Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part14)

[Forever Young 1]

Gill, make a color photocopy of both sides of the card and laminate it back to back - I did that with my friend's GC and she carries that in her wallet, the real one is safely locked up.

Ahhhhhhh, Wonderful idea Sus-ie!!! Will do...TONIGHT!!

[^KK^ 3]

Has everyone seen the KFC coupons?

Free KFC Grilled Chicken

That's nice of them...and I don't mean to sound ungrateful...however, I would PAY good good money to get my hands on some Jamaican KFC...right now! OMGoodness, I coulddah nyam hoff mi finga dem chicken is SO good!!

I miss my Mo Bay KFC!!

And I thought it was only me that though the chicken tasted different. I have fond memories of that KFC, Gill!!!

Why whenever we would go, Ryan would skip the line? Never could figure out why he would go to the cashier instead of standing in line. Then we went with his twin sisters, they did the same thing. No one said a word..just stared in awh...at twins.

So like Sus said its not the trip its trust.. With her having to follow him around all the time she really must not trust him.

Yeah...it's just stupid..either be okay with him going...or not be okay and let him know. She is silly. This is why, as Ryan tells me...Stay out of Lover's affairs. And I always so...don't count other people money. You don't know what people have..outside looking into the situation.

[newlynluv 0]

Mawning yardies *waving* hey Dada i am so not in the mood today it's raining in NYC and it dont help my mood at all hurmph! i fell like im having amid life crisis at 25! #######

[mrsjeffs 0]

My aunt received an e-mail from the NVC that her husband in jamaica should mail them his :

Passport

Police record

Marriage Certificate

Birth Certificate

2 Passport size pics

The e-mail also stated that when they receive these items an interview date will be set.

Do u guys know approx how long after they receive these documents will they receive a date?

Does anyone have an idea??

[damniecy 0]

My aunt received an e-mail from the NVC that her husband in jamaica should mail them his :

Passport

Police record

Marriage Certificate

Birth Certificate

2 Passport size pics

The e-mail also stated that when they receive these items an interview date will be set.

Do u guys know approx how long after they receive these documents will they receive a date?

Does anyone have an idea??

My husband got his interview date two weeks after our case was completed. His interview is next week

[sus 70]

My aunt received an e-mail from the NVC that her husband in jamaica should mail them his :

Passport

Police record

Marriage Certificate

Birth Certificate

2 Passport size pics

The e-mail also stated that when they receive these items an interview date will be set.

Do u guys know approx how long after they receive these documents will they receive a date?

Does anyone have an idea??

I didn't think you sent the passport - just the rest - I would double check that against the CR1 guides

[damniecy 0]

My aunt received an e-mail from the NVC that her husband in jamaica should mail them his :

Passport

Police record

Marriage Certificate

Birth Certificate

2 Passport size pics

The e-mail also stated that when they receive these items an interview date will be set.

Do u guys know approx how long after they receive these documents will they receive a date?

Does anyone have an idea??

I didn't think you sent the passport - just the rest - I would double check that against the CR1 guides

I believe Sus is right. I sent a copy of his Biograhic page

[shrewdgal 0]

i was just reading...are they supposed to carry the green card at all times??

Im not sure if hubby does or not....... hmmm

[culture1 0]

Hey Yardies.......here in mobay, just trying to deal......No interview happened for us...SO ill, and stupid health care system kept him sicker!..had to request new date. FREaking out about the whole thing, running out of money and crisis after crisis. This was to be such a happy trip. it's too much to report on, so just saying , send us some healing vibes and hope that next check in will be good news. culture1

[dillon 6]

Sorry to hear culture1 I was thinking about you guys yesterday and was wondering how it was going. Get him better and then worry about the interview then.

[damniecy 0]

i was just reading...are they supposed to carry the green card at all times??

Im not sure if hubby does or not....... hmmm

I never carried my green card around with me when i had it. I had for 9 years and only took it out when needed

Hey Yardies.......here in mobay, just trying to deal......No interview happened for us...SO ill, and stupid health care system kept him sicker!..had to request new date. FREaking out about the whole thing, running out of money and crisis after crisis. This was to be such a happy trip. it's too much to report on, so just saying , send us some healing vibes and hope that next check in will be good news. culture1

Sorry to hear whats going on. I hope and pray that all turns out well for you and your SO

[jawi876 2]

Hey ladies!

KK I think your friend has definite trust issues.

Sus I see your point as well, and I agree wholeheartedly. However, I understand (not necessarily agree with) DaDa's point of view. If we look at this based on the types of men we are dating, I think African Americans males don't have the same vacation activities as say White American men. Most African American men are not surfing or being beach bums enjoying the Caribbean...if they travel in a pack...they are usually on the prowl. LOL I am not trying to be stereotypical...just a suggestion as to why DaDa responded like she did.

I don't have a problem with A travelling without me. I trust him until he gives me a reason not to trust him. Just last night, we were talking about travelling after he gets here and gets AP. We decided that our first trip will be a cruise to anywhere but Jamaica. I told him "Yeah baby...that will be cool, and the ship is big enough for us to take a breather from each other if you start working my nerves. Okay Baby I'm going to do xyz...see you in a little while." He was rolling! Then he told me that I wasn't easy. I just think a couple doesn't have to be joined at the hip at all times to be in love. It reeks of insecurity and lack of trust if one partner can't let the other out of their sight for a minute.

[*JG* 2]

Question of the day!!!

Do grown men still take trips with the boys to different islands?

Please give me your thoughts.

I think that couples need time together and time apart - My brother in law will go for golf or fishing weekends with his buddies - My sister has taken spa weekends with her friends - I think that the couple needs to decide for themselves if it is okay - Personally, it would depend on my comfort level with his friends, if it was a once in a while thing, and that we had talked about it all before hand -

Sus - Let's say...it's a yearly trip that the college friends take. They always hang out at home so it's not like they don't see them all the time. And all have a history of cheating.

So my next question would be....would you plan a "girls" trip to the same place at the same time?

It's the trust issues I would have problems with. I know a few guys who take yearly trips with childhood pals with no issues.

[dillon 6]

Hey ladies!

KK I think your friend has definite trust issues.

Sus I see your point as well, and I agree wholeheartedly. However, I understand (not necessarily agree with) DaDa's point of view. If we look at this based on the types of men we are dating, I think African Americans males don't have the same vacation activities as say White American men. Most African American men are not surfing or being beach bums enjoying the Caribbean...if they travel in a pack...they are usually on the prowl. LOL I am not trying to be stereotypical...just a suggestion as to why DaDa responded like she did.

I don't have a problem with A travelling without me. I trust him until he gives me a reason not to trust him. Just last night, we were talking about travelling after he gets here and gets AP. We decided that our first trip will be a cruise to anywhere but Jamaica. I told him "Yeah baby...that will be cool, and the ship is big enough for us to take a breather from each other if you start working my nerves. Okay Baby I'm going to do xyz...see you in a little while." He was rolling! Then he told me that I wasn't easy. I just think a couple doesn't have to be joined at the hip at all times to be in love. It reeks of insecurity and lack of trust if one partner can't let the other out of their sight for a minute.

I agree 100%

[jawi876 2]

Hey Yardies.......here in mobay, just trying to deal......No interview happened for us...SO ill, and stupid health care system kept him sicker!..had to request new date. FREaking out about the whole thing, running out of money and crisis after crisis. This was to be such a happy trip. it's too much to report on, so just saying , send us some healing vibes and hope that next check in will be good news. culture1

Awww Culture and Mr. Culture....I'm sending healing prayers up for him. Are you staying in Jamaica for the next interview date?