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[DEDixon 39]

Believe it or not, there ARE Filipinos who would choose to stay in the Philippines rather than come to the US. I know it's hard to believe, but it's true. My wife has some family members who turned down the chance to come here because they would prefer to stay close to family.

Perhaps the young lady had a change of heart once she got her nursing degree and figured she might be able to have a decent life in the PI without having to leave her family. Sometimes, when people feel guilty about something, their response is to try to blame it on the other party. In the young lady's mind, she might have to hate the OP and say it's his fault to avoid feeling guilty about the fact she got cold feet and changed her mind.

If they are well off, yeah, many prefer to stay where family is... he hasn't presented his ex-fiancee in this way however. He has presented her as a poor woman who need his support to go to college and who has a mom that wants him to pay her to get out of the way of the relationship.... not only presents her as poor, but also spoiled rotten and disrespectful (read his quotes from her).

We will never know what the real deal is because unfortunately he cowardly (in my opinion) goes on a forum and talks trash about someone who has no opportunity to defend herself.

I'm going to call it as I see it....

[SMOKE 1,426]

i dunno if its true or not. my trolldar is in the shop. the name meatspin kinda makes me laugh & i'm fairly sure it has a hidden meaning.

DEDixon: my wife's family in the PI is not well off by anyone's standards. her older sister has turned down marriage proposals from American & Australian men in the past. her reason for doing so is simple & admirable. she feels it is her duty to stay w/ her family in the PI to help support her younger siblings & their families.

[jsnearline 2]

I wouldn't call my wife's family well off. They rely on the support of relatives from here. Family ties are huge there and as the previous poster said, some will choose duty to family over opportunity here.

[meatspin 0]

haha, this story is completely bogus and as usual, Filipinas are all lining up to take part in the drama this guy has dreamed up.

wow, who goes from 100 to 0 overnight... in love, sending money, put her through school for years to zero, nothing? Liars do.

and on the other side, who in this world would treat someone like dirty after that someone put her through college, sent her money, petitioned her... etc. etc. etc. .... who would so easily give up on getting out of the RP? NO ONE!!!!

can't those that are buying this drama add? this story doesn't add up.... wake up folks or get a life!!! Sorry, call them as I see them ladies.

Whatever floats your boat.

even more funny that your first post on this forum is to gloat and brag and boost about how stupid and how much of an idiot you are... and how easily you were taken advantage of.... what a chump you are... very weak but suddenly you are very strong right at the end of her college days and right as she is about to come to the USA... wow, great timing hero!!!!! hey, i'm not calling you names, you've called yourself out like this so i'm just pointing it out.

most people keep this stuff to themselves, but here you are putting it out there for everyone to join you in the drama you've dreamed up.

he is so laughing at the people who believe his story.... another troll seeing how many pages his dream can generate.

What is the point of keeping to ourselves....????

To show MACHISMO....we are so good that no one fools me?

If is going to stop someone else for falling into the same trap.....I will share for the world to know....

IT TAKES A REAL MAN to admit mistakes instead of keep the head in sand...like an ostrich.

If he is a TROLL...so what...let it be....

the all point of a FORUM is to share idea, experiences GOOD or BAD....most of the time we share good and uplifting stories, other times we share our bad experiences

Tell everyone in person that this happened is one thing, tell strangers on a forum in not "man..ing up" in my opinion.

Like I said my friend......................... whatever floats your boat, always one in every crowd

[meatspin 0]

Believe it or not, there ARE Filipinos who would choose to stay in the Philippines rather than come to the US. I know it's hard to believe, but it's true. My wife has some family members who turned down the chance to come here because they would prefer to stay close to family.

Perhaps the young lady had a change of heart once she got her nursing degree and figured she might be able to have a decent life in the PI without having to leave her family. Sometimes, when people feel guilty about something, their response is to try to blame it on the other party. In the young lady's mind, she might have to hate the OP and say it's his fault to avoid feeling guilty about the fact she got cold feet and changed her mind.

If they are well off, yeah, many prefer to stay where family is... he hasn't presented his ex-fiancee in this way however. He has presented her as a poor woman who need his support to go to college and who has a mom that wants him to pay her to get out of the way of the relationship.... not only presents her as poor, but also spoiled rotten and disrespectful (read his quotes from her).

We will never know what the real deal is because unfortunately he cowardly (in my opinion) goes on a forum and talks trash about someone who has no opportunity to defend herself.

I'm going to call it as I see it....

whatever floats your boat..........

[mrsartis 10]

here is the thing,, why not wait until june and take her exams there then come over here once the exam is done? did you get tickets for her already?

[mrsartis 10]

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

is this what she look like?

http://www.facebook.com/people/Zinge-Zinge-Sarmz/1438722211

sorry i guess not.. WRONG POST.. SORRY =)

[meatspin 0]

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

is this what she look like?

http://www.facebook.com/people/Zinge-Zinge-Sarmz/1438722211

sorry i guess not.. WRONG POST.. SORRY =)

thats her on facebook its Zinge Zinge sarmz,

Apparently she took midwifery and not nursing. She lied. Is there anyway that I can legally nail her for what she did ?

[DEDixon 39]

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

is this what she look like?

http://www.facebook.com/people/Zinge-Zinge-Sarmz/1438722211

sorry i guess not.. WRONG POST.. SORRY =)

thats her on facebook its Zinge Zinge sarmz,

Apparently she took midwifery and not nursing. She lied. Is there anyway that I can legally nail her for what she did ?

You want to legally nail her?

[meatspin 0]

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

is this what she look like?

http://www.facebook.com/people/Zinge-Zinge-Sarmz/1438722211

sorry i guess not.. WRONG POST.. SORRY =)

thats her on facebook its Zinge Zinge sarmz,

Apparently she took midwifery and not nursing. She lied. Is there anyway that I can legally nail her for what she did ?

You want to legally nail her?

in other words is there anything that I can do legally to her as far as scamming me ? I do feel scammed in regard to this.

[DEDixon 39]

i dunno if its true or not. my trolldar is in the shop. the name meatspin kinda makes me laugh & i'm fairly sure it has a hidden meaning.

DEDixon: my wife's family in the PI is not well off by anyone's standards. her older sister has turned down marriage proposals from American & Australian men in the past. her reason for doing so is simple & admirable. she feels it is her duty to stay w/ her family in the PI to help support her younger siblings & their families.

Some will stay in the RP if other members are outside the RP to support them a little. There are a few that do stay, certainly can't say ALL are ready to jump ship. Your wife's sister is a minority (I think... from what I've seen and heard).

When a first post rips into an ex-fiancee and her mother, I'm not riding on the bandwagon. If he had any history here whatsoever, I'd believe his story.

[DEDixon 39]

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

I got good news and bad news..

Good news she took up her "medical course" and was able to pass her exams.. bad news... she didnt take nursing.. she lied..

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/examresults/M.../MIDWIFE__C.htm

is this what she look like?

http://www.facebook.com/people/Zinge-Zinge-Sarmz/1438722211

sorry i guess not.. WRONG POST.. SORRY =)

thats her on facebook its Zinge Zinge sarmz,

Apparently she took midwifery and not nursing. She lied. Is there anyway that I can legally nail her for what she did ?

You want to legally nail her?

in other words is there anything that I can do legally to her as far as scamming me ? I do feel scammed in regard to this.

You were involved for years so you say, you should have done some due diligence so I doubt you'll be able to do anything legally. If I were to pay for someone to go to school, I'd pay the school directly, did you? What would you get from a poor woman who needs your support to go to college and who has a mom that wants your money in exchange for her to leave the relationship alone?

[Tahoma 2,291]

I am just amazed that you had known her for years yet you didn't know that she passed the Midwifery exam, if she is indeed the one on that list of the Midwifery board passers.

I assume that she proceeded to take the Nursing course after passing her Midwifery board. You have to ask her the truth.

If she really wants to take the Nursing board this June then let her take it. The result usually comes out 2 months after the exam.

But this should have been discussed before you filed for the K1 petition. Taking the board exam entails a lot of preparation, not a last-minute decision.

~Chinook

[meatspin 0]

I am just amazed that you had known her for years yet you didn't know that she passed the Midwifery exam, if she is indeed the one on that list of the Midwifery board passers.

I assume that she proceeded to take the Nursing course after passing her Midwifery board. You have to ask her the truth.

If she really wants to take the Nursing board this June then let her take it. The result usually comes out 2 months after the exam.

But this should have been discussed before you filed for the K1 petition. Taking the board exam entails a lot of preparation, not a last-minute decision.

~Chinook

I am a IDIOT, i believed in everything in she told me, I TRUSTED her and only to be taken for a long azz ride like this.

[Brettanne 1]

It is better for you to find out now then when she comes to the states and your responsible for her financially and she takes out govt assistance in which you would have to repay. I am willing to bet she is probably in the internet cafe finding the next victim to fall for her shannigans.

Yeap yeap, you're absolutely right.