Help wife is leaving me

[Jack_durban 0]

To cut a long story short been with my wife for a little over 2 years now

been in the US for about 8 months but when we moved to her home town

the marriage started gong bad. she has met someone else and is now leaving me

believe me my heart is broken and i don't know what to do

She has given me a month to move out

now i have some friends that i have decided to stay with in another part of the states

but what are my options?

if i decide i want to stay here in the US can I?

[Bobby+Umit 161]

Do you have a greencard?

Did you AOS?

Edited April 27, 2009 by Bobby_Umit

[tallcoolone 102]

Go ahead and get a lawyer.

Try to use your wife Credit Card and she will be liable for half the charges

Circle your wagon and try to get all you can get, do not try to be the nice guy and let her off easy

Stick it too her as hard as you can, and get all you can

Cuz trust me it happens to the man in the divorce all the time.

[Donna A 4]

Go ahead and get a lawyer.

Try to use your wife Credit Card and she will be liable for half the charges

Circle your wagon and try to get all you can get, do not try to be the nice guy and let her off easy

Stick it too her as hard as you can, and get all you can

Cuz trust me it happens to the man in the divorce all the time.

it also happens to woman all the time too.

[morocco4ever 63]

Do I get the impression that someone has burned the TCO? Some people deserve it.

[tallcoolone 102]

Do I get the impression that someone has burned the TCO? Some people deserve it.

I just post what I have seen over my lifetime.

I also post about guys getting the short end of the stick in Child Custody, I don't have children.

In USA the man fights an uphill battle when it comes to Divorce, Child Custody

It just is what it is...........

[KarenCee 3]

Do I get the impression that someone has burned the TCO? Some people deserve it.

I just post what I have seen over my lifetime.

I also post about guys getting the short end of the stick in Child Custody, I don't have children.

In USA the man fights an uphill battle when it comes to Divorce, Child Custody

It just is what it is...........

Not all cases are as you describe. You've only seen one side of it. My ex did NOT get the short end of the stick when it came to divorce and child support. He makes three times what I do in salary and pays only a small amount of CS monthly...for a child with special needs I might add. He also went 13 months without paying a dime. He got the house too. So, does that sound like a man who got the short end of the stick? Do you think this was right? My daughter didn't ask to be born with special needs. I didn't ask to be treated like sh*t either. Do you think that was right too?

Maybe you need to listen to the OTHER side of the story....it might open your eyes wide.

[Dakine 26]

Do you have a greencard?

Did you AOS?

Need answers to Bobby's questions to help the OP. Not a bunch of BS about who sticks it to who!

If he has a GC he can go ahead and file to remove conditions after final divorce. If he can prove he married in good faith he'll be OK and he'll get a 10 GC.

If no 2 year GC he needs a lawyer.

Edited May 3, 2009 by Haole

[KarenCee 3]

Do you have a greencard?

Did you AOS?

Need answers to Bobby's questions to help the OP. Not a bunch of BS about who sticks it to who!

If he has a GC he can go ahead and file to remove conditions after final divorce. If he can prove he married in good faith he'll be OK and he'll get a 10 GC.

If no 2 year GC he needs a lawyer.

I agree but sometimes comments like TCO's grate on my nerve. I'm sorry for offending anyone.