Ex husband - remove conditions

[trees 0]

thanks everyone for taking the time to reply.

JoeyJoey I didn't realize that a reminder letter is send out. Do you know what time frame prior to the three months it is sent?

He called me a few months ago asking for the divorce papers. I told him he needs to get his own copy. I don't think that he is resourceful enough to get the needed papers. If he hired a lawyer that he might be able to pull the paperwork together. Additionally he remarried someone outside of the states and I can forsee him not marking yes he remarried. If he answers no and the USCIS finds out that he did get married can he be denied based on one false statement?

Yes I'm moving on but I know that he hasn't held a job and has proven himself to not be resposible so as much as I'd like to just drop everything I forsee that down the road he might apply for means tested benefits. So I'm concerned for my future finances.

I'm getting much closer in my decision to contact immigration. To what department/address do I write a letter informing them that we are divorced, that he remarried and that I believe that his intentions in the marriage weren't bonafied. Can I go to the location where we interviewed for adjustment of status? or let up an info pass appointment.

[Eagleeye 1]

thanks everyone for taking the time to reply.

JoeyJoey I didn't realize that a reminder letter is send out. Do you know what time frame prior to the three months it is sent?

He called me a few months ago asking for the divorce papers. I told him he needs to get his own copy. I don't think that he is resourceful enough to get the needed papers. If he hired a lawyer that he might be able to pull the paperwork together. Additionally he remarried someone outside of the states and I can forsee him not marking yes he remarried. If he answers no and the USCIS finds out that he did get married can he be denied based on one false statement?

Yes I'm moving on but I know that he hasn't held a job and has proven himself to not be resposible so as much as I'd like to just drop everything I forsee that down the road he might apply for means tested benefits. So I'm concerned for my future finances.

I'm getting much closer in my decision to contact immigration. To what department/address do I write a letter informing them that we are divorced, that he remarried and that I believe that his intentions in the marriage weren't bonafied. Can I go to the location where we interviewed for adjustment of status? or let up an info pass appointment.

Gosh! what else do you want to hear? make an infopass appointment and tell them your marriage failed because "he used me for a green card"....trust me spite always comes back to hunt you

[Goldfee111 3]

trees i can understand that u are worried that u have to pay for him..but why u wanna kick after him now..trust me..he has to proove also that he is able to survive here in the us and for that he has to have a job..if he cant show the IO black on white that he is able to take care for himself alone he will get denied..so let destiny do the work and let go

[trees 0]

trees i can understand that u are worried that u have to pay for him..but why u wanna kick after him now..trust me..he has to proove also that he is able to survive here in the us and for that he has to have a job..if he cant show the IO black on white that he is able to take care for himself alone he will get denied..so let destiny do the work and let go

He had a job and quit. He has been coming and going to his home country each month. He doesn't have the money. I believe his money source is not above board. Does the IO truely have the right to deny someone based on lack of employment? I've never heard of that.

[TayRivers 4]

trees i can understand that u are worried that u have to pay for him..but why u wanna kick after him now..trust me..he has to proove also that he is able to survive here in the us and for that he has to have a job..if he cant show the IO black on white that he is able to take care for himself alone he will get denied..so let destiny do the work and let go

He had a job and quit. He has been coming and going to his home country each month. He doesn't have the money. I believe his money source is not above board. Does the IO truely have the right to deny someone based on lack of employment? I've never heard of that.

At removal of conditions they are only interested in the evidence that shows he entered into the marriage in good faith. The affidavit of support still stands so they are not conserned about how he will support himself. The fact he does not have a job will not be an issue.

If you go to the USCIS and give info of marriage fraud they may look into your claims or they may not, anything you tell them that is not backed up with hard evidence will be dismissed, They look at most letters and information for the ex-spouse as being an act of revenge and therefore dismiss it unless you have evidence to back up your claim.

The fact that he may have got remarried would not in its self stop him from removing the conditions on his greencard. Unless you have hard evidence that his source of income is illegally obtained you can not claim that to be so.

You accepted the terms of the affidavit of support when you filed the paperwork, sadly you can not get out of the contract just because you no longer wish to be married to him. You will be his sponsor until the conditions have been met to end the affidavit of support.

Maybe its time to move on and let him get on with what ever it is he is doing. Just be thankful he is not taking you to court for spousal maintainence and using the affidavit against you.

[shermike 1]

I haven't posted here in a while. However, I feel compelled to add my 2c. I truly believe, as other have suggested, that this is just a case of sour grapes. Please move on. You will feel better.

[trees 0]

trees i can understand that u are worried that u have to pay for him..but why u wanna kick after him now..trust me..he has to proove also that he is able to survive here in the us and for that he has to have a job..if he cant show the IO black on white that he is able to take care for himself alone he will get denied..so let destiny do the work and let go

He had a job and quit. He has been coming and going to his home country each month. He doesn't have the money. I believe his money source is not above board. Does the IO truely have the right to deny someone based on lack of employment? I've never heard of that.

At removal of conditions they are only interested in the evidence that shows he entered into the marriage in good faith. The affidavit of support still stands so they are not conserned about how he will support himself. The fact he does not have a job will not be an issue.

If you go to the USCIS and give info of marriage fraud they may look into your claims or they may not, anything you tell them that is not backed up with hard evidence will be dismissed, They look at most letters and information for the ex-spouse as being an act of revenge and therefore dismiss it unless you have evidence to back up your claim.

The fact that he may have got remarried would not in its self stop him from removing the conditions on his greencard. Unless you have hard evidence that his source of income is illegally obtained you can not claim that to be so.

You accepted the terms of the affidavit of support when you filed the paperwork, sadly you can not get out of the contract just because you no longer wish to be married to him. You will be his sponsor until the conditions have been met to end the affidavit of support.

Maybe its time to move on and let him get on with what ever it is he is doing. Just be thankful he is not taking you to court for spousal maintainence and using the affidavit against you.

I think that I will make a list of questions, gather the divorce papers and other items that might be helpful and make an info pass appt. That way I can infomally inform them and see if they have interest in my reasons of fraud and show them the divorce papers. Does anyone know if items can be submitted to the file through an info pass appt? I know that it appears that I'm the jilted wife but truely when I look at things now I know that his intent was fraud. I get the idea clearly to just move on but my house was broken it to last week and my first thought was that it was him. I don't have a sense of safety as I once did. I risk my sense of safety further by saying fraud but if he is asked to leave then I don't have to live with fear anymore. Is there anyone out there who has shown a case of fraud to immigration?

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Just leave the guy alone and get on with your own life.

[MDresident 0]

They will not talk to you, this is USCIS not the Divorce court, sorry you sound hurt but you will be just wasting your time and adding insult to the injury, like people said before me "get over it".

[TayRivers 4]

trees i can understand that u are worried that u have to pay for him..but why u wanna kick after him now..trust me..he has to proove also that he is able to survive here in the us and for that he has to have a job..if he cant show the IO black on white that he is able to take care for himself alone he will get denied..so let destiny do the work and let go

He had a job and quit. He has been coming and going to his home country each month. He doesn't have the money. I believe his money source is not above board. Does the IO truely have the right to deny someone based on lack of employment? I've never heard of that.

At removal of conditions they are only interested in the evidence that shows he entered into the marriage in good faith. The affidavit of support still stands so they are not conserned about how he will support himself. The fact he does not have a job will not be an issue.

If you go to the USCIS and give info of marriage fraud they may look into your claims or they may not, anything you tell them that is not backed up with hard evidence will be dismissed, They look at most letters and information for the ex-spouse as being an act of revenge and therefore dismiss it unless you have evidence to back up your claim.

The fact that he may have got remarried would not in its self stop him from removing the conditions on his greencard. Unless you have hard evidence that his source of income is illegally obtained you can not claim that to be so.

You accepted the terms of the affidavit of support when you filed the paperwork, sadly you can not get out of the contract just because you no longer wish to be married to him. You will be his sponsor until the conditions have been met to end the affidavit of support.

Maybe its time to move on and let him get on with what ever it is he is doing. Just be thankful he is not taking you to court for spousal maintainence and using the affidavit against you.

I think that I will make a list of questions, gather the divorce papers and other items that might be helpful and make an info pass appt. That way I can infomally inform them and see if they have interest in my reasons of fraud and show them the divorce papers. Does anyone know if items can be submitted to the file through an info pass appt? I know that it appears that I'm the jilted wife but truely when I look at things now I know that his intent was fraud. I get the idea clearly to just move on but my house was broken it to last week and my first thought was that it was him. I don't have a sense of safety as I once did. I risk my sense of safety further by saying fraud but if he is asked to leave then I don't have to live with fear anymore. Is there anyone out there who has shown a case of fraud to immigration?

If you are living in fear then go to the police. I am sure they are used to dealing with people who are clearly having issues getting over a bad split-up from their EX. USCIS are not interested in what you think could be fraud they are only interested in hard evidence, so unless you have some, move on with your life and get a alarm installed in your home.

Edited May 15, 2009 by TayRivers