wife left

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

well it was good while it lasted . i felt pretty lucky and happy except for a few thing i didnt agree with that we talked about the other night. first off theres alot of low class paople and druggers that work for her boss at chinese chef but my wife is friends with all of them and they all have her number becoz they are the only vietnamese in town.second she started going gambleing about a month ago on weekeds with her boss and boosses brothers all who own resterants and bosses brother in law and all the worker wich are all men that live in thwe bosses machines shed they have made into room for the workers

. my wife would get all sexy looking and go out and not come home until 6 am in the morning

. she says the boss gives everybody mone when he wins and she would come home with 300 dollars everytime. i work 3rd shift and really wasnt good for our relationship. i wanted her to be happy but i told her i didnt like it. my only nights off and she spend with them. I told her if she wanted anymore to do with them she didnt want me. iI said if i didnt trust her so much i would think she was a #######. she hit kicked me threw things at me and i swear i thought she would kill me. we have aloaded pistil in our house and i thought if she got it she would kill me so i toook it outside and out it in my truck . when i came back i layed down on my bed and later got up and the little girl asked wheres momm? i looked out on the front porch and every cop in town had a shot gun on me. she had called the police and siad i was going to kill someone and was in the house with a gun and her kids.thats when i knew we were done. the cops heard my story and found the gun in the truck unloaded and let me go. but now my wife left. she just got her 3 year green card and her kids just got there papers talking about there bio appointment. will she be able to stay in usa??? could she divorce me and remarry and stay. im so sick of wha she did to me i cant beleave it.

[r0yalflush 0]

well it was good while it lasted . i felt pretty lucky and happy except for a few thing i didnt agree with that we talked about the other night. first off theres alot of low class paople and druggers that work for her boss at chinese chef but my wife is friends with all of them and they all have her number becoz they are the only vietnamese in town.second she started going gambleing about a month ago on weekeds with her boss and boosses brothers all who own resterants and bosses brother in law and all the worker wich are all men that live in thwe bosses machines shed they have made into room for the workers

. my wife would get all sexy looking and go out and not come home until 6 am in the morning

. she says the boss gives everybody mone when he wins and she would come home with 300 dollars everytime. i work 3rd shift and really wasnt good for our relationship. i wanted her to be happy but i told her i didnt like it. my only nights off and she spend with them. I told her if she wanted anymore to do with them she didnt want me. iI said if i didnt trust her so much i would think she was a #######. she hit kicked me threw things at me and i swear i thought she would kill me. we have aloaded pistil in our house and i thought if she got it she would kill me so i toook it outside and out it in my truck . when i came back i layed down on my bed and later got up and the little girl asked wheres momm? i looked out on the front porch and every cop in town had a shot gun on me. she had called the police and siad i was going to kill someone and was in the house with a gun and her kids.thats when i knew we were done. the cops heard my story and found the gun in the truck unloaded and let me go. but now my wife left. she just got her 3 year green card and her kids just got there papers talking about there bio appointment. will she be able to stay in usa??? could she divorce me and remarry and stay. im so sick of wha she did to me i cant beleave it.

WOW, this is just sad, really sad bro....two faces are everywhere....I feel your pain bro. you deserve better

[sara..... 371]

im sorry for what has happened to u i dont have any advise or answers to ur questions but i have added u to my prayers

sara

[John and Camie 39]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I really hope someone can give you some good advice.

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

i meant took it out to my truck and hid it . not out it in my truck.

[Huong and Phung 0]

i meant took it out to my truck and hid it . not out it in my truck.

Man! I'm just feel so sad when I read this kind of posts. I'm so sorry for what happened. You've been through this Journey and know how painful it is to be away from the person you love dearly. Everyday missing, hurting and waiting for the day that both of you being together and now this. Damn those who are two faces. I disrespect them all.

[VN10 0]

i meant took it out to my truck and hid it . not out it in my truck.

Im sorry about that. Nobody can give you advice without youself and your heart.

[hniHnitsuJ 8]

I am really sorry about your story, and I hope you can find someone better. Good luck.

[martindart 0]

Get a temporary order of custody of child(s) based on the conduct, or lack of involvement of the mother with child. Document, document, document, all interactions between mother and child, her physical condition while with child, does she place child at risk? is she drunk, high, or fails to show up on time. Demonstrate/show a better living environment for child is with you. Until this matter is resolved, show the court you’re primary concern is for the total well being of the child

Good luck,

[ridejewel 0]

Well, I think it depends on whether or not you want her to stay. You can either divorce her now and she can file her I-715 as separated, (which she'll probably do on her own.) Or, if she doesn't know any better, she can stay married to you and you can tell USCIS how communist she is and hopefully, most likely, without a final divorce, she will get denied. But, if she has a divorce decree, she will be able to file alone and stay.

[Niels Bohr 72]

This is plain old dumb on your wife's part. Don't ever trust your wife if she hangs around with bad people overnight looking sexy. Never ever trust anyone like.

If your wife really truly loves you, she would never hang out with the guys overnight. She would rather spend the night with you alone after all the negatives she received at work.

In my opinion, I believe her leaving you is better for you. You can force child enforcement on her because she needs to pay for child support.

[Mr. Leggs 0]

i am so sorry to hear your story, you can hire a good lawyer to send back to VIT LAM

this is so sad!

[chuckandkim 0]

I really don't what to say GREEN!!!!!!!!! #######!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Mike n Huong 1]

Really don't know what to say. We wish the best for you.

[meowmeowmeow 1]

damn....real sorry to hear that...truly, you have my sympathies :(