Another Denied from Nigeria K1

[DEE & LAN 0]

It is a heart break when you go throug this. I know , I have walked in these shoes. Lagos is the most corrupt diplomatic mission in the world. The deny for whatever reason they concoct and sell visas to for a cut of what the scammers haul in. Hopefully when the day of reckoning happens they will sit outside an eternitiy for every true couple they have denied and pass though the flames for each visa they have sold.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH WHAT YOU'VE WRITTEN! I LOATHE the Nigerian Embassy, I wonder if the workers have "SECURITY" escorts when they leave the Emabssy at the end of the day, matter of fact, how do they SLEEP AT NIGHTS! MAY GOD JUDGE THEM! They APPROVE the scam applications and deny the REAL ONES ... UNBELIEVABLE!

Anyway ... how are you, sorry for ranting.

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

I rant at times also about the embassy. It is terible that they have no respect for the US citizen on the other side of the application. I had to touch base with security office after this and report the incident. Lucky I have 30 years of a clean record so they just took the report of the visa being denied because Joseph COULDN'T povide any details of my work. Had I been a junior employee it might have cast a shodow on my clearance rather than show the level evil that Lagos has fallen to.

At times people wonder why the US is hated in other countries. How can they respect a country that collect fees equalivant to 6 months income for the average person and ignore evidence and keep families apart. This kind of behavior is what I used to hear Russia did when I was a child and they were supposedly this big evil government.

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

Dear 2gathawestand,

You left such a kind and encouraging post in my time of need and I just saw this one that you wrote. Your positive nature and the "onto the next fight" shows strength of your relationship and your spirit. Your heart must have felt so broken that day. It is sad to say that there are some very benign reasons such as age and others that put flags on a case and denial for review.

I have been married and with my Hubby prior all together about 4 years and I have struggled to find a way to live with him and he too. It is not easy so I am very happy for you that you're finding a way to live there. That will be so much healthier if you can do it then sitting here anxiously.. It is sad that the state of affairs there and the complications of life make it difficult to live with our loved ones, because I have been there I KNOW you will have the time of your life in a culture that is rich and full of life.

I know you are very disappointed and sad but keeping what's important in front of you, the relationship, is obviously what will strongly get you through to the end of this journey and onto the biggest one of all - your life together.

Due to your quote you believe in God, I am not sure if you believe in the bible but the story of Job who lost his family and health and all his belongings suffered and he was still blessed by God. Job endured and his false comforters came along to discourage him. But later on if you're familiar with the bible account Job was given back 2 fold for the sufferings he had.

hang in there! Enjoy your stay with your SO! live laugh love dance .... John Lennon wrote life is what happens when you're busy making other plans, you're living! or LeeAnn Womack's I hope you Dance says .... live even if it hurts, and Dance! Enjoy your SO! Sending my heartfelt thoughts to you at this difficult time . . . .