Totally random, buttt...

[ashenflowers 5]

The day I joined this forum (2 days ago) happens to be my EX boyfriend's birthday.... now I'll constantly have that date staring me in the face when I see my posts

lol

[Leenie 15]

Consider it an act of symbolically spitting in his face - his birthday can officially be changed to the day you started your visa journey

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Welcome to Visa Journey where he will soon become a distant faded memory!

[ashenflowers 5]

thanks! Those are both good points

[almaty 19]

come on, noob.,..time for you to move on///

[ashenflowers 5]

come on, noob.,..time for you to move on///

That implies I have some remaining attachment towards my ex... that makes me want to throw up a little. lol Remaining resentment over time wasted with him perhaps... ah well. Better to have met my current love later better than never, right?

[amberdima 6]

come on, noob.,..time for you to move on///

That implies I have some remaining attachment towards my ex... that makes me want to throw up a little. lol Remaining resentment over time wasted with him perhaps... ah well. Better to have met my current love later better than never, right?

don't resent him. regardless of how bad it was--- you are both guaranteed to have learned something!

[ashenflowers 5]

come on, noob.,..time for you to move on///

That implies I have some remaining attachment towards my ex... that makes me want to throw up a little. lol Remaining resentment over time wasted with him perhaps... ah well. Better to have met my current love later better than never, right?

don't resent him. regardless of how bad it was--- you are both guaranteed to have learned something!

Yes, very true... good point. It certainly helps me appreciate my b/f now much more than I probably would have otherwise

[almaty 19]

come on, noob.,..time for you to move on///

That implies I have some remaining attachment towards my ex... that makes me want to throw up a little. lol Remaining resentment over time wasted with him perhaps... ah well. Better to have met my current love later better than never, right?

you do..it is obvious that even a blind man can read that in your emotional response

[Nagishkaw 510]

That is what I was thinking.

[almaty 19]

she still has a little for the ol' #######

[Nessa 23]

who has a random butt?

[almaty 19]

her ex-boy friend

seriously, it should not bother you..and yes, you still ahve some feelings for him, it is to be expected...but you ahve begun to move on and in the end, you will live happy ever after..amen

[ashenflowers 5]

<--- closest thing to an eye roll. lol

I realize this is a public forum, so it's my own fault for posting something like that, and not expecting the psycho-analysis. I posted it mostly as a funny/slightly annoying coincidence, but I'm taking offense at being told by a stranger that they think I still have feelings for my ex. I do NOT, thank you very much. I was the one that broke up with him. I HAVE moved on, and it feels insulting and disrespectful to my current SO to even suggest I still have one iota of feelings towards my ex.

I'm sure I'd be better off just not responding to this at all, but that's not me.

almaty: you don't know me, nor my situation, past, or life... so I don't really appreciate being told by you how I feel. I could go further off on a tangent about that, but I won't, as it'd just be a waste of my time. My 'emotional' response is simply because I believe in being able to set the record straight, and get defensive when I'm accused of something untrue (and also because I actually sort of hate myself for staying with him for so long when I clearly did not love him).

Edited April 10, 2009 by ashenflowers

[almaty 19]

<--- closest thing to an eye roll. lol

I realize this is a public forum, so it's my own fault for posting something like that, and not expecting the psycho-analysis. I posted it mostly as a funny/slightly annoying coincidence, but I'm taking offense at being told by a stranger that they think I still have feelings for my ex. I do NOT, thank you very much. I was the one that broke up with him. I HAVE moved on, and it feels insulting and disrespectful to my current SO to even suggest I still have one iota of feelings towards my ex.

I'm sure I'd be better off just not responding to this at all, but that's not me.

almaty: you don't know me, nor my situation, past, or life... so I don't really appreciate being told by you how I feel. I could go further off on a tangent about that, but I won't, as it'd just be a waste of my time. My 'emotional' response is simply because I believe in being able to set the record straight, and get defensive when I'm accused of something untrue (and also because I actually sort of hate myself for staying with him for so long when I clearly did not love him).

denial is terrible sister...and if you did not have feelings, you will never have started this thread...