My wife threw her marriage and life here away

[feelinglucky 1]

I feel that Mezillz, at this time has been cornerd. His back is to the wall with about 3 to 4 members carrying bats that say "Justice gonna be served". MY prediction is that mezillz rebutal will be swift and to the point. The members will most like fall off their feet(due to the shock wave, or blast wave) and maybe loosing a couple steps back.

*note: only my assumptions, and opioion thus far. i will not be held liable for anyones feelings getting hurt, personnel injuries that might result, due to the heat of battle.

Mezillz, HOLLA BACK!!!!

[baron555 934]

I feel that Mezillz, at this time has been cornerd. His back is to the wall with about 3 to 4 members carrying bats that say "Justice gonna be served". MY prediction is that mezillz rebutal will be swift and to the point. The members will most like fall off their feet(due to the shock wave, or blast wave) and maybe loosing a couple steps back.

*note: only my assumptions, and opioion thus far. i will not be held liable for anyones feelings getting hurt, personnel injuries that might result, due to the heat of battle.

Mezillz

, HOLLA BACK!!!!

Lucky, your hero M is just a knucklehead who allowed his lower head to do the thinking and he got scammed by a scammer. Yes the woman is part to blame. But... he is also to blame for being a knucklehead. You can support him all you want. His "love" after meeting this woman for 2 months, is just another evidence that he did not understand and was not capable of understanding what he was getting himself into.

Yes he portrays himself as the hero, but in reality he is a knucklehead who allowed himself to be duped by this person. Yes he may win out in court but that does nothing to alleviate that he is a knucklehead who should not be allowed to conduct himself in an international relationship. He may have learned a lesson and he may not have. He is as much to blame, because he allowed his lower head to do his thinking for him, as the scammer women exploited.

He just makes it harder for the legit crowd to get their SO over here. And we never hear about a USC woman being scammed by a foreign man. It is always the USC man who is duped.

[Brad and Vika 129]

He just makes it harder for the legit crowd to get their SO over here. And we never hear about a USC woman being scammed by a foreign man. It is always the USC man who is duped.

Go over to MENA. They can tell you lots of stories about USC women being taken in by a foreign guy. It happens.

[Laveau 67]

I feel that Mezillz, at this time has been cornerd. His back is to the wall with about 3 to 4 members carrying bats that say "Justice gonna be served". MY prediction is that mezillz rebutal will be swift and to the point. The members will most like fall off their feet(due to the shock wave, or blast wave) and maybe loosing a couple steps back.

*note: only my assumptions, and opioion thus far. i will not be held liable for anyones feelings getting hurt, personnel injuries that might result, due to the heat of battle.

Mezillz

, HOLLA BACK!!!!

Lucky, your hero M is just a knucklehead who allowed his lower head to do the thinking and he got scammed by a scammer. Yes the woman is part to blame. But... he is also to blame for being a knucklehead. You can support him all you want. His "love" after meeting this woman for 2 months, is just another evidence that he did not understand and was not capable of understanding what he was getting himself into.

Yes he portrays himself as the hero, but in reality he is a knucklehead who allowed himself to be duped by this person. Yes he may win out in court but that does nothing to alleviate that he is a knucklehead who should not be allowed to conduct himself in an international relationship. He may have learned a lesson and he may not have. He is as much to blame, because he allowed his lower head to do his thinking for him, as the scammer women exploited.

He just makes it harder for the legit crowd to get their SO over here. And we never hear about a USC woman being scammed by a foreign man. It is always the USC man who is duped.

In regards to those last 2 sentences - have you never visited that MENA forum?!

Oh. Just saw that Brad pointed that out.

[feelinglucky 1]

I feel that Mezillz, at this time has been cornerd. His back is to the wall with about 3 to 4 members carrying bats that say "Justice gonna be served". MY prediction is that mezillz rebutal will be swift and to the point. The members will most like fall off their feet(due to the shock wave, or blast wave) and maybe loosing a couple steps back.

*note: only my assumptions, and opioion thus far. i will not be held liable for anyones feelings getting hurt, personnel injuries that might result, due to the heat of battle.

Mezillz, HOLLA BACK!!!!

Lucky, your hero M is just a knucklehead who allowed his lower head to do the thinking and he got scammed by a scammer. Yes the woman is part to blame. But... he is also to blame for being a knucklehead. You can support him all you want. His "love" after meeting this woman for 2 months, is just another evidence that he did not understand and was not capable of understanding what he was getting himself into.

Yes he portrays himself as the hero, but in reality he is a knucklehead who allowed himself to be duped by this person. Yes he may win out in court but that does nothing to alleviate that he is a knucklehead who should not be allowed to conduct himself in an international relationship. He may have learned a lesson and he may not have. He is as much to blame, because he allowed his lower head to do his thinking for him, as the scammer women exploited.

He just makes it harder for the legit crowd to get their SO over here. And we never hear about a USC woman being scammed by a foreign man. It is always the USC man who is duped.

He just makes it harder for the legit crowd to get their SO over here. And we never hear about a USC woman being scammed by a foreign man. It is always the USC man who is duped.

Go over to MENA. They can tell you lots of stories about USC women being taken in by a foreign guy. It happens.

I feel that your comment desevre a more detailed reply. First of all, as with my previous post regarding if the OP was trolling, i came to the conclusion that he was not, Even though members were suggesting it. That i admit is the extent of my support. Second i have never stated that i have supported his mindset, only that i am willing to listen with an impartial ear. Thus far, i have taking into consideration of members post expressing their opioion of why he should accept his accountablity in this matter. Members have stated their beliefs base on OP original statements that he has made. I also, deem this points to be valid, and could be held up in a court of law. But justice on forums do not nessarily follow the same guidlines. IF Merillz.......(farting).... excuse me!! present his argument based on his facts and premises. And we chosse not to hold the arugment as true. then we must prove that either his facts or premises is faulty. If any or all premises can be proven unfactual then and only then can i give a finding that his arugment does not hold water. Every man deserves his chance to give a compelling arugment, but we must make an effort to listen , and not just hear him. Our reasons to discounts his arugment are merely base on our personel beliefs, and emotions, therefore trying to impose our opioion on him or suggest that his reasoning are irrational is unjust. IF you listen to his arugment i think he is holding himself accountable to a certain degree. But moreover he is expressing that his actions were only acted on with his emotinal status at the time. IF anything, i do find him commiting "Crimes of the Heart ". In conclusion, I strongly agree with the points members have stated, but i do not dare inject my own. I feel that i personally dont have experience with this subject matter, therfore by my attempts to give an opioion would be unfair. I want to let members know that i luvz their efforts to try and dismantle his arugment, But keep in mind that Merillz also addament in his beliefs . I shall quote, " MAMMA DIDNT RAISE NO CHUMP"

Lucky

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Somebody died and left you to play the "consiglieri", right?

[TBoneTX 45,270]

Personally (si, man), I predict that, come August 24 (a LONG time from now), either M. or his ex will be exclaiming loudly, "99% of all lawyers give the rest a bad name!"

[maliciant 7]

I don't think it's fair to call Merrillizer a knucklehead for being scammed, many of the people who post here assume it couldn't happen to them, but it's easy to maintain that view while you are in a happy relationship. If you were single, and looking for love, you'd be so much more susceptable and while you might be harder to scam than merrillizer, who really didn't have to invest a great deal into the immigration process at all, it's foolish to think you couldn't have been scammed.

I think most of the time when people come here complaining about being scammed it's really just sour grapes, a relationship that failed, too many are far to quick to jump on that wagon. I'm all for Merrillizer following through on his case assuming that he hasn't lied about any of the major facts, but honestly the biggest trophy he's sporting, the marriage contract... I just find it hard to believe that's legit, and even if it is, how do you prove it? I don't really expect the result of this case to be determined based on the facts so much as who is willing to spend the most on their lawyer, we're talking civil law, it's never black and white if you pay your lawyer right.

[Krikit 1,164]

Please desist with the name-calling. It is uncalled for. Thank you.

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

i for one am interesting in knowing how this turns out in the future.

[Brad and Vika 129]

i for one am interesting in knowing how this turns out in the future.

I think you are one of many.

[sasha414 0]

i for one am interesting in knowing how this turns out in the future.

I think you are one of many.

count me in i need to get a life i think

[Brad and Vika 129]

i for one am interesting in knowing how this turns out in the future.

I think you are one of many.

count me in i need to get a life i think

No, like watching a traffic accident - you know you should stop but cannot look away.

[JorgeGu 0]

"Enough people here already", jesus christ. You're not going to gain any supporters on an IMMIGRATION FORUM by saying something like this, Merrillizer. What the hell are you thinking?

But seriously though, guys, leave this guy alone. I lurked myspace and found this picture of him and his ex-wife:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?...mageID=48416871

It's quite obvious from this picture (and his posts) that he is simply under-developed person with some sort of disorder, and if anything we should pity him. America should accept more immigrants and deport weak, whiny, mentally challenged people like the topic starter here.

In his youtube videos, too, he makes noises/sounds which no normal person would ever do. He is sick and this thread is just making fun of a sick person.

I've been following this without participating but frankly, how can anyone remain silent to postings like the one above where someone purportedly can make a clinical assessment of anyone's mental condition from a picture or a silly video? I admire Merrilizer's ability to take this all in stride and actually take the time to cogently reply to the most absurd and groundless accusations.

Some posters base their ironclad conclusions (see the "it's quite obvious from this pictures") on isolated strands of information taken out of context -in a superlative manner at that ; then proceed to not only conclude but condemn and dictate sentence. Worse yet, the panel of resident psychologists analyze facts in ridiculously capricious ways to suit their pre-conceived notions and their a-priori conclusions.

I see it so clearly, this man fell in love with a woman who eventually evinced her motives beyond a shadow of a doubt offering a contract that will allow her to illegally obtain her green card, just to take a single bit of evidence.

Some have criticized this man for being stupid, naive, for having fallen too rapidly in love; my experience is that you know who you married six months into the marriage, even if the courtship has lasted years; I've seen marriages fail after long courtships and others fantastically succeed where the partners did not meet until the day of the wedding.

Being cheated doesn't equate to being stupid, as long as there is a trusting partner and one that intends to swindle, fraud will continue to occur as it has for as long as man has inhabited this planet. Witness the Madoff scheme, many of those that lost billions to this man were no mental midgets. Trust is a paramount condition in a relationship, one has to start at 100%, that unfortunately is what also paves the way for the cheater to do his/her deed.

Nothing makes my blood boil more than the blind who don't want to see; those that question whether this woman actually signed the contract or did it under duress; I once saw this man offer evidence of his wife cheating on him with pictures only to have her father contest the veracity of the photos saying they were "contrived"; I knew the woman I knew of her infidelity, the photos were not montages.

Then there is the group of the icy cool birds who advise on "getting over it" or criticize the "sour grapes" and pontificate on "letting it go". This woman for as long as she remains in this country is a liability to her sponsor if we are to begin with the practical matters. But we are made of blood and flesh we have emotions, this woman ruined this man's life; she ridiculed him, she cheated on him with other men; songs, poems, movies and even biblical stories are dedicated to the emotions of getting even if at least to fight off the inner pain of the mockery made of oneself. Do not deny him the right, you don't feel the pain, it's easy to preach from your pulpit.

Only the man, the woman and their bedroom know their true story, I've seen marriage counselors make ridiculous conclusions on hours of information. Because the full story is never known; you always run the risk of concluding on not enough information so don't jump to conclusions and condemn and dictate sentence.

This man -whom I do not know at all - (I can now anticipate the cynics saying we have an arrangement) proves with his intelligent writing style that he is no idiot, I happen to believe in his story, because I lived a parallel story and likewise I had the disbelievers, the cynics, the skeptics and those that learn their psychology from the back of a cereal box.

I hope he overcomes, and I hope she leaves his life and the country permanently, someone deserving will eventually come to his life, I truly hope so.

[rlogan 2,036]

If I understand correctly, she overstayed her first work visa here.

The fact they applied for K-1 after her work visa expired did not make her a legal immigrant. He married an illegal alien.

So I guess it is pretty ironic to be screeching about "illegal alien" now. She was illegal when he married her, and illegal while he went through the k-1 process.

I did at one point think about bringing my wife in through Mexico or Canada since it is so easy. In Alaska we can cross the border in many places without any kind of immigration hassle.

But we did it all legally.

I wouldn't marry an illegal alien. It's bad enough she's so creepy she's always got her hands all over this fat old man 30 years her senior. But if she turned green (illegal alien) then that would be the last straw...

K-1? What are you talking about? I married her when she was illegal? What are you talking about?

Ahhh, thee internet....where strangers don't know diddly.

When someone answers with an insult instead of directly providing information, you can be more sure you are right about the basic issue.

She came on a J-1 visa. It expired.

You married her a matter of days before it expired. That does NOT grant her a new visa. When we want to say it "nicely" we say "out of status". When we want to imbue it with evil, we cry loudly "illegal immigrant".

You flatly stated that you and your family found her "odd jobs", which is another "nice" term you were using at the time because you were still "in love" with her then - but if you want to imbue it with evil again the fact is "odd job" = working for money and again is an ILLEGAL *gasp* act.

What I am commenting on is this change in attitude from it being alright for her to stay here while out of status and also work for money without employment authorization - to this shrill cry of horrible crimes being committed as an "Illegal Alien".

It's OK so long as you are in love, but then it's a high crime when you are no longer in love, and you need to act as a sherriff's deputy in bringing to justice a whole network of illegal aliens now - the same people you knew about before, but took no action against until things started going sour with the wife.

So it's all about revenge and vindictiveness. I wish you no ill will. But get off the vindictiveness train. It is not healthy.

And eight years difference is shocking. I can't imagine finding something in common with a girl so much younger.

If you want some real fishing, Merrilizer, check out the Filippina with a thousand dollars in salmon from her last fishing trip:

www.alaskafilippina.blogspot.com