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SHES_LOVED21 ???/ NAT A RASS..MI A GO FIND A MOD...U A COME OFF A VJ..NOBODDA COME YAH COME START NUTTIN,..NEVA AFFI COME YAH SO

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Wakey, I don't think I can express my sorrow for you and hurt any worse than you do right now, and I can't express how I feel any better than what has already been said. But, I would be composing a letter to the USCIS office, to let them know that I am no longer going to AOS with him. I would list all of my reasons, and request that they do not continue to process his AOS. I would do that right now, before they send his application for approval.

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Get in line with my sister, brother, and mom.. Me I just feel like a zombie.. I need to take action but right now all I can do is cry.. I say the signs and confronted him about stuff and of course he denied always to the end.. no babe oonu mi wife mi neva hurt or cheat pon ya.. rah rah.. and here this woman is pregnant with the baby I was trying to hard to conceive. There is a reason the Lord wouldn't let me conceive.

There was a reason the Lord wouldn't let you conceive WITH HIM!!

When did you find out? Has he moved out?

Yes I kicked him out yesterday and he is calling saying he would never have thrown me in the street like a dog even i did do what he had done.. I do worry about what will happen to him..he doesn't make much money. My family tells me I'm a fool for still caring. I'm not going back to him but I feel sorry for him. I know he will find his way though just like he found a way to cheat and lie.

Of course you care because you love him, but don't let him take you for a fool. If Dwayne cared enough about you and his marriage commitment this would have never happened, more or less in your home. You know I love you like family and only want the best for you. Thank you Lord for this coming to light now - He has a purpose in everything.

I totally agree and love you right back. Thanks for the encouragment..

You did nothing wrong, no matter how things seem. Di ol dutty gyal a breed fi two men arready - wan big skettel dat. Let Dwayne deal with her. Just be sure to contact INS and put a stop on his petition.

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I don't know how she found my name.. unless she looked through papers here at the house when she came by. She said she had his first and last name and googled it and it brought her to vj. Jawi couldn't reproduce..

She called me last night and asked me to tell him when I next talk to him that she needs money for to terminate the pregnancy. I told her if she is waiting on him she may as well have the baby cause he ain't got no money..

Do not give them any either, Wakey!

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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I don't know how she found my name.. unless she looked through papers here at the house when she came by. She said she had his first and last name and googled it and it brought her to vj. Jawi couldn't reproduce..

She called me last night and asked me to tell him when I next talk to him that she needs money for to terminate the pregnancy. I told her if she is waiting on him she may as well have the baby cause he ain't got no money..

Don't take her as a friend Wakey - she's obviously into the art of lying as well. You know daymn well she has his number and can give him her own freakin messages!!

What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger....

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Okay, Facebook is a trip! I just got a 'friend request' from an ex-boyfriend from a LONG time ago! I'm trying to decide whether to be nosy and accept so I can check out his profile or just ignore it. He cheated on me way back when and really hurt me when I was younger so I don't exactly have fond feelings for him. Part of me is saying just forgive and forget it since it was so long ago but there is that intensely stubborn part of me that can hold a grudge for a lifetime! :whistle:

hahaha Ells, you can always accept him then block him when you're done.

Good idea RegAl! I might do that! LOL!

Dada.....I can't wait to hear (read) the story from when you come back to the US from this trip. I'm on the edge of my sit and you haven't even touched down in Jamaica. :rofl::pop:

KK if you like I can tell u about some of my past trips there all a hoot and my girls on email always look forward to hearing from me. I'm very vivid so I give you blow by blow. Let me just tell you this I have been locked in the house, arguing on streets stole the car and left him at Sandals, tried to talk to anodda dude at a wake, stayed in a hotel with nothing but a bed and toilet, got caught at Pier One with another friend, left him at the airport cause him took to long the list goes on and on. We’re one of them couples that you look at like ####### but we're still together...lol

This trip will be different for me its like a turning point in my life. This trip I’m going to hold my tongue and just let us be a normal couple for one minute. Me and Roc are always going at it because were both stubborn and now that I sit back and think of all the foolishness we been through I see how many hours and days were wasted on fighting. This trip I want to come back an say we got along the whole time but knowing me it won’t be that way but we shall see….

DaDa, pick your battles my gal, just pick your battles! You're right, it's not worth fighting over every little thing. Trust me I KNOW, it's EASY to nag and get upset about things but just try to remember how happy he makes you all the rest of the time and hold on to that. THAT is why you are together and that's what you should be focusing on. Almost all the other stuff is just small stuff so as they say, don't sweat it!

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Ok..i wanted to come back on for a minute

Carmita !! OMG..this dyam fool..ooohhh i'm burning for him right now..IINA YU HOUSE I'M SCREAMING RIGHT NOW..SCREAAMINGGGG..OOOHHW WEH DI GYAL..SHE DYAM WELL AN KNOW YUH BOUT SHE NEVA KNOW..HOW SHE JUST BUCK UP PON YUH SO...OOOOO.....MEK MI TELL YU HWAH FI DO...MEK HIM COME IN...BOIL UP A POT A BLEACH AN HOT WATER FI HIM AND HAR RASS,...DEN MEK DEM COME AND DAHS IT PON DEM...OPOOOOOWW..I'M FUMING

See Kimmy dats what the PHOCK mi chatting bout. Man mi wish mi could speak patwa right now so I could be right with you but you do the patwa and what eva yuh sey me agree wid yuh. That negro got me bumbalclout, bloodclouting, rassclouding all ova de damn plce!!!!!! See I just told her she need to boil some grits and invite him ova for dinner. I would call him sweetly like babe we need ta talk bout tings come home so we can chat I’m waiting on yuh and den when him walk through the door sit him down massage him shoulders to lossen him up and then when he’s loose you go and serve him dinner and then BAM in em face and then hit him with the pot again and again and again until him feel yuh pain!!!!OOOOOHHHHHHH I’m SO HOT RIGHT NOW!!!!I”M READY TO EXPLODE!!! All I see is red right now and dats not a good thing. Whoooooo sawwww mi need ta calm down but its not working O.k. let me try it again WHOOOOOOOOOOOOO SAWWWWWWWWWW. O.k. Nassau we got a problem ITS NOT WORKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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SHES_LOVED21 ???/ NAT A RASS..MI A GO FIND A MOD...U A COME OFF A VJ..NOBODDA COME YAH COME START NUTTIN,..NEVA AFFI COME YAH SO

YEP that's her.. he sent her the pict she put up in text saying he loved her and she posted it there.

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Ok..i wanted to come back on for a minute

Carmita !! OMG..this dyam fool..ooohhh i'm burning for him right now..IINA YU HOUSE I'M SCREAMING RIGHT NOW..SCREAAMINGGGG..OOOHHW WEH DI GYAL..SHE DYAM WELL AN KNOW YUH BOUT SHE NEVA KNOW..HOW SHE JUST BUCK UP PON YUH SO...OOOOO.....MEK MI TELL YU HWAH FI DO...MEK HIM COME IN...BOIL UP A POT A BLEACH AN HOT WATER FI HIM AND HAR RASS,...DEN MEK DEM COME AND DAHS IT PON DEM...OPOOOOOWW..I'M FUMING

lol thanks for the anger Kimmy.. where is my anger??!! I feel like a walking zombie right now.. only tears..

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Ohhhhh KKKKayyyy.. I need to tell ya'll Dwayne has been committing adultury. The girl found me on this site and sent me an message that she is pregnant with his child. My marriage is over so soon. I'm devastated.

I'm so so sorry..my prayers are with you. remember to breathe

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~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

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~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

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I don't know how she found my name.. unless she looked through papers here at the house when she came by. She said she had his first and last name and googled it and it brought her to vj. Jawi couldn't reproduce..

She called me last night and asked me to tell him when I next talk to him that she needs money for to terminate the pregnancy. I told her if she is waiting on him she may as well have the baby cause he ain't got no money..

Don't take her as a friend Wakey - she's obviously into the art of lying as well. You know daymn well she has his number and can give him her own freakin messages!!

Jawi had his cell phone cut off. lol My big sis got my back. :thumbs:

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Ok..i wanted to come back on for a minute

Carmita !! OMG..this dyam fool..ooohhh i'm burning for him right now..IINA YU HOUSE I'M SCREAMING RIGHT NOW..SCREAAMINGGGG..OOOHHW WEH DI GYAL..SHE DYAM WELL AN KNOW YUH BOUT SHE NEVA KNOW..HOW SHE JUST BUCK UP PON YUH SO...OOOOO.....MEK MI TELL YU HWAH FI DO...MEK HIM COME IN...BOIL UP A POT A BLEACH AN HOT WATER FI HIM AND HAR RASS,...DEN MEK DEM COME AND DAHS IT PON DEM...OPOOOOOWW..I'M FUMING

See Kimmy dats what the PHOCK mi chatting bout. Man mi wish mi could speak patwa right now so I could be right with you but you do the patwa and what eva yuh sey me agree wid yuh. That negro got me bumbalclout, bloodclouting, rassclouding all ova de damn plce!!!!!! See I just told her she need to boil some grits and invite him ova for dinner. I would call him sweetly like babe we need ta talk bout tings come home so we can chat I’m waiting on yuh and den when him walk through the door sit him down massage him shoulders to lossen him up and then when he’s loose you go and serve him dinner and then BAM in em face and then hit him with the pot again and again and again until him feel yuh pain!!!!OOOOOHHHHHHH I’m SO HOT RIGHT NOW!!!!I”M READY TO EXPLODE!!! All I see is red right now and dats not a good thing. Whoooooo sawwww mi need ta calm down but its not working O.k. let me try it again WHOOOOOOOOOOOOO SAWWWWWWWWWW. O.k. Nassau we got a problem ITS NOT WORKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dada - I know this was typed in anger but :rofl::bonk:

What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger....

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SHES_LOVED21 ???/ NAT A RASS..MI A GO FIND A MOD...U A COME OFF A VJ..NOBODDA COME YAH COME START NUTTIN,..NEVA AFFI COME YAH SO

YEP that's her.. he sent her the pict she put up in text saying he loved her and she posted it there.

Where you live at again?? O.k. no more details please you go me at work about to LOSE my mind because now your telling me she was bold enough to create a file to reach yuh!!!!! You got me typing on my keys so hard at work their about to fly off and hit somebody on the head. My co-worker just asked me is everything o.k. Afta I looked at him he politely walked away!!!!

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Ok..i wanted to come back on for a minute

Carmita !! OMG..this dyam fool..ooohhh i'm burning for him right now..IINA YU HOUSE I'M SCREAMING RIGHT NOW..SCREAAMINGGGG..OOOHHW WEH DI GYAL..SHE DYAM WELL AN KNOW YUH BOUT SHE NEVA KNOW..HOW SHE JUST BUCK UP PON YUH SO...OOOOO.....MEK MI TELL YU HWAH FI DO...MEK HIM COME IN...BOIL UP A POT A BLEACH AN HOT WATER FI HIM AND HAR RASS,...DEN MEK DEM COME AND DAHS IT PON DEM...OPOOOOOWW..I'M FUMING

lol thanks for the anger Kimmy.. where is my anger??!! I feel like a walking zombie right now.. only tears..

It will come Wakey. And that's what you will use to get you through the next steps that you need to take.

What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger....

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SHES_LOVED21 ???/ NAT A RASS..MI A GO FIND A MOD...U A COME OFF A VJ..NOBODDA COME YAH COME START NUTTIN,..NEVA AFFI COME YAH SO

YEP that's her.. he sent her the pict she put up in text saying he loved her and she posted it there.

I am so sick of that SHYT......these people need to stop using this place to post that kind of #######. GD cowards!!!!!

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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