To Those Who Are Married, Not Married & Soon To Be Married

[RVIANE♛ 5]

So nice and sensitive

wow super nice......nakaka touch naman....all I know when I get married, that will be my first and last marriage di naman yan pagkain na once you get tired pwede mo lang isuka...hay pag ibig LOL

Super touching yung story. I wonder if my hubby could still carry me 10yrs from now, di kaya magka-slip-disc sya hehehe!

sis mag ANLENE kayo para nde magka osteoporosis

[shang 0]

So nice and sensitive

wow super nice......nakaka touch naman....all I know when I get married, that will be my first and last marriage di naman yan pagkain na once you get tired pwede mo lang isuka...hay pag ibig LOL

Super touching yung story. I wonder if my hubby could still carry me 10yrs from now, di kaya magka-slip-disc sya hehehe!

sis mag ANLENE kayo para nde magka osteoporosis

hahahaha, mag fitrum para sexy parati LOL para carry always...buti pa si tallcoolone, liit ni misis all the time pwede kargahin LOL

[Mrs.Cage 0]

So nice and sensitive

wow super nice......nakaka touch naman....all I know when I get married, that will be my first and last marriage di naman yan pagkain na once you get tired pwede mo lang isuka...hay pag ibig LOL

Super touching yung story. I wonder if my hubby could still carry me 10yrs from now, di kaya magka-slip-disc sya hehehe!

sis mag ANLENE kayo para nde magka osteoporosis

hahahaha, mag fitrum para sexy parati LOL para carry always...buti pa si tallcoolone, liit ni misis all the time pwede kargahin LOL

Hahaha I'll ask hubby to start the anlene diet na coz he'll be the one doing the carrying. Ngayon lang maliit si mrs.tallcoolone, lets see if she can maintain her figure 4 kids after hehehe

[Shawna Mahmoud 0]

That was an awesome story. It really touched my heart.

[shang 0]

So nice and sensitive

wow super nice......nakaka touch naman....all I know when I get married, that will be my first and last marriage di naman yan pagkain na once you get tired pwede mo lang isuka...hay pag ibig LOL

Super touching yung story. I wonder if my hubby could still carry me 10yrs from now, di kaya magka-slip-disc sya hehehe!

sis mag ANLENE kayo para nde magka osteoporosis

hahahaha, mag fitrum para sexy parati LOL para carry always...buti pa si tallcoolone, liit ni misis all the time pwede kargahin LOL

Hahaha I'll ask hubby to start the anlene diet na coz he'll be the one doing the carrying. Ngayon lang maliit si mrs.tallcoolone, lets see if she can maintain her figure 4 kids after hehehe

I doubt it kasi all her life mapupuno ng konsimisyon ng asawa LOL

[alienlovechild 75]

Very nice and inspiring; I like it...For a marriage to last, all it takes is constancy of courtship.

[Mrs.Cage 0]

Very nice and inspiring; I like it...For a marriage to last, all it takes is constancy of courtship.

I agree. Both spouses must keep the flame alive long after the romantic phase has gone.

[shang 0]

Very nice and inspiring; I like it...For a marriage to last, all it takes is constancy of courtship.

I agree. Both spouses must keep the flame alive long after the romantic phase has gone.

Yeah, it takes two to tango pwede rin cha cha LOL......Exactly when you are married things don't stop there or things changes like you don't do things while you are still dating..It should be what you have started just kept it going and ika nga spice up your life, kanta yun ah LOL

[Raeka 0]

This is not the first time i read this story but it still made me feel emotional. I love this story. It just gives a lesson for married couple not to give up and try to save the marriage when there's really still a chance. If you really love a person so much, we should be humble and considerate to the person whom we promise to love for the rest of our life. Love your spouse unconditionally.

[shang 0]

This is not the first time i read this story but it still made me feel emotional. I love this story. It just gives a lesson for married couple not to give up and try to save the marriage when there's really still a chance. If you really love a person so much, we should be humble and considerate to the person whom we promise to love for the rest of our life. Love your spouse unconditionally.

Exactly, and when you promise and make a vow its not only that you promise each other but also you promised to God that you will be together forever, that whatever happens good or bad you will be together...

[ricebird 0]

One of my staffs sent this email to me before I got married and I love it. I've been wondering if my future husband will keep doing sweet things once we"re married (I'm quite skeptical about men that time )

I guess I underestimated my husband; everday of our married life for almost 4 years now, he never fails to say " I love you" each morning I wake up and before going to sleep. If he left for work and I'm still asleep, he would leave an " I love you" message in my cellphone or call me from work. True, we have disagreements and arguments along the way, but there's nothing a good communication and a hug can't fix between us.

Our 15-month old who used to see Tatay and Mama hug a lot everyday got caught on it: she loves to hug with us too. I realized that our baby is growing up positively coz she was exposed to a loving environment: the Pediatrician said that my baby's good nature mirrored the peace and loving atmosphere she has at home.

Thank you very much for sharing this story; it reminds me of more things to be thankful for in my everday life . God bless!

[LasVegasUSA 0]

(this was sent to me centuries ago) BEWARE: dont correction me and dont english me cause im not graduation!!! bato bato sa langit ang tamaan ASKAL!

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: shedidn't want anything from me, but needed a month's noticebefore the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head.Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conductive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

"I will keep a smile on my face and in my heart even

when it hurts today. I know that the world is a looking glass and gives back to me the reflection of my own soul. Now I understand the secret of correcting the attitude of others and that is to correct my own." !

This is my first time ever to read a long story from d very first sentence til end since I joined this site. I love this post and even if u wont allow me to post this into my other account , sorry to tell u but il copy and paste it so i could touch other's heart too. kc touch ako eh...

[MarPhee 1]

very wonderful story... honestly made my tears fell. thank u

[sweetFM 0]

nakaka touch.

thank you for posting

[RDDIXON 0]

Great story.

Reminds me of something....

To those of you who have kids.... many couples in one way or another put their kids before their marriage... constantly making life great for their kids and while little by little their marriage suffers. It is okay to put your marriage before your kids, don't feel guilty when you put you wife or husband before your kids.

Your kids might suffer a little when you schudule some ALONE time with your spouse, but it is in their best interest that the marriage is foremost and primary, for if the marriage falls apart, the kids suffer far more.