Is it ok to go out tonight with friends

[adam1 1]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

If he rubs against himself in a club they'll throw him out. I don't think they allow masturbation.

Depends what kind of club he's going to....

International, all kind of music and girls. http://www.trianglefiesta.com/party2.php

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I guess all those ballroom dancers are married then? Sheesh, dancing is not sex.

To be fair - in nightclubs it often leads to it.

So does going out and having a few drinks. If you are looking for sex, you can find it anywhere, if you are not then even doing something as riske as shock horror dancing, it will not.

True, but it does depends how honest a person is with themselves I guess.

[adam1 1]

looks like you have a very short timeline. you haven't been waiting long and probably don't have much longer.

when i first started this wait- i tried the 'sit at home like a good little wifey #######.' that didn't last long. i would have been on psych meds by now if i didn't go have fun. do what ya gotta do, but know you're limits. however, you are already married. i think your limits are more limited

now, when he gets here---neither one of us are dancing with anyone but each other ever again.

so if you are not married, its ok to go out and have sex!!!!

[childress_london 3]

Looks like a decent place to me. What do YOU think you should do Adam1?

looks like you have a very short timeline. you haven't been waiting long and probably don't have much longer.

when i first started this wait- i tried the 'sit at home like a good little wifey #######.' that didn't last long. i would have been on psych meds by now if i didn't go have fun. do what ya gotta do, but know you're limits. however, you are already married. i think your limits are more limited

now, when he gets here---neither one of us are dancing with anyone but each other ever again.

so if you are not married, its ok to go out and have sex!!!!

MENA culture and American culture are vastly different. That's why I said it would have been better posted in MENA forum.

[amberdima 6]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

If he rubs against himself in a club they'll throw him out. I don't think they allow masturbation.

Depends what kind of club he's going to....

International, all kind of music and girls. http://www.trianglefiesta.com/party2.php

i want to go!

[amberdima 6]

looks like you have a very short timeline. you haven't been waiting long and probably don't have much longer.

when i first started this wait- i tried the 'sit at home like a good little wifey #######.' that didn't last long. i would have been on psych meds by now if i didn't go have fun. do what ya gotta do, but know you're limits. however, you are already married. i think your limits are more limited

now, when he gets here---neither one of us are dancing with anyone but each other ever again.

so if you are not married, its ok to go out and have sex!!!!

if sex is within your limits, ummmmm.........i meant more like dancing with someone of the opposite sex. ps i do alot of hip hop dancing and i usually don't touch the other person. i guess grinding with some chic is more serious.

[adam1 1]

Looks like a decent place to me. What do YOU think you should do Adam1?

Knowing my wife if I tell her that I will be dancing with girls she want sleep. one time I was talking to her and I got a phone call from one of my femal friend and she asked me all kind of question about her( is she married, how long did we know each other, what does she look like...) she is very jalous...

[sara..... 371]

oh God i know im gonna get fried for this question but i have to ask it.......ur s/o is from a mostly muslim country........they they dance there? most of us do not dance in public that are muslim so i guess that would have to be the biggest question in my mind before giving an answer to the question

sara

[adam1 1]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

If he rubs against himself in a club they'll throw him out. I don't think they allow masturbation.

Depends what kind of club he's going to....

International, all kind of music and girls. http://www.trianglefiesta.com/party2.php

i want to go!

first friday every month, you are more than welcomb...to but SOLO

[childress_london 3]

Looks like a decent place to me. What do YOU think you should do Adam1?

Knowing my wife if I tell her that I will be dancing with girls she want sleep. one time I was talking to her and I got a phone call from one of my femal friend and she asked me all kind of question about her( is she married, how long did we know each other, what does she look like...) she is very jalous...

OK then, I guess you answered your own question. Do NOT under any circumstances dance with another girl! And expect the third degree questioning just for going. Take it from one jealous woman married to a MENA man. ;-)

[adam1 1]

oh God i know im gonna get fried for this question but i have to ask it.......ur s/o is from a mostly muslim country........they they dance there? most of us do not dance in public that are muslim so i guess that would have to be the biggest question in my mind before giving an answer to the question

sara

i didn't get it , can you come back again?

[chri'stina 190]

I'm glad you are asking strangers online instead of talking about it with your wife. Good communication, huh? Does she happen to have internet access and does she know about VJ? If yes to both, you may end up in trouble at some point. lol.

[childress_london 3]

oh God i know im gonna get fried for this question but i have to ask it.......ur s/o is from a mostly muslim country........they they dance there? most of us do not dance in public that are muslim so i guess that would have to be the biggest question in my mind before giving an answer to the question

sara

i didn't get it , can you come back again?

I think the question is about your fiance's culture and how it relates to dancing in public.

[adam1 1]

Looks like a decent place to me. What do YOU think you should do Adam1?

Knowing my wife if I tell her that I will be dancing with girls she want sleep. one time I was talking to her and I got a phone call from one of my femal friend and she asked me all kind of question about her( is she married, how long did we know each other, what does she look like...) she is very jalous...

OK then, I guess you answered your own question. Do NOT under any circumstances dance with another girl! And expect the third degree questioning just for going. Take it from one jealous woman married to a MENA man. ;-)

I totaly agree with you.

[Peikko 1,575]

Anyone who can't go out and socialise (including dancing etc) with both sexes without it leading to a sexual encounter shouldn't be married it's really that simple.