anyone help me some advice pls i'm on the rough situation

[nonseeus 0]

hi i was married with some american girl, i loved her at first. and i stay with her for a while then i have to moved out b/c i can't stand her behavior , not looking for a job , also using drug. but we agree that i will suport her everymonth for $200 for living b/c i don't wanna lose my opportunity to living in the USA. right now i have conditional greencard which is only 6 months passed from the date that i got it , then i have to wait till next year to remove it. my problem i gave her $2500 bc she need help really bad. and now she wanted more another $2500 and she was soo rude called me said if i don't give her money another $2500 she gonna ###### me up by filing divorce. it's kinda blackmailed now .. and she let some girl called me on her phone said that she calling from ***laywer office she need my address because my wife she filing the divorce. soo i look at the phone book found that lawyer office telephone number then i called and ask if they called me and need my information then they said NO. she and her friend trying to thread me all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? and if i got divorce am i gonna lose my opportunity of living here?

[diadromous mermaid 36]

hi i was married with some american girl, i loved her at first. and i stay with her for a while then i have to moved out b/c i can't stand her behavior , not looking for a job , also using drug. but we agree that i will suport her everymonth for $200 for living b/c i don't wanna lose my opportunity to living in the USA. right now i have conditional greencard which is only 6 months passed from the date that i got it , then i have to wait till next year to remove it. my problem i gave her $2500 bc she need help really bad. and now she wanted more another $2500 and she was soo rude called me said if i don't give her money another $2500 she gonna ###### me up by filing divorce. it's kinda blackmailed now .. and she let some girl called me on her phone said that she calling from ***laywer office she need my address because my wife she filing the divorce. soo i look at the phone book found that lawyer office telephone number then i called and ask if they called me and need my information then they said NO. she and her friend trying to thread me all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? and if i got divorce am i gonna lose my opportunity of living here?

Do you have sufficient bonafides to prove the marriage was genuine? Once you ahve your conditional green card, you can divorce. Success would depend on if you have enough evidence that you lived together, shared residence and mixed your finances.

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

"Some American girl" ? Sorry but it sounds as though you just picked someone at random to marry, and now she is basically black mailing you over a greencard. Maybe someone will come along that can help you, because I certainly don't have an answer.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

"Some American girl" ? Sorry but it sounds as though you just picked someone at random to marry, and now she is basically black mailing you over a greencard. Maybe someone will come along that can help you, because I certainly don't have an answer.

I can't determine if the OP feels that the payment to his wife appears fishy. But there is nothing inherently wrong with a spouse agreeing to assist another financially during a period of separation. However, if the spouse is taking advantage fo the situation, then he has options to put a stop to it, IF he has sufficient bona fides for the marriage. Any step from this point onwards for his immigration case would require that he show that the marriage was genuine. He needs to assemble his evidences from the time they were cohabitating.

[Heracles 417]

You should see a immigration lawyer..

[chocolaterie 0]

Yeah, you need to see a lawyer. but since you have your conditional greencard, you can remove conditions on your own like mermaid said.

[shirlJ831 0]

seek some help for yourself and good luck

[rodney22 0]

You asked...stop pulling a scam. Give me your number and "the american girls" number and then i can tell who is getting over on who. Dont post heresay...it is not recognized in court or here.

[jolanda 0]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...amp;hl=nonseeus

[dcl766 0]

hi i was married with some american girl, i loved her at first. and i stay with her for a while then i have to moved out b/c i can't stand her behavior , not looking for a job , also using drug. but we agree that i will suport her everymonth for $200 for living b/c i don't wanna lose my opportunity to living in the USA. right now i have conditional greencard which is only 6 months passed from the date that i got it , then i have to wait till next year to remove it. my problem i gave her $2500 bc she need help really bad. and now she wanted more another $2500 and she was soo rude called me said if i don't give her money another $2500 she gonna ###### me up by filing divorce. it's kinda blackmailed now .. and she let some girl called me on her phone said that she calling from ***laywer office she need my address because my wife she filing the divorce. soo i look at the phone book found that lawyer office telephone number then i called and ask if they called me and need my information then they said NO. she and her friend trying to thread me all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? and if i got divorce am i gonna lose my opportunity of living here?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...amp;hl=nonseeus

Thanks Jolanda.

Hey Mr Nonsense, quit clogging up the boards with your fake posts....don't you have a hobby besides bugging us?

"Some American Girl"?? Get a life.

Edited June 24, 2006 by dcl766

[dmartmar 1]

You're so unhappy and miserable in this situation, yet willing to stay in it for as long as it is necessary to get the GC.

FRAUDSTER!!!!

[Anyta Holland 1]

You made your bed, now lie on it! Seems you're more interested in your GC than your "some american girl"... That is, if you are for real!

[nonseeus 0]

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

You made your bed, now lie on it! Seems you're more interested in your GC than your "some american girl"... That is, if you are for real!

You made your bed, now lie on it! Seems you're more interested in your GC than your "some american girl"... That is, if you are for real!

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

You made your bed, now lie on it! Seems you're more interested in your GC than your "some american girl"... That is, if you are for real!

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

hi i was married with some american girl, i loved her at first. and i stay with her for a while then i have to moved out b/c i can't stand her behavior , not looking for a job , also using drug. but we agree that i will suport her everymonth for $200 for living b/c i don't wanna lose my opportunity to living in the USA. right now i have conditional greencard which is only 6 months passed from the date that i got it , then i have to wait till next year to remove it. my problem i gave her $2500 bc she need help really bad. and now she wanted more another $2500 and she was soo rude called me said if i don't give her money another $2500 she gonna ###### me up by filing divorce. it's kinda blackmailed now .. and she let some girl called me on her phone said that she calling from ***laywer office she need my address because my wife she filing the divorce. soo i look at the phone book found that lawyer office telephone number then i called and ask if they called me and need my information then they said NO. she and her friend trying to thread me all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? and if i got divorce am i gonna lose my opportunity of living here?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...amp;hl=nonseeus

Thanks Jolanda.

Hey Mr Nonsense, quit clogging up the boards with your fake posts....don't you have a hobby besides bugging us?

"Some American Girl"?? Get a life.

the first time i met her she is very nice but now , f up because drug , and bugging some ###### money , this is kindda trick me and take advantage of me. can't stand that. so i'm leaving i don't really care about gc now i want family and house in my country but thax u guy for advice.

[Anyta Holland 1]

Is that the only line you've got?

[Yodrak 7]

nonseeus,

First have a consultation with an immigration attorney, then have a consultation with a divorce attorney.

Yodrak

hi i was married with some american girl, i loved her at first. and i stay with her for a while then i have to moved out b/c i can't stand her behavior , not looking for a job , also using drug. but we agree that i will suport her everymonth for $200 for living b/c i don't wanna lose my opportunity to living in the USA. right now i have conditional greencard which is only 6 months passed from the date that i got it , then i have to wait till next year to remove it. my problem i gave her $2500 bc she need help really bad. and now she wanted more another $2500 and she was soo rude called me said if i don't give her money another $2500 she gonna ###### me up by filing divorce. it's kinda blackmailed now .. and she let some girl called me on her phone said that she calling from ***laywer office she need my address because my wife she filing the divorce. soo i look at the phone book found that lawyer office telephone number then i called and ask if they called me and need my information then they said NO. she and her friend trying to thread me all the time. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? and if i got divorce am i gonna lose my opportunity of living here?