deserve gc or not

[elizabeth22 0]

hello i have not post in a while but i feel like i really need advices from you guys before i do something stuped..well i filed on aug 08 at vermot i got transfered to california on march 3, 09..exactly 49 days since transfer im going nuts..im super stressed out i checked the mail everyday also my online status but nothing..unfortulately my husband wants divorce he really wanted me to get the gc but his patience is over hes ready to file for divorce, he wants me to sign divorced papers should i do it or should i just let him file without my signature..do i let uscis know once he files or should i try to make my husband wait little longer but theres nothing for sure when i will get gc i really feel so close to get it and im afraid to lose everything whats wrong with CSC i had a lot of faith when i got transfered but now i dont know what to think please any advices or anybody in my situation

im lost

[YuAndDan 153]

Keep in mind you filed the I-751 based on marriage to US citizen, if this changes, you need to inform USCIS, and provide evidence that you did enter into the marriage in good faith, perhaps a letter from your spouse attesting to this.

[Immigrant2009 0]

hello i have not post in a while but i feel like i really need advices from you guys before i do something stuped..well i filed on aug 08 at vermot i got transfered to california on march 3, 09..exactly 49 days since transfer im going nuts..im super stressed out i checked the mail everyday also my online status but nothing..unfortulately my husband wants divorce he really wanted me to get the gc but his patience is over hes ready to file for divorce, he wants me to sign divorced papers should i do it or should i just let him file without my signature..do i let uscis know once he files or should i try to make my husband wait little longer but theres nothing for sure when i will get gc i really feel so close to get it and im afraid to lose everything whats wrong with CSC i had a lot of faith when i got transfered but now i dont know what to think please any advices or anybody in my situation

im lost

Hi elizabeth22,

I agree with YuAndDan. I-751 is based on marriage. Have you tried counseling for marriage. I would suggest try to work things out and don't get divorced, but you can't live with him anymore or it torture to you living together then part ways. If you get a divorce now you will complicate things for you further. If you don't hear anything in couple of weeks, contact your congressman/women/senator to inquire about your case.

Good Luck

[alimar 0]

To get divorced takes time, so you can use it in your side.... to inform USCIS you need to get the Divorce decree, so if you can not handle the situation with your husband and there is nothing to do, you don't have choice and sign the papers that your husband is asking to you. But like the other comments the remove on conditions is based on your marriage in good faith. Good Luck !!!!

[elizabeth22 0]

hello i have not post in a while but i feel like i really need advices from you guys before i do something stuped..well i filed on aug 08 at vermot i got transfered to california on march 3, 09..exactly 49 days since transfer im going nuts..im super stressed out i checked the mail everyday also my online status but nothing..unfortulately my husband wants divorce he really wanted me to get the gc but his patience is over hes ready to file for divorce, he wants me to sign divorced papers should i do it or should i just let him file without my signature..do i let uscis know once he files or should i try to make my husband wait little longer but theres nothing for sure when i will get gc i really feel so close to get it and im afraid to lose everything whats wrong with CSC i had a lot of faith when i got transfered but now i dont know what to think please any advices or anybody in my situation

im lost

SO SHOULD I JUST SIGN HIM THE DIVORCE AND GET LWANT LOST JUST CUS HE DOESNT ME ...I SEE IT AS UNFAIR

AT THIS POINT OF THE GAME I SUPPOSE TO GET THE CARD I M WAY AT THE END OF THE GAME

[mr and mrs 187]

it's not really a game. :l

[elizabeth22 0]

all right true is not a game but how can i take this after my husband told me lets wait fo you to get your gc then we talk about the divorce,,ok lets stay together naa you know what forget it get lost im gonna deport you things like that what do i suposse to do just give him divorce and thats it im gonna fight for it is not fair i enter marriage in good faith he didnt take it serious uscis just care about good faith so i have enough prove and if they dont give me the gc is ok i will just g

o back to my country ..

[mr and mrs 187]

here's what i think you should do to get the best information from visajourney.

1. fill in your timeline (click here) this will allow people here to understand where you are with things and allow them to give you good advice.

2. after filling in your timeline, post in the http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showforum=127 forum. people there can talk to you about your possible options regarding the divorce.

both of those actions will help you get the best advice from other visa journey members.

i wish you luck. take care of yourself and DO YOUR RESEARCH. knowledge is power!