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Does she have the right to be upset???What should I do?

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sj5   4

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I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

I understand that u dont want to be blamed for what might happen to her that u tried your best to save her. But now bec of that ur having troubles saving your relationship. TRUST is very essential, once its ruined ITS OVER!! Im sorry but hope that she would still want to take you back. LYING is a great offense.. much more with keeping her pics.. (seriously, Why do u have to do that?)

her pics are no bigdeal. they are just in the computer and if i was afraid she would find it out, I would have deleted it so she wont know about it but that is not my intention at all. I just didn't have the courage to tell her before.

Yes, we talked but we are not done yet. She was crying and I certainly feel awful about it. She keep saying she does not want to ask me what not to do but to just do the right thing for our relationship otherwise she is going home. I dont want to go home. I am thinking about this all day and deciding weather to completely cut my communication with that woman and keep her. I want her in my life she knows that. It's just a long process for me to let that girl forget about me.

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I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

I understand that u dont want to be blamed for what might happen to her that u tried your best to save her. But now bec of that ur having troubles saving your relationship. TRUST is very essential, once its ruined ITS OVER!! Im sorry but hope that she would still want to take you back. LYING is a great offense.. much more with keeping her pics.. (seriously, Why do u have to do that?)

her pics are no bigdeal. they are just in the computer and if i was afraid she would find it out, I would have deleted it so she wont know about it but that is not my intention at all. I just didn't have the courage to tell her before.

Yes, we talked but we are not done yet. She was crying and I certainly feel awful about it. She keep saying she does not want to ask me what not to do but to just do the right thing for our relationship otherwise she is going home. I dont want to go home. I am thinking about this all day and deciding weather to completely cut my communication with that woman and keep her. I want her in my life she knows that. It's just a long process for me to let that girl forget about me.

What's your primary language?

dude am freakin out and i have no time to reread and edit it...

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I forget to answer your question. Of course she has right to get angry at you. Put yourself on her shoes. If she is seeing her ex-bf and communicate regularly with him. If you have children with your ex-gf then it's good to keep communication but if nothing. Move on. What you two talking about anyway, talking about the past sexual activities, and gossiping about your friends or lovers?

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I agree, she has every right to be upset. You want to spend the rest of your life with her, yet you lie to her.

You need to focus all the worry you have for your ex onto your relationship now.

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I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

If you just talking to her without sex material then it's fine. You're okay.

I'll check your IP address. :whistle:

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I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

If you just talking to her without sex material then it's fine. You're okay.

Oh lord.... this really doesn't belong in the Canadian forum! This has taken an OT tone.

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I wouldn't inverst so much effort and money if it was my intention. I didn't delete those picture because I didn't want to keep it from here. I could have chosen to delete them so she wouldn't see it. You all are missing my point here.

And I no longer have relation with this girl. OK?

If you just talking to her without sex material then it's fine. You're okay.

Oh lord.... this really doesn't belong in the Canadian forum! This has taken an OT tone.

I doubt he is trolling. :rofl: If I was his fiancee, I won't stop until he cry.

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This hasn't been moved yet? lol

Krikit, where are you :whistle:

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I don't want Krikit to move it until I get an answer for why he decided to post it here. I'm really curious about that. :unsure: Then move it away! :thumbs:

:lol: I was wondering the same, as I don't think the poster nor his fiancee is Canadian...

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jegcs, if you are serious about your fiance you will NEVER speak to your friend again. Her mental state is her problem to solve.

There is no good reason to create doubt in your future wife's mind about your interest and affections. This is a male giving this advice. I've been through all the ####### you are trying to sling. It only comes back and buries you. We can try to rationalize it in our minds all we want, but it will never, ever sit right with your fiance/wife.

Write off the money that the friend owes. It can't be worth more than your fiance.

Quit trying to paint yourself as the good guy to everyone else. TAKE CARE OF YOUR SOON TO BE WIFE!!!

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