NEED YOUR 2 CENTS (maybe more)

[quakebars 0]

Do you consider it cheating when your partner is chatting online with other people?

What are your thoughts about exchanging passwords with your partners? advisable or no?

[childress_london 3]

Depends on what kind of chatting you are talking about.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

what other people? what kind of chatting?

and why r u asking?

[Kardi_Shian 0]

what other people? what kind of chatting?

and why r u asking?

Well, depends who he chats to and his intention.

[flicker 5]

youre so should have full access to anything on youre computer ,,if they dont then youre leading a secret life that will eventually catch up to u!!!!

[raquel_1208 1]

It depends on the intention why do you want to chat with other people.

I have exchange passwords with my then fiance' before and now husband. I did not ask for it. He voluntarily gave it to me. I was compelled to give mine also. My opinion is that I was glad that he shared it with me because it meant he has nothing to hide & he wants to share any communication he had with other people with me.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

totally depends on context

[HappyDancer 7]

Hmm... I am all for giving my partner the privacy that he needs especially with his job and all that is supposed to be classified info- work related. He does chat with other people - ALL of them I know personally. But he never chats online just for the heck of flirting - That's another story.

Despite that arrangement, my fiance makes it a point that I have all the passwords to his online accounts, emails, bank accounts, etc. In fact, now I monitor all his bills and sometimes does it for him if he can't get to them on time. He's never really hidden anything from me so it never raised a red flag and I am not nosy too so that makes him feel a little better. In fact, I tend to forget about the passwords all the time.

Nothing to worry about unless he intentionally just does not want you to be privy into info like these. FOr goodness sake, if you two are getting married and are going to share a lifetime together, that part should never be in question. Unless, he is hiding something.

[quakebars 0]

Depends on what kind of chatting you are talking about.

the kind of chatting like who knows what they are talking about (exchanging pics and stuff)

Depends on what kind of chatting you are talking about.

people of the opposite sex.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Depends on what kind of chatting you are talking about.

the kind of chatting like who knows what they are talking about (exchanging pics and stuff)

I personally dont think it is EVER appropriate to exchange pics with someone of the opposite sex chatting when youre married or involved. Maybe if it was "here's me and my wife/husband"....

[quakebars 0]

It depends on the intention why do you want to chat with other people.

I have exchange passwords with my then fiance' before and now husband. I did not ask for it. He voluntarily gave it to me. I was compelled to give mine also. My opinion is that I was glad that he shared it with me because it meant he has nothing to hide & he wants to share any communication he had with other people with me.

that's a nice relationship

[quakebars 0]

Hmm... I am all for giving my partner the privacy that he needs especially with his job and all that is supposed to be classified info- work related. He does chat with other people - ALL of them I know personally. But he never chats online just for the heck of flirting - That's another story.

Despite that arrangement, my fiance makes it a point that I have all the passwords to his online accounts, emails, bank accounts, etc. In fact, now I monitor all his bills and sometimes does it for him if he can't get to them on time. He's never really hidden anything from me so it never raised a red flag and I am not nosy too so that makes him feel a little better. In fact, I tend to forget about the passwords all the time.

Nothing to worry about unless he intentionally just does not want you to be privy into info like these. FOr goodness sake, if you two are getting married and are going to share a lifetime together, that part should never be in question. Unless, he is hiding something.

my fiance has ALL my passwords but i dont have any of his... red flag much? lol

he's a bit of a control freak, i would say. probably bcuz he's still young.

[rheanick 42]

Do you consider it cheating when your partner is chatting online with other people?

What are your thoughts about exchanging passwords with your partners? advisable or no?

How about considering the word TRUST and "innocent until proven guilty" mindset.

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

i think it all depends on the context of it. for example, i'm replying to you. does that mean nessa should be jealous?

[Joyce/Jeremy 0]

Hmm... I am all for giving my partner the privacy that he needs especially with his job and all that is supposed to be classified info- work related. He does chat with other people - ALL of them I know personally. But he never chats online just for the heck of flirting - That's another story.

Despite that arrangement, my fiance makes it a point that I have all the passwords to his online accounts, emails, bank accounts, etc. In fact, now I monitor all his bills and sometimes does it for him if he can't get to them on time. He's never really hidden anything from me so it never raised a red flag and I am not nosy too so that makes him feel a little better. In fact, I tend to forget about the passwords all the time.

Nothing to worry about unless he intentionally just does not want you to be privy into info like these. FOr goodness sake, if you two are getting married and are going to share a lifetime together, that part should never be in question. Unless, he is hiding something.

my fiance has ALL my passwords but i dont have any of his... red flag much? lol

he's a bit of a control freak, i would say. probably bcuz he's still young.

Next question is... have you asked for all his passwords? or you didn't mind because your trust then was intact?...

Can you be open with him on this?... or are you scared that he might get angry?...

I'm sorry about the many questions, didn't mean to be digging into it... I hope I'm not making it difficult...

Just worried...