Is it ok to go out tonight with friends

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Anyone who can't go out and socialise (including dancing etc) with both sexes without it leading to a sexual encounter shouldn't be married it's really that simple.

Stop being so damn serious, woman.

Looks like a decent place to me. What do YOU think you should do Adam1?

Knowing my wife if I tell her that I will be dancing with girls she want sleep. one time I was talking to her and I got a phone call from one of my femal friend and she asked me all kind of question about her( is she married, how long did we know each other, what does she look like...) she is very jalous...

OK then, I guess you answered your own question. Do NOT under any circumstances dance with another girl! And expect the third degree questioning just for going. Take it from one jealous woman married to a MENA man. ;-)

I totaly agree with you.

Well I'm glad we settled that.

[adam1 1]

I'm glad you are asking strangers online instead of talking about it with your wife. Good communication, huh? Does she happen to have internet access and does she know about VJ? If yes to both, you may end up in trouble at some point. lol.

She doesn't have internet and i'm not scared from her either. But I do respect her too much. and I don't want to do something that will upset her. thats why I'm trying to ask other people with similar experience.

[amberdima 6]

Anyone who can't go out and socialise (including dancing etc) with both sexes without it leading to a sexual encounter shouldn't be married it's really that simple.

i agree. the more forbidden something is, the more desirable it becomes. when they're together, they can go to these places as a couple. until then, have fun, but don't be a #######!

[almaty 19]

look noob, it sounds like you made up your mind.

.you may tell her, but probably you won't, if you do, you will leave out allot of information, that you believe will cause you problems....

so, what do you want? approval from the masses?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I do respect her too much.

Respect in moderation!

[Nagishkaw 510]

Hmmmmmm, why can't people make up their own minds?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

look noob, it sounds like you made up your mind.

.you may tell her, but probably you won't, if you do, you will leave out allot of information, that you believe will cause you problems....

so, what do you want? approval from the masses?

He has my approval. Brutha gonna go out and get his freak on. It's allllll good.

[chri'stina 190]

I'm glad you are asking strangers online instead of talking about it with your wife. Good communication, huh? Does she happen to have internet access and does she know about VJ? If yes to both, you may end up in trouble at some point. lol.

She doesn't have internet and i'm not scared from her either. But I do respect her too much. and I don't want to do something that will upset her. thats why I'm trying to ask other people with similar experience.

Ok...but you already said she won't sleep if she knows what you are doing. It seems you already know the answer from the beginning. How other ppl feel in their own lives has nothing to do with whatever you and your wife have decided as a couple on these issues.

[Peikko 1,575]

As for wearing jealousy like a badge of honour? Jeez, grow up already. Marriage requires people to behave with maturity, boasting about how jealous you get is just proof that you aren't ready for marriage in my opinion.

Edited April 10, 2009 by Madame Cleo

[childress_london 3]

look noob, it sounds like you made up your mind.

.you may tell her, but probably you won't, if you do, you will leave out allot of information, that you believe will cause you problems....

so, what do you want? approval from the masses?

Sometimes affirmation is a good thing. On the other hand, sometimes someone playing the devil's advocate can help you make a decision.

[Nagishkaw 510]

As for wearing jealousy like a badge of honour? Jeez, grow up already. Marriage requires people to behave with maturity, boasting about how jealous you get is just proof that you aren't ready for marriage in my opinion.

[almaty 19]

adam, quit f##king around..you know..you are going and will lie to her.///

admit it and be a man and then i can help you with your guilt..

no charge..dr. dean

[childress_london 3]

As for wearing jealousy like a badge of honour? Jeez, grow up already. Marriage requires people to behave with maturity, boasting about how jealous you get is just proof that you aren't ready for marriage in my opinion.

So if the OP's wife gets upset because her husband who is thousands of miles away goes out to a club and dances with other women he should just tell her to grow up?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

11 users reading, like flies to #######.

[sara..... 371]

oh God i know im gonna get fried for this question but i have to ask it.......ur s/o is from a mostly muslim country........they they dance there? most of us do not dance in public that are muslim so i guess that would have to be the biggest question in my mind before giving an answer to the question

sara

i didn't get it , can you come back again?

ok im muslim we do not dance in public so im asking if ur wife is muslim? and if she is i know some muslims think is ok to dance in public does she?

that would be the biggest issue i would think

sara