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[rose19 0]

Hello mga mommies...katatapos lang ng OB appointment at ultrasound ko and guess what???Im having a little girl...And her name is Khloe Sky Niemy...

wow congrats feeling ko more baby girl ang mga July babies hehehehe ako sa first week of March ko pa malalaman ang sex ng baby ko excited na ang fafa ko sana girl din sa akin pero kung boy bigay ni Lord okey lang din as long healthy okey na sa akin....

[rose19 0]

Hi All,

I'm still in pain, physically and emotionally. I loss our babies (naniniwala kami na kambal ang ipinagbuntis ko) right when I passed two pieces (but connected to each other) thumb size blood clots on Saturday night. After my husband and I looked at it he then told me that I miscarried. Yesterday, we went to the doctor and even though we already knew (but we still hoped) ang sakit parin when the doctor told us that they can see no babies in the ultrasound (vaginal). There were no babies at all. Ang sakit...tapos during ultrasound, we found out that I had an ectopic pregnancy (also known as tubal pregnancy or an extrauterine pregnancy) which the reason why I was bleeding with cramps and lower back pain. We're so sad that we loss our babies but we are also thankful to God that I'm already safe now. Masakit...at nakakalungkot na nawala ang babies namin pero nagpapasalamat narin kami sa Diyos na kusa silang natanggal. Kasi kung hindi, kahapon din mismo tuturukan agad ako ng gamot to end my pregnancy which would be very difficult for us to let the doctor kill our babies.

Binigyan din ako ng OB ko ng Methotrexate shots (on my hips) to stop the tissue cells from growing. Kinuhanan din ako ng blood to test my hCG level and pap smear to determine infection and abnormality on my cervix and thank God the results were fine except my hCG level was high (6,000).

Pero, they're still gonna do some more lab tests on me bcoz the doctor too found out that my fallopian tube is enlarge and this one makes us really feel nervous as hell as we know this is more complicated.

Masakit ang tusok ng mga karayom sa katawan ko....pero mas masakit sa dibdib na nawala ang mga babies namin.

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RR, thank you so much for asking me if my baby and I were ok....our babies are gone. Pero happy na rin kami coz we got to see them.

I'm so sorry happy for what happen sa babies nyo how sad pero don't worry God has a reason why it happens, just be strong and face the reality hopefully everything will be okey soon or not serious problem for you right now keep praying dear, God Bless!!!

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

i'm so sorry for your loss. things happen for a reason and it is not for us to question God's ways. On the other hand, you are safe; an ectopic pregnancy can be very dangerous. Have faith. Take time to heal physically and emotionally. My sympathies to your husband too.

thank you doc gracey, i agree. night before we went to the hospital i prayed hard and hoped that the baby was still there and fine. but when we learned that i had an ectopic pregnancy i thanked God for what happened....without losing my babies i dont think we would find out soon that my life was in serious danger.

[marybeth 0]

Latest pic of my baby...

He is 8 lbs. 13 1/2 oz. na today... 12 days old today....

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

Mga mommies may ubo baby ko kaya pala napaka uncomfy niya lately. Kawawa naman baby ko. Nagkaron din ba ng ubo mga babies niyo? Anu yung ginawa niyo?

[sweetpink 1]

Hi All,

I'm still in pain, physically and emotionally. I loss our babies (naniniwala kami na kambal ang ipinagbuntis ko) right when I passed two pieces (but connected to each other) thumb size blood clots on Saturday night. After my husband and I looked at it he then told me that I miscarried. Yesterday, we went to the doctor and even though we already knew (but we still hoped) ang sakit parin when the doctor told us that they can see no babies in the ultrasound (vaginal). There were no babies at all. Ang sakit...tapos during ultrasound, we found out that I had an ectopic pregnancy (also known as tubal pregnancy or an extrauterine pregnancy) which the reason why I was bleeding with cramps and lower back pain. We're so sad that we loss our babies but we are also thankful to God that I'm already safe now. Masakit...at nakakalungkot na nawala ang babies namin pero nagpapasalamat narin kami sa Diyos na kusa silang natanggal. Kasi kung hindi, kahapon din mismo tuturukan agad ako ng gamot to end my pregnancy which would be very difficult for us to let the doctor kill our babies.

Binigyan din ako ng OB ko ng Methotrexate shots (on my hips) to stop the tissue cells from growing. Kinuhanan din ako ng blood to test my hCG level and pap smear to determine infection and abnormality on my cervix and thank God the results were fine except my hCG level was high (6,000).

Pero, they're still gonna do some more lab tests on me bcoz the doctor too found out that my fallopian tube is enlarge and this one makes us really feel nervous as hell as we know this is more complicated.

Masakit ang tusok ng mga karayom sa katawan ko....pero mas masakit sa dibdib na nawala ang mga babies namin.

RR, thank you so much for asking me if my baby and I were ok....our babies are gone. Pero happy na rin kami coz we got to see them.

I just read your post today. I am saddened for your loss. No words of consolation can ease your pain right now but PRAYERS does. ****hugs****

[-B&T- 1]

Mga mommies may ubo baby ko kaya pala napaka uncomfy niya lately. Kawawa naman baby ko. Nagkaron din ba ng ubo mga babies niyo? Anu yung ginawa niyo?

May sipon/ fever din ba baby mo? Make an appointment with her Pediatrician so she'll be checked baka may asthma. Ako anak purya buyag wala ni nagkasakit masukad. Basi sa panahon din sobrang lamig kasi or baka nagka allergy si baby mo.Bili kayo ng cool mist humidifier naka2tulong yun tapos painumin mo ng warm juice and water palagi. I wouldn't recommend buying over –the counter meds kasi di daw safe may recall nga bago lang. Sa Pinas daghan man mga dahon-dahon ihaplas/ihampol diri wala man. lol

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

May sipon/ fever din ba baby mo? Make an appointment with her Pediatrician so she'll be checked baka may asthma. Ako anak purya buyag wala ni nagkasakit masukad. Basi sa panahon din sobrang lamig kasi or baka nagka allergy si baby mo.Bili kayo ng cool mist humidifier naka2tulong yun tapos painumin mo ng warm juice and water palagi. I wouldn't recommend buying over –the counter meds kasi di daw safe may recall nga bago lang. Sa Pinas daghan man mga dahon-dahon ihaplas/ihampol diri wala man. lol

Daghang salamat sis. I will call her pedia tomorrow.

[-B&T- 1]

Daghang salamat sis. I will call her pedia tomorrow.

ur Welcome sis. Sana gumaling kaagad si mae.

[marjo2008 0]

brettanne, thank you...yes, it is so painful...i cried hard as soon as my husband told me i miscarried so you could imagine how difficult it was when the doctor confirmed us i suppose. we're hoping for a good outcome as well.

pink, thank you...i guess you're right...it would be indeed difficult for us lalo na sakin kung nahawakan at nayakap ko na siya tapos biglang mawawala...iniisip ko na lang din ang positive side ng sa ganon madali akong makrecover...yes, we thanked God at nadiskubre agad namin ang ectopic pregnancy ko pati yong fallopian tube ko...but i was really scared about it and still am...but i have strong faith in God at alam kong hindi niya ako pababayaan.

i-10 west, thank you...i thought it was just a normal spotting until it got heavier. the doctor told us that even we rush to the er the day i spotted there was no way they can stop the miscarriage. im still exhausted and pain emotionally but im trying to think positive. yes, ectopic pregnancy is deadly dangerous and we surely are thankful to our babies for saving my life.

lykatodd, thank you...tama ka, kanina ngang umaga habang nakahiga ako sa bed bigla kong naalala ang nangyari at hindi ko talaga napigilan sarili kong umiyak...iyak pa rin ako ng iyak...gusto ko na ngang tumigil kaso naiiyak talaga ako...ang sakit kasi...buti na lang supportive ang asawa ko at palagi siyang nasa tabi ko nakaalalay.

frosty, thank you...yea, we think so too.

evelyn, actually i was hesitant to post here what happened coz i thought it will just make me more sad but i did it anyway coz i know that talking to you guys will help me feel better and maybe even recover fast...thank you.

fendegirl, that was the first thing i did was to remove my pregnancy ticker as soon as i logged in on vj, coz seeing it just make me feel more painful, sad and lonely. as long as your not bleeding you're fine...ectopic pregnancy sign and symptoms shows 6-8 weeks after you missed your period. and thats what happened to me. you're about 8 weeks now and if you have the same pregnancy as mine you'll know it by now. thanks...God bless you too.

RR, kung makukuha nga lang sa tulog or kain ang depress gagawin ko so that i wont feel it anymore...kaso hindi eh. nadedepress pa rin ako kapag naiisip ko ang nangyari...syempre nalulungkot talaga ako na nawala babies namin, pero the fact that it was a ectopic pregnancy helps me think more positive..kasi i didnt do anything wrong para matanggal sila kundi sila mismo ang nagkusa, to save my life...good kids. their my angels now. yon nga din sabi ng asawa ko, gusto nga niyang magkaron ako agad para daw gawa kaagad kaso di pa pwede specially im under medication. we flushed it in the toilet after 20-30 minutes of looking at it. sana nga nilagay namin sa garapa kaso huli na nung maisip namin. thank you. God bless din sayo.

hi, my heart goes out for you my dear. I can relate how much pain u have inside for i've been through with the same ordeal on my first pregnancy last Dec. 08 that took me months to heal emotionally.

God knows how much i cried losing my baby during my 6 weeks of conception. Seems like the darkest moment in my life. frustrations, anger toward myself and other blaming game. My faith in God at that time has been questioned. Even if i prayed harder to him and still hoping that my baby was still there, I think that i was just more on denial stage than accepting the fact that i had miscarriage. I am a midwife back in our country and my experience in my field never gave me the assurance of having a perfect and smooth journey of pregnancy. I'm battling with depression as the aftermath of it. I found myself crying in the middle of the night, cry out for God's help and healing. All those things u feel now is what i exactly felt last 14 months ago. I know it takes time to heal but let God alone work on his own way. Just remember, u are not the only one whose heart is broken but also ur husband. Be there for each other and it's okay to cry, somehow someday pain will be gone for God is near to those brokenhearted and in sorrow. I think u are still young and very much capable of bearing again in God's perfect time. God had blessed u with that unborn child and he will bless u again with a child that will completely make u guys happy. Right now, i'm 8 weeks away from the arrival of my little one this April. Can't wait enough to see and hold my baby in my arms. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayer. God bless you and ur hubby.

[Lingladyinred19 13]

Hello mga mommies.. ask lang ako.. kung ganito rin ba ang ginagawa nyo sa baby nyo..

everytime ba na umi iyak ang baby nyo... dampot nyo agad??

kasi kanina sinabihan ako ng asawa ko.. hayaan ko daw mag iyak.. d daw maganda ung everytime iyak ang baby dampot agad..

d ko kasi matiis ang baby na mag iyak eh..

my time kasi na. busog na sya.. okey naman ang pampers, wala namang probs.. pero umi iyak sya.. kahit na kargahin mo..iyak parin..

sabi naman ng isang friend ko.. hayaan ko daw kahit 5min iyak para mapagod..

thanks.. ano ang advantage or disadvantage...

[Brettanne 1]

Hello mga mommies.. ask lang ako.. kung ganito rin ba ang ginagawa nyo sa baby nyo..

everytime ba na umi iyak ang baby nyo... dampot nyo agad??

kasi kanina sinabihan ako ng asawa ko.. hayaan ko daw mag iyak.. d daw maganda ung everytime iyak ang baby dampot agad..

d ko kasi matiis ang baby na mag iyak eh..

my time kasi na. busog na sya.. okey naman ang pampers, wala namang probs.. pero umi iyak sya.. kahit na kargahin mo..iyak parin..

sabi naman ng isang friend ko.. hayaan ko daw kahit 5min iyak para mapagod..

thanks.. ano ang advantage or disadvantage...

Take a little longer to respond to your baby's cries as he gets older. Give him practice settling down on his own. Di pa lumalabas baby ko but thats one thing I learn from reading baby books. Pero cguro kung nagwawala na baby mo, tsaka mo na damputin. Yan muna ma she share ko for now.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

I just read your post today. I am saddened for your loss. No words of consolation can ease your pain right now but PRAYERS does. ****hugs****

thank you...

[Loolie 56]

hello sa lahat,

happy, musta ka na? hows your tests? sana okay ka na.

shiela, ang baby ko di kagad sya umiiyak talaga, una nyang ginagawa mag kick start muna ng paa kaya tawag namin sa kanya kick starter then mag-iingay na sya pag di pinansin saka na talaga iiyak...di agad namin dinadampot...basta tinatry muna naming patahanin ng di dinadampot agad pero di ko hinahayaan talaga na umiyak ng todo baby ko..ayaw ko rin syang hayaan na lang na umiyak and let him cry till he settle down...ayoko kasi ng ganun. minsan ginagawa ng hubby ko eh ginagaya nya iyak ng baby namin then tumatahimik baby namin...basta try mo muna yung ibang ways bago mo sya dampotin kung di talaga tatahan eh dampotin muna then pag nagstop na sya saka mo sya ibaba then kausap usapin mo.

baby ko, nakikipag-interact na sa hubby ko sa phone kasi everytime my hubby call me i always put it to speaker and my baby recognize his voice so yun sumasabat baby namin habang nag-uusap kami so nilalapit ko sa baby ko yung phone and yun nag-uusap sila ng hubby ko...hehehehehehe

God bless sa lahat.

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

hi, my heart goes out for you my dear. I can relate how much pain u have inside for i've been through with the same ordeal on my first pregnancy last Dec. 08 that took me months to heal emotionally.

God knows how much i cried losing my baby during my 6 weeks of conception. Seems like the darkest moment in my life. frustrations, anger toward myself and other blaming game. My faith in God at that time has been questioned. Even if i prayed harder to him and still hoping that my baby was still there, I think that i was just more on denial stage than accepting the fact that i had miscarriage. I am a midwife back in our country and my experience in my field never gave me the assurance of having a perfect and smooth journey of pregnancy. I'm battling with depression as the aftermath of it. I found myself crying in the middle of the night, cry out for God's help and healing. All those things u feel now is what i exactly felt last 14 months ago. I know it takes time to heal but let God alone work on his own way. Just remember, u are not the only one whose heart is broken but also ur husband. Be there for each other and it's okay to cry, somehow someday pain will be gone for God is near to those brokenhearted and in sorrow. I think u are still young and very much capable of bearing again in God's perfect time. God had blessed u with that unborn child and he will bless u again with a child that will completely make u guys happy. Right now, i'm 8 weeks away from the arrival of my little one this April. Can't wait enough to see and hold my baby in my arms. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayer. God bless you and ur hubby.

salamat marjo...nashocked ako sa nangyari pero wala akong sinisi kahit ang nasa Taas although nagtanong din ako bakit, pero sinagot ko rin sarili kong tanong...and instead nagpasalamat ako sa Kanya kahit masakit na nawala babies namin, kasi nalaman at naagapan at nagamot ako agad. oo masakit masyado kasi matagal na namin gustong magkababy kaya ganun nalang ang lungkot at sakit na naramdaman ko/namin nung nalaman naming wala na sila sa sinapupunan ko. pero tama ang lahat, lahat ng nangyayari ay may dahilan at sa ngayon, umaasa na lang ako at nananalangin na sana may magandang kapalit na ibigay samin si God. at naniniwala ako na kahit binawi niya samin ang babies namin, bibigyan pa rin niya kami ulit. maraming salamat sa sympathy mo...at masaya din ako para sayo...malapit ka nang manganak...ingat and God bless.

at sa lahat ng mga mommies dito at sa lahat ng mga nagreply at nagbigay ng emotional support, thoughts and prayers...maraming salamat sa inyong lahat. nararamdaman ko pa rin ang sakit, pero sa tulong ng asawa ko (lagi siyang nasa tabi ko nakaalalay) at ninyong lahat, unti-unti akong nakakarecover at bumabalik sa dati kong sigla.

pansamantala muna akong mawawala dito sa forum na ito, pero umaasa ako na sana makabalik agad ako.

ingat kayong lahat and God bless!