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Is it just me, or is the forum invaded by trolls lately?

[luckymom 0]

To be completely honest with you, I don't know why you wait for 2 weeks of not knowing how is she doing. 2 days for me is alarming how much more 2 weeks. Am I missing something here? Is there something more about this story? She is just 2 weeks here and these things are happening, I find it odd seriously. Anyway, pick up the phone QUICK and find out how she's doing. I would be freaking out if it's already been 2 weeks that my fiancee is not contacting me. Or is it just me who's feeling this?

[SirJon 0]

Two weeks is a long time to not hear anything from your fiancee, or for you not to contact her to see how things are with her. You are both supposed to be planning a life together, and if it were my fiancee, I would have been checking that she arrived safely from the first day she left.

It sounds like there has been some communication problems on both sides. Did you ask her how she was feeling, or what was making her feel so upset? Marriage is all about communication. If you are planning on being together, you should both be aware of how each of you are feeling.

[NICUnurse 0]

Is it just me, or is the forum invaded by trolls lately?

Um...yes.

[kitty rahman 0]

I GUESS FIRST U SHOULD CONTACT HER AND ASK HER WHAT BOUT HER PLANS.

IF SHE DOESNT WANT A BE WITH U, CONTACT UR LOCAL OFFICE SO U CAN WITHDRAWN THE FIANCE PETITON, IF U HAVE THE EVIDENCE THAT SHE LEFT U MUCH BETTER, OTHERWISE U HAVE TO SUPPORT HER EVEN IF SHE IS WITH ANOTHER PERSON THATS WHY IS VERY IMPORTANT TO STOP IT.

My Fiancee just arrived here about 2 weeks ago. Since she has been here she has been very sensitive and cries a lot. 1 day I was not able to be with her, because my father also is in town. So I left her at her grandmothers home, I thought she would be conformable there. She would not tell me that she was hurt just cries. She then decided to leave south east texas and go and visit her Uncle in Maryland, even though I did not want her to go she left anyway. Her father in Taiwan told her to visit him. I have not heard from her and two weeks and I a very worried. What should i do? Should I be worried that she has changed her mind about marring me? Should I just give her some time?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Is it just me, or is the forum invaded by trolls lately?

trolls? what trolls?????

[tulum 0]

2 weeks? I would be freaking out! Find her and talk to her about what's going on. Like others said, the cultural difference was probably a shock to her and she might be homesick. Good luck!

OMG!!! SHE CAME HERE TO BE WITH YOU, NOT HER FAMILY!!! 2 weeks and you havent heard anything!? and she wont even talk to you about whats bothering her? sounds like your relationship wasnt on steady ground to begin with. I cant tell you what to do- but if it was me- she would be going home. thats not the way to start a marriage or work on things - by running away without a word! maybe she just used you to get here- hard to swallow but it could be true. you need to do something quick. find her and work it out or send her home[ call ICE or see your local immigration office ] good luck to you

[rlogan 2,036]

Should I be worried that she has changed her mind about marring me?

Nope. Logically there are only two possibilities.

One is that you are a troll and a ficticious person cannot change their mind.

The other is that she never intended sincerely to marry you and it explains everything perfectly. So no, she didn't change her mind. Just dealing with the situation.

[TracyTN 237]

If she came here on a K1 and left the country before receiving advanced parole (which it sounds like she did), she won't get back into the US without another visa. You're back at the starting gate.

That is, if you're not a troll...!

[sasha414 0]

To be completely honest with you, I don't know why you wait for 2 weeks of not knowing how is she doing. 2 days for me is alarming how much more 2 weeks. Am I missing something here? Is there something more about this story? She is just 2 weeks here and these things are happening, I find it odd seriously. Anyway, pick up the phone QUICK and find out how she's doing. I would be freaking out if it's already been 2 weeks that my fiancee is not contacting me. Or is it just me who's feeling this?

2 days and id be in a state of panic already

[feelinglucky 1]

hi Amon, Your brief but interesting post has lead to more speculation, than helpfull answer. My humble opioion is ####### your fiancee is missing, you have not attempted to contact her in 14 days, and expect her to contact you first and what worse, your asking the opioions of strangers on a forum for our advice regarding such an important matter. She went half way across the country alone, after you bringing her from half way around the world. HEELLLOO!!!! I didnt recall any metions of soon to be wedding arrangements, nor an explantion of why she was upset. I would have assumed that you were talking about a friend, if i wasnt aware of the K-1 visa. Amon, please 2 + ? = 4, give us the "?" so we can be more symthatic, or critical of your present mindset, and action thus far. By giving us more insite on your intial meeting to the present, THEN and Only THEN can we give a well thoughtout opioion,

Good Luck , I think your gonna need it

My Fiancee just arrived here about 2 weeks ago. Since she has been here she has been very sensitive and cries a lot. 1 day I was not able to be with her, because my father also is in town. So I left her at her grandmothers home, I thought she would be conformable there. She would not tell me that she was hurt just cries. She then decided to leave south east texas and go and visit her Uncle in Maryland, even though I did not want her to go she left anyway. Her father in Taiwan told her to visit him. I have not heard from her and two weeks and I a very worried. What should i do? Should I be worried that she has changed her mind about marring me? Should I just give her some time?

hi Amon, Your brief but interesting post has lead to more speculation, than helpfull answer. My humble opioion is ####### your fiancee is missing, you have not attempted to contact her in 14 days, and expect her to contact you first and what worse, your asking the opioions of strangers on a forum for our advice regarding such an important matter. She went half way across the country alone, after you bringing her from half way around the world. HEELLLOO!!!! I didnt recall any metions of soon to be wedding arrangements, nor an explantion of why she was upset. I would have assumed that you were talking about a friend, if i wasnt aware of the K-1 visa. Amon, please 2 + ? = 4, give us the "?" so we can be more symthatic, or critical of your present mindset, and action thus far. By giving us more insite on your intial meeting to the present, THEN and Only THEN can we give a well thoughtout opioion,

Good Luck , I think your gonna need it

[Marina-Del 10]

My question is why you were unable to spend time with her because your father was in town? She will be his daughter-in-law, should not all three of you spend time together? Has your father met her? Has he spent too much time with her that you didn't find it necessary for her to spend this time with him? I might have ran off to my family's house too as I would have felt like a child who was not invited to the adult outing. However, I would have called the moment I arrived if I wasn't too upset about not being a part of the family outing.

If you leave her at her grandmother's when family is in town, what do you do when you want to go out with friends?

Is there more to the story?

Okay, I totally agree that she should be worried about. And also think it's totally ridiculous that he did not have the uncles number to begin with. But I don't exactly agree with the persons statement above. She has been there two weeks and he said that he left her with her grandmother for 1 day. I really don't think that's such a big deal. If he talked to her and she said she wanted to go with him and his dad, then fine, that was mean. But if she said she didn't care, then seriously leaving her alone for 1 day is not a big deal. He can't be expected to stand next to her 24 hours a day. Doesn't he have to work as well? I'm not saying he is only the victim in this. I agree that either he's a troll or there is something we don't know, but I don't think he was in the wrong to spend a day with his dad and to leave her with her grandmother.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

Ummm, guys?

OP has only posted once, and hasn't been back in over a month. I think it's a safe bet that we won't be hearing from him again.

[M.O 6]

2 weeks huh? i would have called if havnt heard anything about her in 2 days...y did u wait so long?maybe she left or maybe something happened or maybe she doesnt want to come back...look for her...

[baron555 934]

Ummm, guys?

OP has only posted once, and hasn't been back in over a month. I think it's a safe bet that we won't be hearing from him again.

Probably out looking for another!