Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part14)

[mrsjeffs 0]

My aunt received an e-mail from the NVC that her husband in jamaica should mail them his :

Passport

Police record

Marriage Certificate

Birth Certificate

2 Passport size pics

The e-mail also stated that when they receive these items an interview date will be set.

Do u guys know approx how long after they receive these documents will they receive a date?

[DaDa 1]

My morning has been peaceful so far. I am working the Emergency room for 12 hours today.

what do you do in the E.R?

i can't imagine what it would be like working in there

im fascinated with people that are able to work in the E.R.

two of my dear friends were paramedic partners in harlem/spanish harlem

lawd, the stories

HEY LADIES

I am a psychiatric Social worker so I basically do the assessment of the mentally ill patients that present to the ER via police, etc. to find out if they need to be admitted voluntarily, involutarily committed or just referred to community mental health support. I love my job--never a dull day.

Hey I know what you do I seen it on ER!!! LOL

[DaDa 1]

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I would never say that the shutting down thing is just a JA thing - cause my Dad did it his whole life - I am okay with needing space - Lord knows, at times I have to walk away and come back when I am calm - But TELL me you need the space - don't just take it and assume I am okay with it - We'll see what happens, only time will tell -

I haven't told him yet - but the first part of my stay I kept the same in Ochi - I cancelled what I had booked for my honeymoon and booked to go over to Negril with my girls - Whether or not he comes with me remains to be seen.

omg sus.. i said this very thing to a friend the other day.. im ok w/ u not talking to me, but withdrawal of communication is punishment.. don't leave me in the dark like that ..

tell me, "u know what u said something that i didn't like and i am just gonna chlll for a min"..

that is what i mean by talking.. i am not gonna badger u until we come to resolution.. shoot that may never happen.. i just want the respect of u advising me of ur actions and why.. u might not talk to me for a week over something that was just u MISUNDERSTANDING me..

this is what happend w/ roger.. i was expressing my feeling about LDR being hard and i didn't know if i cld continue.. he ASSUMED i wanted to go back to my husband and this was my way of telling him, which was FAR from the truth.. he wouldnt answer my calls for a week.. a whole week wasted when u could have just told me why u were upset and u wanted space and then i could have clarified myself

The thing that i do when i get upset or frustrated is i raise my voice ... I'll never forget my fiance and i were on the phone and he had been gone back to Ja about 2 months and he was frustrating me because he was talking to me and his friends and i would say something to him and he would hear me and then he says to me why aint you talking to me and i got upset and and said I AM BUT YOUR NOT LISTENING ! And he just as calm say to me why are you shouting..all i could do is laugh

I have the same problem. This was my realization yesterday on VJ. I asked Roc last night does he feel like when we argue or disagree do I raise my voice at him and he was like ALL THE TIME!!! I was like oh o.k...

[DaDa 1]

Jawi- I like Pic One for sure....

[dancehallquana 5]

hey jawi my luv.. i feel u on that figure thing.. the guys would rather see a empire waist than a dress making me look like i am 3 mnths preggers.. sorry i can't see the pics at work...

nat.. girl u are speaking to ur sister babygirl..

i do not like to chit chat on the phone . thankfully i have friends that know me and understand me so they don't take it personal.. ive ALWAYS been this way.. i txt, email but i don't like talking on the phone.. my best friend we would talk once every couple of mnths and like u say when i do get on the phone, I CANT GET OFF.. thats why i LOVE fb, myspace.. all of those ways to keep in touch LOL

dara .. all mi a say ie mi blessed to have this likkle skinny man i got cuz lord know i am a friendly ooman.. when we went to karoke.. i was singing Ebony and ivory w/ this bahamian and u know i gotta put on a show.. we had to share 1 mic so we was hugging and looking into each other eyes.. i had a ball and when i got thru came and sat in my baby lap LOL.. he says he likes to see me do my ting LOL.. i love him soo much for letting me be me..

but then again.. i hvent SEEN u when u UHHH "speaking" to guys LOL.. just kidding..

[NatPatBen 3]

but then again.. i hvent SEEN u when u UHHH "speaking" to guys LOL.. just kidding..

[DaDa 1]

hey jawi my luv.. i feel u on that figure thing.. the guys would rather see a empire waist than a dress making me look like i am 3 mnths preggers.. sorry i can't see the pics at work...

nat.. girl u are speaking to ur sister babygirl..

i do not like to chit chat on the phone . thankfully i have friends that know me and understand me so they don't take it personal.. ive ALWAYS been this way.. i txt, email but i don't like talking on the phone.. my best friend we would talk once every couple of mnths and like u say when i do get on the phone, I CANT GET OFF.. thats why i LOVE fb, myspace.. all of those ways to keep in touch LOL

dara .. all mi a say ie mi blessed to have this likkle skinny man i got cuz lord know i am a friendly ooman.. when we went to karoke.. i was singing Ebony and ivory w/ this bahamian and u know i gotta put on a show.. we had to share 1 mic so we was hugging and looking into each other eyes.. i had a ball and when i got thru came and sat in my baby lap LOL.. he says he likes to see me do my ting LOL.. i love him soo much for letting me be me..

but then again.. i hvent SEEN u when u UHHH "speaking" to guys LOL.. just kidding..

O.k. when I was in Dallas and I was speaking to whats his name from the club. Oh wait never mind you wouldn't have saw us because you were on the DANCE FLOOR!!! lol

[dillon 6]

Quana...

I went to a social security office last week and was thinking about you. What do you do that you can be on the computer...those ladies that help you out sure don't look like they can do anything but work.

[DaDa 1]

but then again.. i hvent SEEN u when u UHHH "speaking" to guys LOL.. just kidding..

See how she does me Nat and she is supposed to be my girl!!!!! I’m telling you I do be good!!! (as she crosses her fingers behind her back)

[sus 70]

Sus are you serious!!! You changed the plans and haven't informed him yet?? Ooooooooooo I'm telling...lol Girl yuh gonna get it fi sure... Whoo when you said you put yup a wall you mean you put up a wall but Sus keep it real do you really think you can be in Jamaica and not be with him if he decides to not come?? I hate to see you tell your friends,"Go ahead without me I'll catch up."...

We are together the first few days and have a lot to talk about - I booked a room for two where my friends will be staying - if things don't go well, then he'll be staying in Ochi - if things are okay, he can come with me - But Yes, I think I can be in Jamaica and not be with him if he decides not to come - My happiness in JA - especially in Negril, is not contingent on him - I've been travelling there for YEARS before him -

[dancehallquana 5]

O.k. when I was in Dallas and I was speaking to whats his name from the club. Oh wait never mind you wouldn't have saw us because you were on the DANCE FLOOR!!! lol

touche..touche..

[DaDa 1]

Quana...

I went to a social security office last week and was thinking about you. What do you do that you can be on the computer...those ladies that help you out sure don't look like they can do anything but work.

Because Quana doesn't work!!!

[DaDa 1]

Sus are you serious!!! You changed the plans and haven't informed him yet?? Ooooooooooo I'm telling...lol Girl yuh gonna get it fi sure... Whoo when you said you put yup a wall you mean you put up a wall but Sus keep it real do you really think you can be in Jamaica and not be with him if he decides to not come?? I hate to see you tell your friends,"Go ahead without me I'll catch up."...

We are together the first few days and have a lot to talk about - I booked a room for two where my friends will be staying - if things don't go well, then he'll be staying in Ochi - if things are okay, he can come with me - But Yes, I think I can be in Jamaica and not be with him if he decides not to come - My happiness in JA - especially in Negril, is not contingent on him - I've been travelling there for YEARS before him -

True but now that you have met him.... Well I guess we shall see won't we.. You might be right. When I was there in Feb me ad Roc was on good terms so it was funny doing things without him but if we were having issues then it might be easier...

Jawi the tube rafting sounds relaxing and fun. I love anything that deals with water BESIDES parasailing...I'm sorry but I believe in gravity and I still don’t believe that the wind is going to just lift me up in the air like that. I'll be the only one going down the island at sea level...

Did anyone see Making the Band when the guy got Roberts shoes wet? That is what the freak he gets for going parasailing with them on...

[jawi876 2]

Jawi, look for something that brings in above your waist and goes looser just over your belly - Like this:

I like the first one...but I have to be careful that the dress doesn't make me look too old. I'm still relatively young and I don't want to feel like a 2nd time bride (even though I am) going down the aisle. LOL

I found some others too...

Dress 3

Dress 4

[jawi876 2]

True but now that you have met him.... Well I guess we shall see won't we.. You might be right. When I was there in Feb me ad Roc was on good terms so it was funny doing things without him but if we were having issues then it might be easier...

Jawi the tube rafting sounds relaxing and fun. I love anything that deals with water BESIDES parasailing...I'm sorry but I believe in gravity and I still don’t believe that the wind is going to just lift me up in the air like that. I'll be the only one going down the island at sea level...

Did anyone see Making the Band when the guy got Roberts shoes wet? That is what the freak he gets for going parasailing with them on...

roooolllliiinnnnn!!! You stupid!!!! DAYUM. LMAO!!! :rofl: