Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part14)

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hey ladies this is derron mrsbuggy's hubby and i just wanna have alittle input on how yall ladies think.

First, let me clear myself, i only have 2 female friends calling and my son's mother calling and even so she have spoken with 1 of them (not all d time) and i never remove myself from her presence during a call unless i must.

Now for d big topic alllll of u ladies need 2 b careful of how u apply the experiences of other relationships to urs. Ex: whenever my wife n i talk on d phone she use to always bug me of the things that she read on here, everyday she would have something to tell me and then she would compare me to it n sometimes it would develope an argument between us and i used to tell her she needs to get off that site cauz it's gonna cost us our relationship, luckly it didn't.

*Did she tell u guys that i'm an electrician by trade so it's always wise to save power.*

As for my adjustment i kno it is a phase i have to go through but it is boring as hell n 2 make it worst i do not have any friends or family nearby, my best part of the days are when she's home and i have someone to talk to and play with. ther is no perfect relationship, she has OCS n that's something i'm willing to deal with but we r working on it Lol.

be careful ladies and best wishes from Mr. buggy

Good mornng Mr. Buggy.

Do you know if the state that you are now livivng in require a license to be an electrician? Have you checked out the International Electrican Union there in your state yet? If you have to take the exam for that state now would be a good time to get the material and study for it. Also, I would venture down to the Elec. Union Hall and introduce myself, so when I start applying for jobs, I would have some contacts already in place.

Also, I would get a map and study the area, because when and if they assign me on a job the very first day, I would be ready to venture to that location without hesitation. You sound like a very wise man, so I know you may have already thought about some of this stuff.

BY the way.... chicken in every country taste like chicke, so I would aleat allow my wife to have one day that we can enjoy some of her down home country cooking.

Good luck to you and your wife.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I read the comments about the 'dangers' of social networks etc. Not discounting anyone's experience, but are you going to let your man out alone???

Will he go to a club??

Go to work??

Believe it or not, 100s and 1000s of people hook up at work and at the mall!!

When I first moved to London from Jamaica, the loneliness was awful. Didn't have any friends and had just my grandparents around me. And they ate different food, had a totally different culture. Yes, they tried to make adjustments but it wasn't enough.

Then I started using sites like Jamaicans.com, jamaica-netlink.com etc.

Was I there to meet someone?? Hell no!!

At that time, I was actually in a long distance relationship with my ex in Jamaica, so my aim was to just to talk to fellow Jamaicans.

Now, I am not saying lock your men in a room with 70 naked virgins, I am saying let the man go talk to FELLOW Jamaicans, people who may be going through the same thing as him.

YES, he may meet women, but hell every time he walks out of the house he will meet women!!

And wedding ring or not, they'll throw themselves at just for the accent alone!

Do any of you women use Facebook? Or Hi5??

I'm sure you do. Do you go on there and hook up with men behind your SO's back??? I'm sure you don't so why should he??

Treat your man like a dog, and he will become one.

Don't trust your man, and he will become untrustworthy.

In Mr Buggy's defense, I can say I have 4 GOOD males friends that I've known since I was 11 -15. And when I was in England on my own, they called me day and night. When times were rough they called me day and night.

When I moved here and sat home for a year, they called me day and night. And I thank God for my husband, because he never had a problem with it. Yes, a few of my female friends called too, but my best male friend lives in NY, and he'd call me really often because he sits at work doing nothing. Never ever EVER would I cheat on my husband, and he knows that.

Before you decide to take a man as your husband and spend the rest of your life with him, you have to KNOW he'll honor and respect you.

A cheater will always cheat. A decent man will not cheat, he'll leave.

If your man goes online and in the space of a few months goes and hooks up with someone, he was always a cheater - you just didn't know it.

And if it wasn't online, it would be somewhere else.

AMEN! ooman a which mont u bawn?

[*JG* 2]

I read the comments about the 'dangers' of social networks etc. Not discounting anyone's experience, but are you going to let your man out alone???

Will he go to a club??

Go to work??

Believe it or not, 100s and 1000s of people hook up at work and at the mall!!

When I first moved to London from Jamaica, the loneliness was awful. Didn't have any friends and had just my grandparents around me. And they ate different food, had a totally different culture. Yes, they tried to make adjustments but it wasn't enough.

Then I started using sites like Jamaicans.com, jamaica-netlink.com etc.

Was I there to meet someone?? Hell no!!

At that time, I was actually in a long distance relationship with my ex in Jamaica, so my aim was to just to talk to fellow Jamaicans.

Now, I am not saying lock your men in a room with 70 naked virgins, I am saying let the man go talk to FELLOW Jamaicans, people who may be going through the same thing as him.

YES, he may meet women, but hell every time he walks out of the house he will meet women!!

And wedding ring or not, they'll throw themselves at just for the accent alone!

Do any of you women use Facebook? Or Hi5??

I'm sure you do. Do you go on there and hook up with men behind your SO's back??? I'm sure you don't so why should he??

Treat your man like a dog, and he will become one.

Don't trust your man, and he will become untrustworthy.

In Mr Buggy's defense, I can say I have 4 GOOD males friends that I've known since I was 11 -15. And when I was in England on my own, they called me day and night. When times were rough they called me day and night.

When I moved here and sat home for a year, they called me day and night. And I thank God for my husband, because he never had a problem with it. Yes, a few of my female friends called too, but my best male friend lives in NY, and he'd call me really often because he sits at work doing nothing. Never ever EVER would I cheat on my husband, and he knows that.

Before you decide to take a man as your husband and spend the rest of your life with him, you have to KNOW he'll honor and respect you.

A cheater will always cheat. A decent man will not cheat, he'll leave.

If your man goes online and in the space of a few months goes and hooks up with someone, he was always a cheater - you just didn't know it.

And if it wasn't online, it would be somewhere else.

Maybe the difference is women have good male friends. Of my 5 best friends, 3 are male. Always has been like that.

[J2A♥oasis 2]

The women on the site.....the experiences of the women on this site....usually have a lot in common. Yes, you shouldn't nitpick your relationship because of another; but there is much to learn from all the experiences discussed on here.

JG, I agree with you here. VJ actually helped save my relationship.

Morning every1!

[J2A♥oasis 2]

On the subject of social networks-

I agree a cheater will do what they do, but why help them. An idle mind is more easily subject to temptations. I may not be able to or want to keep my man from these sites however, I don’t think he should be introduced to them during this period of boredom. I personally stay away from the myspaces, facebooks, etc. I have tried them but as soon as I found out what they were about I contacted the admin to delete my account. I try to only support sites like this one where the socialization is centered on gaining information. It’s not simply because people want to hook up. I think that’s important. If he wants to join a site that discusses financial management, books, mechanics, home ownership, or whatever else that is topically based, then I might agree with it. But a site to meet other people…no thank you. It has nothing to do with trust, this MAN is bored. I just can’t help but think about what was originally done when a man was found to be bored, he received a woman. I think I’ll give my man something else, a job application, a game console, enrollment in a Home Depot/Lowes class, or educational courses. Sure he could meet someone in these places, but then if he pursues that I have a cheater and there’s nothing I can do. IDK, these sites aren’t even good for me or my kids why introduce my husband to something so negative in potential both socially and professionally without preparing a foundation for the risks. I’d rather help him get to know more positive aspects of life in the US first then he’ll have something to compare the online experience to.

[J2A♥oasis 2]

Today is my daughter's birthday...I believe someone has something scheduled...oh yeah,

Justucia, I think today is supposed to be a milestone in your timeline, hope all goes well.

[DaDa 1]

Dada... are you in texas??

No Pittsburgh but I do have some Dallas friends that are trying to talk me into moving. I told them if they find me a job yeah I'll move why not. I actually hate it here in Pittsburgh so I’m open to new options and places.

[Jengles 0]

Hey ladies this is derron mrsbuggy's hubby and i just wanna have alittle input on how yall ladies think.

First, let me clear myself, i only have 2 female friends calling and my son's mother calling and even so she have spoken with 1 of them (not all d time) and i never remove myself from her presence during a call unless i must.

Now for d big topic alllll of u ladies need 2 b careful of how u apply the experiences of other relationships to urs. Ex: whenever my wife n i talk on d phone she use to always bug me of the things that she read on here, everyday she would have something to tell me and then she would compare me to it n sometimes it would develope an argument between us and i used to tell her she needs to get off that site cauz it's gonna cost us our relationship, luckly it didn't.

*Did she tell u guys that i'm an electrician by trade so it's always wise to save power.*

As for my adjustment i kno it is a phase i have to go through but it is boring as hell n 2 make it worst i do not have any friends or family nearby, my best part of the days are when she's home and i have someone to talk to and play with. ther is no perfect relationship, she has OCS n that's something i'm willing to deal with but we r working on it Lol.

be careful ladies and best wishes from Mr. buggy

Good mornng Mr. Buggy.

Do you know if the state that you are now livivng in require a license to be an electrician? Have you checked out the International Electrican Union there in your state yet? If you have to take the exam for that state now would be a good time to get the material and study for it. Also, I would venture down to the Elec. Union Hall and introduce myself, so when I start applying for jobs, I would have some contacts already in place.

Also, I would get a map and study the area, because when and if they assign me on a job the very first day, I would be ready to venture to that location without hesitation. You sound like a very wise man, so I know you may have already thought about some of this stuff.

BY the way.... chicken in every country taste like chicke, so I would aleat allow my wife to have one day that we can enjoy some of her down home country cooking.

Good luck to you and your wife.

LOL, MR Jengs says the beef here tastes different from the beef in J.A.

[*JG* 2]

Hey ladies this is derron mrsbuggy's hubby and i just wanna have alittle input on how yall ladies think.

First, let me clear myself, i only have 2 female friends calling and my son's mother calling and even so she have spoken with 1 of them (not all d time) and i never remove myself from her presence during a call unless i must.

Now for d big topic alllll of u ladies need 2 b careful of how u apply the experiences of other relationships to urs. Ex: whenever my wife n i talk on d phone she use to always bug me of the things that she read on here, everyday she would have something to tell me and then she would compare me to it n sometimes it would develope an argument between us and i used to tell her she needs to get off that site cauz it's gonna cost us our relationship, luckly it didn't.

*Did she tell u guys that i'm an electrician by trade so it's always wise to save power.*

As for my adjustment i kno it is a phase i have to go through but it is boring as hell n 2 make it worst i do not have any friends or family nearby, my best part of the days are when she's home and i have someone to talk to and play with. ther is no perfect relationship, she has OCS n that's something i'm willing to deal with but we r working on it Lol.

be careful ladies and best wishes from Mr. buggy

Good mornng Mr. Buggy.

Do you know if the state that you are now livivng in require a license to be an electrician? Have you checked out the International Electrican Union there in your state yet? If you have to take the exam for that state now would be a good time to get the material and study for it. Also, I would venture down to the Elec. Union Hall and introduce myself, so when I start applying for jobs, I would have some contacts already in place.

Also, I would get a map and study the area, because when and if they assign me on a job the very first day, I would be ready to venture to that location without hesitation. You sound like a very wise man, so I know you may have already thought about some of this stuff.

BY the way.... chicken in every country taste like chicke, so I would aleat allow my wife to have one day that we can enjoy some of her down home country cooking.

Good luck to you and your wife.

LOL, MR Jengs says the beef here tastes different from the beef in J.A.

I agree with that. I think they add sugar to it in JA.

[mrsjeffs 0]

Hey Ladies and Gentlmen

Good Morning

Just got back from my Interview and it went well. The IO was ok, not too serious. He asked us so many questions I dont even remember half of them. At the end he said his supervisor had to review my case , but everything looked good. He also said it takes up to 180 days for answer but he was gonna ask his supervisor to review it today , so I should get a reply in a few weeks .

I am just hoping for the best, I really am just happy the interview is done with

Thanks guys for all ur help....

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hey Ladies and Gentlmen

Good Morning

Just got back from my Interview and it went well. The IO was ok, not too serious. He asked us so many questions I dont even remember half of them. At the end he said his supervisor had to review my case , but everything looked good. He also said it takes up to 180 days for answer but he was gonna ask his supervisor to review it today , so I should get a reply in a few weeks .

I am just hoping for the best, I really am just happy the interview is done with

Thanks guys for all ur help....

Mrs. Jeff; I told you, God is good...CONGRATS...KEEP THE faith.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Hey Ladies and Gentlmen

Good Morning

Just got back from my Interview and it went well. The IO was ok, not too serious. He asked us so many questions I dont even remember half of them. At the end he said his supervisor had to review my case , but everything looked good. He also said it takes up to 180 days for answer but he was gonna ask his supervisor to review it today , so I should get a reply in a few weeks .

I am just hoping for the best, I really am just happy the interview is done with

Thanks guys for all ur help....

it will work out for the best, you are blessed and highly favored

[mrsjeffs 0]

Thank u ladies...

[Ellsinlove 2]

Morning Yardies!

One more day to crank out the powerpoint presentation so I'm gonna make it quick on here again.....if you see me, I may not really be here....just keeping the window open in case I need a quick "fix"! Can't stay away from you all for too long.

Hey ladies this is derron mrsbuggy's hubby and i just wanna have alittle input on how yall ladies think.

First, let me clear myself, i only have 2 female friends calling and my son's mother calling and even so she have spoken with 1 of them (not all d time) and i never remove myself from her presence during a call unless i must.

Now for d big topic alllll of u ladies need 2 b careful of how u apply the experiences of other relationships to urs. Ex: whenever my wife n i talk on d phone she use to always bug me of the things that she read on here, everyday she would have something to tell me and then she would compare me to it n sometimes it would develope an argument between us and i used to tell her she needs to get off that site cauz it's gonna cost us our relationship, luckly it didn't.

*Did she tell u guys that i'm an electrician by trade so it's always wise to save power.*

As for my adjustment i kno it is a phase i have to go through but it is boring as hell n 2 make it worst i do not have any friends or family nearby, my best part of the days are when she's home and i have someone to talk to and play with. ther is no perfect relationship, she has OCS n that's something i'm willing to deal with but we r working on it Lol.

be careful ladies and best wishes from Mr. buggy

Hi Mr Buggy & welcome to the board! It's great to read from you & thanks for sharing your side of the story. You make some very good points as far as comparing our relationships to others.

LOL @ saving power comment! Good job...you're already 'greener' than a lot of people in this country!

J2A-Did your SO need any transcripts or HS Diploma?? And my car is standard... I hate it, but he loves it! Also, I would love to SS cards... I'd treat the 2nd one like GOLD knowing what I know now.

Hopefully they won't change the rules by the times he gets here but so far, no. Some of the Community Colleges in our area say that once you reach a certain age you do not really need transcripts or a HS Diploma for the Adult Learning degree programs, you just have to complete the application along with a personal statement and include your non-refundable fee. For General Studies they also have Special Admissions where if you do not have a HS Diploma or equivalent, you can take the basic entrance exams (Math and Reading) to test out of the remedial courses or take their prep courses (for which you don’t receive credit.) If you successfully complete either of these, they’ll give you the status so you can matriculate towards your degree without it. For this you have to schedule an interview, complete a non-graduate petition, and submit an application along with the non-refundable fee.

You just summed all that up better than I could've J2A! Thanks!

Ells thanks for answering me. So you left out his middle school too? I don't know why they even need to know any of this. What does it matter?

Yes, I basically left the whole school section blank. I'm not sure why they need to know either but it may have something to do with becoming a public charge?? Maybe they figure those with better education are less likely to have to rely on the system? I really don't know.

A cheater will always cheat. A decent man will not cheat, he'll leave.

If your man goes online and in the space of a few months goes and hooks up with someone, he was always a cheater - you just didn't know it.

And if it wasn't online, it would be somewhere else.

All very good points & you summed it up perfectly at the end there!

Hey Ladies and Gentlmen

Good Morning

Just got back from my Interview and it went well. The IO was ok, not too serious. He asked us so many questions I dont even remember half of them. At the end he said his supervisor had to review my case , but everything looked good. He also said it takes up to 180 days for answer but he was gonna ask his supervisor to review it today , so I should get a reply in a few weeks .

I am just hoping for the best, I really am just happy the interview is done with

Thanks guys for all ur help....

Congrats on getting the interview part done Mrs Jeffs! I'm sure everything will be just fine but here's wishing you best of luck anyway!

[MrsBuggy 0]

Hello all... I had a few mins from work and wanted to jump in. Hope all is having a good day!