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dancehallquana   5

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ladies, I would be careful about how you'll throw around the word sole custody. Sole custody does not take away a parent right. I don't know any one's situation, but I think some of you are confusing sole custody with physical custody. I am not stating any of this to start a diagreement with anything that has been said on previous post, but as I sit here reading some of these comments, I just felt it was necessary to state this fact. A father, and mother have equal responsibility and rights regarding their child, unless they have SIGNED that right away. So, yes a Parent (father or mother) with the other only having physical custody, can refuse to grant permission for their child to leave their birth country.

Not to really stir this up either but I know someone who is a family attorney who deals with divorces and stuff but sole custody is when one parent makes all decision for their child, what they eat, where they sleep, where they can go while the other parent only has visitation rights and can not make any decisions for the child unless the other parent who has sole custody agrees on it...Even looking up the word in the dictionary it states:

Sole Custody is an arrangement whereby only one parent has physical and legal custody of a child and the other parent has only visitation rights. Also, an order of the court that provides that children reside with one parent and that parent is responsible for all decisions affecting them.

So they do not need any permission from the father for the child's passport if they don't want it...I know when getting my son's passport I was getting into the same problem even though i wasn't married to my son's father but i just wrote a letter stating the father is not around and i don't know where he is and i showed that my son lives with me and that i'm the primary care-giver and they accepted it...

thanks roxcie.. u are correct in that sole and physical custody are 2 different things and people get it mixed up..

in MY case i have sole custody or conservatorship..and can decide on my own, where and when my kids come and go, all health related issues, where we live, and they go to school. he has visitation rights and the right to be advised of what decisions ive made..

it was for this very reason i did not want "joint conservatorship" w/ physical custody.. becuz i WOULD have to go thru him for every lil thing.

ive researched it and the state dept says that u can provide ur documentation of "sole custody or conservatorship" and they do not require the other parent's signature to issue the child's passport.

women and men just have to know just cuz the child lives w/ them they do not have sole custody.. it has to say that in the agreement. u can do ur research in ur state to see what's what..

GOOD MORNING ALL YARDIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

welcome RegAl.. happy filing my gyal!!!

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Oh cool! I see by your ticker you'll be there in a little over 3 weeks ...Congtratulations!!! I'm going back in a little over 2 weeks

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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Good Morning ladies!

I'm new to the board although I've been reading your posts for quite some time now so I feel as though I know you guys already. I just filed my K1 earlier this week so I'm sure I'll be seeking support during this process. Oh Father! the anxiety of it all!

Welcome RegAl how far along are you? did you send your paper work in yet, my babez have family in St Marys but he is from Lewis District

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Hi Newly!

I'm super new. I sent my paperwork in on 4/22 and it was delivered on 4/23... my boo is from Oxford District.

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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Hi Newly!

I'm super new. I sent my paperwork in on 4/22 and it was delivered on 4/23... my boo is from Oxford District.

Ok cool so you should be expecting your NOA1 anyday now... and then the waiting begins :wacko::wacko: im along the same line as you except i got my NOA1 already so im sure the both of us will be asking a million and one questions :)

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Hi Newly!

I'm super new. I sent my paperwork in on 4/22 and it was delivered on 4/23... my boo is from Oxford District.

Ok cool so you should be expecting your NOA1 anyday now... and then the waiting begins :wacko::wacko: im along the same line as you except i got my NOA1 already so im sure the both of us will be asking a million and one questions :)

DEFINITELY!!

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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Hello ladies! Hope ya'll are having a good day!

Man! I don't log-on for a few days and when I do... I always have LOTS to catch up on! I tried yesterday, but my computer was tripping.

Quanna-It was GREAT finally meeting you!! We had a good time... well I had a better time than Derron... he thought it was too pack. But again, he isn't a club type person and I am.

RegAl... welcome to VJ!!

ok.. i'm off to catch up....

06/15/07 Arrive to Jamaica for our wedding

06/20/07 Wedding in Jamaica

07/06/07 Back to US... left my hubby... sad, sad day

07/28/07 Sent I-130

09/07/07 Noa 1

12/17/07 Left for Jamaica for the holidays

01/04/08 Back to USA... man I miss my hubby!! I really enjoyed spending the holidays w/ him...

02/07/08 I-130 approved... another step closer...

03/03/08 Received DS-3032 & I-864 Bill

03/13/08 Sent I-864 fee

03/27/08 Emailed the DS 3032 (hubby never received in mail)

04/02/08 Received notice from NVC that DS 3032 approved... I should be getting something soon, I HOPE

04/07/08 IV fee bill generated

04/14/08 Received I-864 Affidavit of Support... can't wait til this is OVER!!

04/16/08 Mailed off the AOS...

04/23/08 Received the Visa fee bill

05/09/08 Received DS230 letter, will mail this along w/ visa fee soon...

06/11/08 Went to visit my baby...

06/20/08 Celebrated our 1 year Anniversary!!!

06/25/08 Left my hubby... again... HOPEFULLY, this will be the L-A-S-T time!!!

07/23/08 SENT OFF VISA FEE TODAY!! I AM SO EXCITED..HENCE THE ALL CAPS, LOL

10/14/08 Case complete!! Waiting for the interview date.... HURRY PLEASE!!!

01/06/09 Interview date: February 17 @ 7:30AM!!!!!!!

02/03/09 Hubby's dr's appt. (All went well)

02/17/09 Interview day... APPROVED! He should receive his Visa the first week in March.

02/24/09 My bday!! AND hubby was called to pick up his visa!!!! GREAT BDAY GIFT!!

03/27/09 My hubby surprised me at my job!!! Can not believe he's finally here!

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wah gwaan every body

welcome Regal!

ok..u guys are funny with the vampire..it was like the movies from Dusk til Dawn of Resident Evil..sih ..like i was waiting for my turn to turn in THEM..hilarious....

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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Part of wonders if I enjoy sneaking away because its my umm how do I put it . O.k. put it like this I think I grew up wayyyyy to fast. Having kids, getting married all that. I jumped right out of high school and into the grown and sexy. Well I never got to be that young adult that partied and clubbed and went away to college and do the crazy things people do before they have kids and get married so am I now having a early life crisis where I’m like freak that I want to have fun?? Cause when I go to JA boy do I have fun. IDK just a thought...

Never heard of an EARLY life crisis before, lol. My party & clubbing years were few... I remember going to the college parties blaring Lil Jon music for a couple of years. Fun times. But now, I can't even listen to the same music that I used to. It just seems too loud and vulgar... and I'm not even 27 yet. :lol:

Good Morning ladies!

I'm new to the board although I've been reading your posts for quite some time now so I feel as though I know you guys already. I just filed my K1 earlier this week so I'm sure I'll be seeking support during this process. Oh Father! the anxiety of it all!

Welcome, RegAl!

Read our stories of how we met our SOs and post your own: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=160847

Good luck on the process. Now that you've filed the paperwork, you can breathe for a bit before starting to gather stuff for the interview.

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Hello ladies! Hope ya'll are having a good day!

Man! I don't log-on for a few days and when I do... I always have LOTS to catch up on! I tried yesterday, but my computer was tripping.

Quanna-It was GREAT finally meeting you!! We had a good time... well I had a better time than Derron... he thought it was too pack. But again, he isn't a club type person and I am.

RegAl... welcome to VJ!!

ok.. i'm off to catch up....

u too honey.. i was soo geeked on meeting u, i was talking bout it all day.. man i wish i could have stayed.. my phone was ringing off the hook, some problems w/ my brother.. ugghhh the burden of being the oldest LOL

i don't blame Derron, it was REALLY crowded.. i couldn't believe it, its normally just a nice crowd there, but wed must be getting popular last couple of weeks.. been BANANAS!! okay so when ya'll up for another weekday late night.. try the ultra lounge on mondays.. ALOT less people, same OFF THE CHAIN music..

ya'll look real cute together..

wah gwaan every body

welcome Regal!

ok..u guys are funny with the vampire..it was like the movies from Dusk til Dawn of Resident Evil..sih ..like i was waiting for my turn to turn in THEM..hilarious....

see if u have to stop looking at all them vampire/werewolf movies.. :devil:

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dancehallquana   5

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Q..yuh funny..still love them

skool almost out for lil mama?? this was her first year right??? what will she do for the summer??

girl i don't know why i am on countdown for summer, just means more food to buy and higher utility bills

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Q..yuh funny..still love them

skool almost out for lil mama?? this was her first year right??? what will she do for the summer??

girl i don't know why i am on countdown for summer, just means more food to buy and higher utility bills

LAMO..yes i don't even know when last day is..all i know is that week they have pure halfa day which no mek no sense to me..so u know wah might happen right!

her school as summer camp..i think she'll be going there..

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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