic

Edited May 21, 2009 by Y's_habibitk

[Kathryn41 3,205]

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[idocare 3]

Go to your husband girl, don't let his denial stop you all from being together. Look at all the weeks you all have been apart; (for what reason ) Each day isn't promised to us. Maybe you and him can find a Country to live in where he can be approved and you can get your proper medical care.

I think Canada has good medical care. Just a thought.

I'm sure you married him ( for better or worse ) to cohabitate with him, if you all can't live in America or Africa maybe you all could live in a Country that's willing to accept you both; I'm thinking that would at least let you all live as husband and wife instead of living apart and missing each other soooooo much.

Just trying to help.

A refusal from the American Embassey shouldn't curtail you all from lliving together.

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

Hi Idocare,

Thanks for your post to me! I have actually been preparing to live with him this whole time, it has taken that long to prepare due to his complications on his end as well as mine. I've left my house and have saved a year of paid work in preparations for the possibility. I am concerned to leave my mom and his widowed mom whose now recently dependent, I don't want anyone to suffer. For safety and work my husband would need to travel the 400 miles to come see me, leave, come back etc. as it is. The safety is an issue.

If you know anything about moving to Canada that I haven't read lately I would appreciate that so much! I had talked with my family here about many places like Sweden or something. Me and my husband have talked about what it would require for me to stay with him and that is now our goal because this one is taking so long. When I looked into Canada for example there were all these rules about being a resident and it seemed like as long a process just to set that up as it would be to complete our visa. Perhaps I'm mistaken.. I cannot seem to get info. from the right people.

I just need to live with him. I hope that's what will happen and things will fall into place. Thank you for reiterating this thought, I really would like to know if you know anyone that knows about this sort of thing.

Take Care.