Does she have the right to be upset???What should I do?

[domegirl1978 1]

GOOD LORD! This thread is still going on...I can't believe it. Someone should close this already.

I don't think he's going to bother responding as to why he chose a Canadian forum to post this in.

I feel horrible for this poor girl he's got over there. I can't even imagine how she must be feeling.

I wonder if she also comes on visa journey. If so, I hope she sees this post. Maybe it will open her eyes.

And i just realized the name of this post. Does she have the right to be upset.....again...GOOD LORD, hell yes she does.

[kramervskramer 0]

I am sorry I posted this to the wrong forum. Please have the admin close it. We talk about this in the evening and thank you all for the advises. Again, my apology and am sorry for my messed up grammar there and spellings. Whatever will the result be, I will come back to tell you all. Please have the admin close this thread.

[KristinL 0]

GOOD LORD! This thread is still going on...I can't believe it. Someone should close this already.

I don't think he's going to bother responding as to why he chose a Canadian forum to post this in.

I feel horrible for this poor girl he's got over there. I can't even imagine how she must be feeling.

I wonder if she also comes on visa journey. If so, I hope she sees this post. Maybe it will open her eyes.

And i just realized the name of this post. Does she have the right to be upset.....again...GOOD LORD, hell yes she does.

This has got to be the fastest growing post of all time! its been steadily at the top of the Canadian forum since it was posted

I don't think a sane person in a relationship would tell you that she doesn't have a right to be upset. You hid things from her, you kept her in an insecure position and your toying with this other woman - no matter what the NATURE of your relationship is,

What did you expect we were going to say? Go buy some roses and grovel.

[coldwatersurf 5]

to OP:

I have sent you a message. I know people are bashing you. yes you are stupid and you're still making excuses and you need to stop that b/c thats why people are still posting the way they are.

bottom line is i think you came here for advice to save your relationship. sorry that you havent received any from your thread.(- oh except from anh map)- good advice

So i have sent you some. and hope others would help you instead of stating the obvious that you F*<ked up tremendously.

Edited April 28, 2009 by borderdriver

[wowswift 3]

maybe he posted it here because he felt the canadian forum was lacking drama lolz

[trailmix 77]

maybe he posted it here because he felt the canadian forum was lacking drama lolz

Anh map did give you good advice.

You don't need to apologize for your spelling or your grammar.

Good luck!

[GloriaLuvsMoto2 0]

I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

I understand that u dont want to be blamed for what might happen to her that u tried your best to save her. But now bec of that ur having troubles saving your relationship. TRUST is very essential, once its ruined ITS OVER!! Im sorry but hope that she would still want to take you back. LYING is a great offense.. much more with keeping her pics.. (seriously, Why do u have to do that?)

her pics are no bigdeal. they are just in the computer and if i was afraid she would find it out, I would have deleted it so she wont know about it but that is not my intention at all. I just didn't have the courage to tell her before.

Yes, we talked but we are not done yet. She was crying and I certainly feel awful about it. She keep saying she does not want to ask me what not to do but to just do the right thing for our relationship otherwise she is going home. I dont want to go home. I am thinking about this all day and deciding weather to completely cut my communication with that woman and keep her. I want her in my life she knows that. It's just a long process for me to let that girl forget about me.

Youre kidding right? Man oh man!! Listen to yourself, I mean really, you havent even decided fully WETHER to cut completely your sh#T with her. Put in mind that at this point your fiancee might be thinking as to [b]WETHER[/b] she would still want to marry you or not. And im sure it would take a very looooong process aswell to mend the pain that youve created. Sorry man.. but at this point. You're in deep SH#T!!!

Edited April 28, 2009 by GloriaLuvsMoto2

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Thread closed at OP's request