donot know if this bad news or good

[seka 1]

hey dear friends i didnot want to share this with anyone but i donot know i just fell bad and i wanna to talk with ya guys like i used too everyday for longtime anyway iam planing on applying for getting adivorce iam tired of what iam going throw i been really throw too much stuff with her she is alcohlic and i tried whatever i can i mean whatever i can to help her with this i never seen someone drinks like this in my life everyday after she come from work till she pass out and i have to be crazy around her theres allways something wrong iam the one who must take care of everything at the house dishes cleaning and cooking shopping even washing cars and doing the landury i think i deserve better then that all what she do is work and drink and act crazy on me and i hate it i really hate it and started to get crazy here the other day i was asleep i put the air condition on cool wake up sweeting and cannot breath and almost gonna die from not breathing she put the air condition on high at hot also one day the house was gonna catch afire when she forget the stove on for almost 12 hours i was asleep and wake up on the smell of fire i feel like ###### all i feel like is to pack my stuff in jump in the car and go no where i mean no where just me and aplace i can breath life been so black into my eyes been throw alot this time specillay after my accident and the surgires i had to do and of course i was alone all of this time coz she is passed out from drinking and donot care about my green card i donot know if iam gonna lose it or not i have 10 years green card i recived it when i came here since i got IR! visa unconditional green card i donot know if iam gonna lose this or not i donot care if i losed it or not iam ready to go to egypt and have apeace of mind life been so shitty like this i did i really did loved her so much and i didnot know she is like this and for my love and from the deep of my heart i tried very hard to take her away from this doctor i tried mental physician i tried i even set with her family and we talked and theres no way we get away from this she think iam touching her freedom and iam not i want the best for us and i cannot handle it guys iam so sad and so confused life is really dark in my eyes and this week iam gonna pack my stuff and leave i donot know even how to finish the divorce but i wanna leave i think of going to aplace wheres amosque here in texas spend afew days there and pray and ask good to help me i have worked hard very hard and iam tired guys i really wanna end this marrige tell me ur opinion guys plz.

[ya falaha! 0]

I've seen/heard this a hundred times...what a surprise.

ETA...I think this should be moved to either MENA (that will be fun) or the "divorce" forum.

Edited April 8, 2009 by Astarte

[seka 1]

do u think iam posting this to hear this?

[ya falaha! 0]

Look I don't know you or your wife but if I had a dime for every MENA guy whose American wife all of a sudden developed a heavy drinking problem I'd be rich.

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

hey dear friends i didnot want to share this with anyone but i donot know i just fell bad and i wanna to talk with ya guys like i used too everyday for longtime anyway iam planing on applying for getting adivorce iam tired of what iam going throw i been really throw too much stuff with her she is alcohlic and i tried whatever i can i mean whatever i can to help her with this i never seen someone drinks like this in my life everyday after she come from work till she pass out and i have to be crazy around her theres allways something wrong iam the one who must take care of everything at the house dishes cleaning and cooking shopping even washing cars and doing the landury i think i deserve better then that all what she do is work and drink and act crazy on me and i hate it i really hate it and started to get crazy here the other day i was asleep i put the air condition on cool wake up sweeting and cannot breath and almost gonna die from not breathing she put the air condition on high at hot also one day the house was gonna catch afire when she forget the stove on for almost 12 hours i was asleep and wake up on the smell of fire i feel like ###### all i feel like is to pack my stuff in jump in the car and go no where i mean no where just me and aplace i can breath life been so black into my eyes been throw alot this time specillay after my accident and the surgires i had to do and of course i was alone all of this time coz she is passed out from drinking and donot care about my green card i donot know if iam gonna lose it or not i have 10 years green card i recived it when i came here since i got IR! visa unconditional green card i donot know if iam gonna lose this or not i donot care if i losed it or not iam ready to go to egypt and have apeace of mind life been so shitty like this i did i really did loved her so much and i didnot know she is like this and for my love and from the deep of my heart i tried very hard to take her away from this doctor i tried mental physician i tried i even set with her family and we talked and theres no way we get away from this she think iam touching her freedom and iam not i want the best for us and i cannot handle it guys iam so sad and so confused life is really dark in my eyes and this week iam gonna pack my stuff and leave i donot know even how to finish the divorce but i wanna leave i think of going to aplace wheres amosque here in texas spend afew days there and pray and ask good to help me i have worked hard very hard and iam tired guys i really wanna end this marrige tell me ur opinion guys plz.

Calm down! and please put PERIOD (.) im still dizzy reading your venting issue...

Anyway, if this is all true...have you talk to her? did you telling the issues you have on her? Open Communication is very important...

I know your life sucks right now.....but you have to talk with her before making a major decision....

PLUS...this is the PHILIPPINE FORUM..try posting this to MAJOR EFFECTS ON FAMILY.......

[seka 1]

sorry didnot know it was philpines one well i will move it then thanks i donot think so i know how to move it

[ya falaha! 0]

You posted on a public forum therefore your topic is up for grabs. If you don't want responses then don't post on a public message board.

Honestly, Seka, I saw this coming from the day you joined VJ. I know the games MENA men play. It's very obvious. You guys should probably come up with something better than "my wife is suddenly a raging alcoholic" or "my wife is cheating on me". It's funny how American women all of a sudden become crazy when you guys get tired of them.

[Ban Hammer 13,343]

ETA...I think this should be moved to either MENA (that will be fun) or the "divorce" forum.

done. moved from pi regional to effects forum.

sorry to hear this bad news, seka.

[^KK^ 3]

hey dear friends i didnot want to share this with anyone but i donot know i just fell bad and i wanna to talk with ya guys like i used too everyday for longtime anyway iam planing on applying for getting adivorce iam tired of what iam going throw i been really throw too much stuff with her she is alcohlic and i tried whatever i can i mean whatever i can to help her with this i never seen someone drinks like this in my life everyday after she come from work till she pass out and i have to be crazy around her theres allways something wrong iam the one who must take care of everything at the house dishes cleaning and cooking shopping even washing cars and doing the landury i think i deserve better then that all what she do is work and drink and act crazy on me and i hate it i really hate it and started to get crazy here the other day i was asleep i put the air condition on cool wake up sweeting and cannot breath and almost gonna die from not breathing she put the air condition on high at hot also one day the house was gonna catch afire when she forget the stove on for almost 12 hours i was asleep and wake up on the smell of fire i feel like ###### all i feel like is to pack my stuff in jump in the car and go no where i mean no where just me and aplace i can breath life been so black into my eyes been throw alot this time specillay after my accident and the surgires i had to do and of course i was alone all of this time coz she is passed out from drinking and donot care about my green card i donot know if iam gonna lose it or not i have 10 years green card i recived it when i came here since i got IR! visa unconditional green card i donot know if iam gonna lose this or not i donot care if i losed it or not iam ready to go to egypt and have apeace of mind life been so shitty like this i did i really did loved her so much and i didnot know she is like this and for my love and from the deep of my heart i tried very hard to take her away from this doctor i tried mental physician i tried i even set with her family and we talked and theres no way we get away from this she think iam touching her freedom and iam not i want the best for us and i cannot handle it guys iam so sad and so confused life is really dark in my eyes and this week iam gonna pack my stuff and leave i donot know even how to finish the divorce but i wanna leave i think of going to aplace wheres amosque here in texas spend afew days there and pray and ask good to help me i have worked hard very hard and iam tired guys i really wanna end this marrige tell me ur opinion guys plz.

Calm down! and please put PERIOD (.) im still dizzy reading your venting issue...

Anyway, if this is all true...have you talk to her? did you telling the issues you have on her? Open Communication is very important...

I know your life sucks right now.....but you have to talk with her before making a major decision....

PLUS...this is the PHILIPPINE FORUM..try posting this to MAJOR EFFECTS ON FAMILY.......

I'm still dizzy too...

[seka 1]

we been married over 6 years and when i said for people to comment they donot have hurt my feelings with any words as she said thats what i ment when i said nice ppl and she is alcohlic since first day but last 3 years is the most hard ones and yes iam working also not onley her and i talked to her many times many times and we went to doctors and i talked to her family just seems like its not gonna work like this stress is too much guys her mom told me she been drinking since she was akid so its not me i know its not me its too much stress which is making me moody 24 hours aday i wish u guys understand what i feel here .

[Donna A 4]

its sad this is happening to you. i would say if you want to save your marriege then make an appointment with alcholics annomous and get advise from them on where to start on her drinking problem. they can also assist you with dealing with life with an alcholic.

if you want out and cant take anymore then you need to leave. only you know how much you can take in your life.

good luck.

[morocco4ever 63]

You stated that you want to go back to Egypt. If you don't care about the GC, and things are really that bad, and you have done your best, then go back. Why post here? It sounds like you have already decided.

[Kardi_Shian 0]

hey dear friends i didnot want to share this with anyone but i donot know i just fell bad and i wanna to talk with ya guys like i used too everyday for longtime anyway iam planing on applying for getting adivorce iam tired of what iam going throw i been really throw too much stuff with her she is alcohlic and i tried whatever i can i mean whatever i can to help her with this i never seen someone drinks like this in my life everyday after she come from work till she pass out and i have to be crazy around her theres allways something wrong iam the one who must take care of everything at the house dishes cleaning and cooking shopping even washing cars and doing the landury i think i deserve better then that all what she do is work and drink and act crazy on me and i hate it i really hate it and started to get crazy here the other day i was asleep i put the air condition on cool wake up sweeting and cannot breath and almost gonna die from not breathing she put the air condition on high at hot also one day the house was gonna catch afire when she forget the stove on for almost 12 hours i was asleep and wake up on the smell of fire i feel like ###### all i feel like is to pack my stuff in jump in the car and go no where i mean no where just me and aplace i can breath life been so black into my eyes been throw alot this time specillay after my accident and the surgires i had to do and of course i was alone all of this time coz she is passed out from drinking and donot care about my green card i donot know if iam gonna lose it or not i have 10 years green card i recived it when i came here since i got IR! visa unconditional green card i donot know if iam gonna lose this or not i donot care if i losed it or not iam ready to go to egypt and have apeace of mind life been so shitty like this i did i really did loved her so much and i didnot know she is like this and for my love and from the deep of my heart i tried very hard to take her away from this doctor i tried mental physician i tried i even set with her family and we talked and theres no way we get away from this she think iam touching her freedom and iam not i want the best for us and i cannot handle it guys iam so sad and so confused life is really dark in my eyes and this week iam gonna pack my stuff and leave i donot know even how to finish the divorce but i wanna leave i think of going to aplace wheres amosque here in texas spend afew days there and pray and ask good to help me i have worked hard very hard and iam tired guys i really wanna end this marrige tell me ur opinion guys plz.

Calm down! and please put PERIOD (.) im still dizzy reading your venting issue...

Anyway, if this is all true...have you talk to her? did you telling the issues you have on her? Open Communication is very important...

I know your life sucks right now.....but you have to talk with her before making a major decision....

PLUS...this is the PHILIPPINE FORUM..try posting this to MAJOR EFFECTS ON FAMILY.......

I'm still dizzy too...

I used to have iranian friends, they dont put period in their sentences too. I think its because of their arabic writings. Just put imaginary period wherever part you want to grasp for air while you're reading. Hehehe

[Enlighten one :) 5]

Only she can stop the drinking. You can't want it enough for her.

She has to want it for herself.

Your GC is fine considering you were married 6 years.

[seka 1]

i have aperement resident card the 10 years one coz i was married over 2 years when i got my visa