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Okay so here’s my update to all the ####### that been going on… if anyone remember my damage control thread they know that I been going crazy :wacko: lol me and my so have been bickering back and forth because of that whole situation for days, so last week like a clue and out of nowhere my friend calls me and she has a 400 voucher that she is not using and ask me if I can use it, so I’m thinking humm of course and decide to book my ticket that Tuesday for a lil weekend pop up visit on Thursday, okay so I call my friend at sandcastles and yup I got a free one bedroom hotel room so everything is set now.

Thursday I wait until I land in ATL to call him up and say pick me up from Montego Bay in 2 hours! it was so funny cause he did not know what to say but “wha yah deal everyting good” I’m like sure will be when you pick me up now I’m very sarcastic so he don’t know what the hell is going on which was the funniest part. okay I arrive at MBJ and he picks me up mind you I lost a lil weight and I’m sporting a funky lil bob quite different from how I usually wear my hair so him and his friends just standing there cheesing and staring so I’m like okay is someone gonna get my bags lol, on the drive to ochie I’m acting like a Bit*h :devil: because I was quite upset of how stubborn he been acting so of course when you’re in these men face they tend to back down and remember whose boss lmao, anyways fast forward we talked about everything and I agreed to keep my friend from meddling in our relationship blah blah blah he also agreed to stop acting so stubborn and shutting down as soon as he get upset.

The trip was very nice we did no partying just me and my so enjoying each other for a couple of days, On Sat me and his cousin decided to go out and my digestion problems (diverticulitis) start bothering my really bad so not only can I not party with his cousin I am in so much pain, I ended up just riding out the pain for two days being that im not too sure about the hospitals out there. I feel like this trip was a learning experience for the both of us I feel like he seen me in a element where I was sick hair standing on top of my head, drool hanging out my mouth basically just busted no glamour at all lol and he was so concerned and attentive he stayed up all night making tea, soup and putting cool rags on my head just being my lil doctor lol. Before I left he signed his paper work and I can finally say I am ready to send in my i129 package :dance: I left this time and did not even cry lol I guess I just felt so confident and secure that there was no need for that because I really feel like we will be together and everything is real…

All I need to know is where do I send my package and is three passport photos of him okay to send with my i129 I’m confused now that I have my things ready? :whistle:

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

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4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Okay so here’s my update to all the ####### that been going on… if anyone remember my damage control thread they know that I been going crazy :wacko: lol me and my so have been bickering back and forth because of that whole situation for days, so last week like a clue and out of nowhere my friend calls me and she has a 400 voucher that she is not using and ask me if I can use it, so I’m thinking humm of course and decide to book my ticket that Tuesday for a lil weekend pop up visit on Thursday, okay so I call my friend at sandcastles and yup I got a free one bedroom hotel room so everything is set now.

Thursday I wait until I land in ATL to call him up and say pick me up from Montego Bay in 2 hours! it was so funny cause he did not know what to say but “wha yah deal everyting good” I’m like sure will be when you pick me up now I’m very sarcastic so he don’t know what the hell is going on which was the funniest part. okay I arrive at MBJ and he picks me up mind you I lost a lil weight and I’m sporting a funky lil bob quite different from how I usually wear my hair so him and his friends just standing there cheesing and staring so I’m like okay is someone gonna get my bags lol, on the drive to ochie I’m acting like a Bit*h :devil: because I was quite upset of how stubborn he been acting so of course when you’re in these men face they tend to back down and remember whose boss lmao, anyways fast forward we talked about everything and I agreed to keep my friend from meddling in our relationship blah blah blah he also agreed to stop acting so stubborn and shutting down as soon as he get upset.

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This was hilarious. :lol: What a nice friend you have!

One of my trips to JA, I could've got a $400 voucher if I would've given up my direct flight and taken a later one that had a layover (and wouldn't have gotten me to MBJ until the next day!). It was hard to pass up, but I knew my baby would have a fit if I arrived a day later than planned, PLUS I'm spoiled with the direct flights.

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Boy I am too familiar with the stubborn and shut down part of a Jamaican. Oh my goodness my SO is so stubborn at times and if he doesn’t feel like chatting bout something he won’t .Now when I'm there I do agree I can get him to talk a likkle more but if were over the phone watch out. This is another thing that bothers me so much about my SO.. Being that I'm a communicator I cant stand it that he's not. We get into fights over this all the time.

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Boy I am too familiar with the stubborn and shut down part of a Jamaican. Oh my goodness my SO is so stubborn at times and if he doesn’t feel like chatting bout something he won’t .Now when I'm there I do agree I can get him to talk a likkle more but if were over the phone watch out. This is another thing that bothers me so much about my SO.. Being that I'm a communicator I cant stand it that he's not. We get into fights over this all the time.

lol dada you sure this aint the same person lmao, its very hard i tell him all the time we dont have the opportunity to see each other as much as we like so all we have is communication if we dont have that we have nothing, he do not like to chat about no type of gossip or anything like that if im telling him how me and a friend got into a fight he dont wanna hear it sometimes its very fustrating all he has to say is everyting good mon free yuh mind... i hate when he says free yuh mind lmao

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Newlynluv - are you from Jamaica?

Nope im African American but my friends say that the jamaicans adopted me lol

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Boy I am too familiar with the stubborn and shut down part of a Jamaican. Oh my goodness my SO is so stubborn at times and if he doesn’t feel like chatting bout something he won’t .Now when I'm there I do agree I can get him to talk a likkle more but if were over the phone watch out. This is another thing that bothers me so much about my SO.. Being that I'm a communicator I cant stand it that he's not. We get into fights over this all the time.

lol dada you sure this aint the same person lmao, its very hard i tell him all the time we dont have the opportunity to see each other as much as we like so all we have is communication if we dont have that we have nothing, he do not like to chat about no type of gossip or anything like that if im telling him how me and a friend got into a fight he dont wanna hear it sometimes its very fustrating all he has to say is everyting good mon free yuh mind... i hate when he says free yuh mind lmao

Girl SHUT YUH MOUTH !!!! Whoo if this isnt me. My SO and I just got into it and that is what I told him. Being that we are a million miles away all we have is communication. If we were together then yeah we wouldn’t have to talk so much because we would be together but over the phone we need to talk. He only wants to keep our convos to like five minutes at a time. He likes to call like What's up… How are you etc.. No I don’t want to know how you are I want to talk. Em say we'll you talk I'll listen. Uhh if I wanted to hear myself talk I would only talk to myself what the freak I need yuh fi?? He just don’t get it. I try to be calm about it but it doesn’t work.

Do you ever find yourself just bored and missing him so you want to call him so you two can talk and then you get him and he’s quiet so it ends up making you frustrated?? This happens to me a lot. I be in bed like ughh I miss him and want to talk to him but I know he'll have nothing to say so I don’t even bother which is a shame and then I come on here and see how everyone else talked to their SO last night and I'm ready to SCREAM!!!!!! :crying:

Oops did I just go off?? O.k. let me calm down whooo sawwwww...

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welcome to a part of some Jamaican culture...If u really notice depending on where a person is from they tend to be more receptive/verbal

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Newly and Dada - What happens when you are face to face? Do you have the same communication issues? DJ and my issues are the same - whether in person or on the phone - He pulls into himself at times, I keep pushing at him till he spills it out - Same as I do in person, the only difference is I can't pinch him over the phone - Do you act the same on the phone as you do in person, or expect the same level of communication?

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Oops did I just go off?? O.k. let me calm down whooo sawwwww...

What's the origin of this phrase? Steven says it ALL THE TIME. Is it from a movie? Yoga?

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Newly and Dada - What happens when you are face to face? Do you have the same communication issues? DJ and my issues are the same - whether in person or on the phone - He pulls into himself at times, I keep pushing at him till he spills it out - Same as I do in person, the only difference is I can't pinch him over the phone - Do you act the same on the phone as you do in person, or expect the same level of communication?

Dada: I totally hear wha yuh seh lol i hate that ish espeically when im lonely im like dag you should want to talk to me i should not feel like im forcing you! but i must admit we do get our 60 minute convos every now and then when i ask him about it he's just like i worry to much #######... i think they are very manly he dont wanna bother me with his problems or cry about it as he would say so they stay to themselves, it's funny cause when i get mad and say i dont wanna be with you he act like its coming out of left field he say's he dont care if he dont talk to me in a whole year the love is still suppose to be the same because they love is so strong... you know what i say dont hold your breath lmao

Sus: for me when i see him communication is way better he will talk to me about whats going on so the level of communication is defiantly different hey you know how some people are just not phone ppl can we give them that excuse?

p.s i dont know if it's just a girly thing but sometimes it cross my mind like do he not want to confine in me because im not from there and he feels like i cant relate??? anybody eva thought this?

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Oops did I just go off?? O.k. let me calm down whooo sawwwww...

What's the origin of this phrase? Steven says it ALL THE TIME. Is it from a movie? Yoga?

It comes from the Bad Boy movie with Will Smith and Martin lol... whoooo sawwwwww

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Newly and Dada - What happens when you are face to face? Do you have the same communication issues? DJ and my issues are the same - whether in person or on the phone - He pulls into himself at times, I keep pushing at him till he spills it out - Same as I do in person, the only difference is I can't pinch him over the phone - Do you act the same on the phone as you do in person, or expect the same level of communication?

Dada: I totally hear wha yuh seh lol i hate that ish espeically when im lonely im like dag you should want to talk to me i should not feel like im forcing you! but i must admit we do get our 60 minute convos every now and then when i ask him about it he's just like i worry to much #######... i think they are very manly he dont wanna bother me with his problems or cry about it as he would say so they stay to themselves, it's funny cause when i get mad and say i dont wanna be with you he act like its coming out of left field he say's he dont care if he dont talk to me in a whole year the love is still suppose to be the same because they love is so strong... you know what i say dont hold your breath lmao

Sus: for me when i see him communication is way better he will talk to me about whats going on so the level of communication is defiantly different hey you know how some people are just not phone ppl can we give them that excuse?

p.s i dont know if it's just a girly thing but sometimes it cross my mind like do he not want to confine in me because im not from there and he feels like i cant relate??? anybody eva thought this?

HA! Mi knoa exactly wah yuh mean.... Every once in a while we will have a lengthy conversation. Most of them are when we are arguing. Neither one of us is willing to shut up until we both have proven our point so it goes on forever or the other times we talk lengthy is when well that's not for VJ :whistle: ..lol Rocky tells me all the time he's not a phone person and he told me stop trying to pull something out of him that he doesn’t have. He was like if you lead I'll follow but I can’t lead. But that is no fun who wants to lead all the time??

Sus in person it is much better because like you said I am there so I can pinch him or get on top of him until he talks but over he phone there is not much for me to do. But when you only see your SO every three months to me communication is all we have. I guess in my mind I think how do we keep our bond tight and right if we're not talking ya know?? He does tell me all the time his problems are his and he doesn’t want to me worry or cause me stress because I will stress out over the smallest thing but so what I'm supposed to be your mate you can confide in me. There isn't supposed to be any secrets.

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Dada: I totally hear wha yuh seh lol i hate that ish espeically when im lonely im like dag you should want to talk to me i should not feel like im forcing you! but i must admit we do get our 60 minute convos every now and then when i ask him about it he's just like i worry to much #######... i think they are very manly he dont wanna bother me with his problems or cry about it as he would say so they stay to themselves...

p.s i dont know if it's just a girly thing but sometimes it cross my mind like do he not want to confine in me because im not from there and he feels like i cant relate??? anybody eva thought this?

HA! Mi knoa exactly wah yuh mean.... Every once in a while we will have a lengthy conversation. Most of them are when we are arguing. Neither one of us is willing to shut up until we both have proven our point so it goes on forever or the other times we talk lengthy is when well that's not for VJ :whistle: ..lol Rocky tells me all the time he's not a phone person and he told me stop trying to pull something out of him that he doesn’t have. He was like if you lead I'll follow but I can’t lead. But that is no fun who wants to lead all the time??

Sus in person it is much better because like you said I am there so I can pinch him or get on top of him until he talks but over he phone there is not much for me to do. But when you only see your SO every three months to me communication is all we have. I guess in my mind I think how do we keep our bond tight and right if we're not talking ya know?? He does tell me all the time his problems are his and he doesn’t want to me worry or cause me stress because I will stress out over the smallest thing but so what I'm supposed to be your mate you can confide in me. There isn't supposed to be any secrets.

No matter how long Steven and I talk, when I go to get off the phone he acts like I'm stabbing him in the heart. That confuses me, because just as you all pointed out, they don't talk! So he wants me to stay on the phone with him, but I get to do all the talking (unless he's had a drink or two).

Mine also tells me that I'm not to worry about his problems. Thing is, I usually don't, even after he tells me. But one of his reasons for not saying stuff on the phone is cause he believes the government is listening to our phone calls. :whistle:

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