Newbie needs some help in the right direction...

[john & jean 37]

Moved to Off Topic. The OP does not yet even have a fiancee, so K1 is not the right forum.

God, not this effing topic again.

ROFL!!!

Told you! LOL

But now we are confusing the poor guy. Latinas, Phillpinas, Thais, Eastern Europeans. Life is just a box of chocolates ain't it?

yep, we knew they would be along soon, attitude and all........

[scandal 951]

Moved to Off Topic. The OP does not yet even have a fiancee, so K1 is not the right forum.

God, not this effing topic again.

ROFL!!!

Told you! LOL

But now we are confusing the poor guy. Latinas, Phillpinas, Thais, Eastern Europeans. Life is just a box of chocolates ain't it?

Choices, choices, choices....

yep, we knew they would be along soon, attitude and all........

sigh. VJ Gestapo. At least we're in OT now, gonna probably get more color commentary in this thread from the yahoos PDQ...

[Anh map 2,098]

Now I guess it's time to go to sleep. nothing explosive going to happen now...

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

I'm sorry, I'm an organizer. I'm supposed to move threads to relevant fora if they are not posted in an appropriate forum. The OP does not have a fiancee and is asking questions about whether a woman from a particular country would make a good wife for him. It's not a K1 topic, and frankly, this has been brought up time and again. I was merely expressing my exasperation, not judging the OP.

If this constitutes having an attitude, wow.

[john & jean 37]

I'm sorry, I'm an organizer. I'm supposed to move threads to relevant fora if they are not posted in an appropriate forum. The OP does not have a fiancee and is asking questions about whether a woman from a particular country would make a good wife for him. It's not a K1 topic, and frankly, this has been brought up time and again. I was merely expressing my exasperation, not judging the OP.

If this constitutes having an attitude, wow.

TEN TOPICS ADDRESSED IN FIVE MINUTES,W O W....

[scandal 951]

I'm sorry, I'm an organizer. I'm supposed to move threads to relevant fora if they are not posted in an appropriate forum. The OP does not have a fiancee and is asking questions about whether a woman from a particular country would make a good wife for him. It's not a K1 topic, and frankly, this has been brought up time and again. I was merely expressing my exasperation, not judging the OP.

If this constitutes having an attitude, wow.

My apologies. I'm sorry -- I did get carried away a bit. I normally am a circumspect VJ member (you may have seen my posts in other forums, I don't lightly use terms like 'gestapo'). I apologize. I know you're doing your volunteer duty to keep VJ useful, and I don't think you have an inappropriate attitude at all. Now that this thread is in OT, it should probably just fizzle out. Or not.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

TEN TOPICS ADDRESSED IN FIVE MINUTES,W O W....

I'm sorry, I don't understand what this is supposed to mean.

My apologies. I'm sorry -- I did get carried away a bit. I normally am a circumspect VJ member (you may have seen my posts in other forums, I don't lightly use terms like 'gestapo'). I apologize. I know you're doing your volunteer duty to keep VJ useful, and I don't think you have an inappropriate attitude at all. Now that this thread is in OT, it should probably just fizzle out. Or not.

No problem! I'm not trying to start a sh!t storm here, believe it or not.

[Empress of Groovy 373]

Good hair is a must.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

I'm sorry, I'm an organizer. I'm supposed to move threads to relevant fora if they are not posted in an appropriate forum. The OP does not have a fiancee and is asking questions about whether a woman from a particular country would make a good wife for him. It's not a K1 topic, and frankly, this has been brought up time and again. I was merely expressing my exasperation, not judging the OP.

If this constitutes having an attitude, wow.

There is a REASON it is brought up time and again. And adding the "effing topic" constitutes an attitude, not moving it to where it belongs.

I wonder if you say the same thing when you move the 8 times daily question about question #2 on the I-134 from K-1 to Embassy and Consulates? Or do you reserve the "effing topic" for anything not complimentary to western women? I wonder what would happen to me if I responded "Oh, not this effing topic again" to the woman with a Canadian fiance asking about question 11 on the I-134 for the 10th time today? Would you send me a TOS warning Elm?

So, frankly, I would expect to see the same thinly veiled profanity from you directed at ANY topic which is brought up time and again. If so, then I will retract my opinion that indeed, you have an attitude!

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Gary, seriously, relax. If you're trying to paint me as a shrill, bra-burning feminazi and yourself as the voice of reason, you're not doing a particularly good job given the tenor of your last post.

If you like, I shall append "not this effing topic again" to each topic moved for the next 24 hours.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Gary, seriously, relax. If you're trying to paint me as a shrill, bra-burning feminazi and yourself as the voice of reason, you're not doing a particularly good job given the tenor of your last post.

If you like, I shall append "not this effing topic again" to each topic moved for the next 24 hours.

OK, thank you.

[fozzie 41]

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

It shall be done!

[Scott & Lai 12]

WOW! Are you thinking soul mate or housekeeper?

What did the OP say that suggested a housekeeper?

[Empress of Groovy 373]

I'm sorry, I'm an organizer. I'm supposed to move threads to relevant fora if they are not posted in an appropriate forum. The OP does not have a fiancee and is asking questions about whether a woman from a particular country would make a good wife for him. It's not a K1 topic, and frankly, this has been brought up time and again. I was merely expressing my exasperation, not judging the OP.

If this constitutes having an attitude, wow.

There is a REASON it is brought up time and again. And adding the "effing topic" constitutes an attitude, not moving it to where it belongs.

I wonder if you say the same thing when you move the 8 times daily question about question #2 on the I-134 from K-1 to Embassy and Consulates? Or do you reserve the "effing topic" for anything not complimentary to western women? I wonder what would happen to me if I responded "Oh, not this effing topic again" to the woman with a Canadian fiance asking about question 11 on the I-134 for the 10th time today? Would you send me a TOS warning Elm?

So, frankly, I would expect to see the same thinly veiled profanity from you directed at ANY topic which is brought up time and again. If so, then I will retract my opinion that indeed, you have an attitude!

Effing topic = Repeated trollish silliness designed to kick off 300+ posts (granted, some very funny) in a 12-hour period. Probably will get locked.

Not an effing topic = Common practical questions about forms and procedures.

Not that effing hard to distinguish.