Cheap shots

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

Charles! When are you taking your paternity leave? You're busy here... Go back and tend to Nessa.

i'm not. yes i am. and she's at work, so that's a bit difficult, eh?

Edited April 6, 2009 by charles!

[HappyDancer 7]

Lucky you!

[Krikit 1,163]

Come on guys/gals... I know there is some humour and jest being used, but I also saw a few personal jabs that are not necessary. I know my member title does not say mod or admin, but seriously lets try to respect each other more. I think most the issues would resolve if people simply did not side track the conversation into personal stabs at each other or their family.

I think Steve pretty much said it all. Please don't make me close another Philippines forum thread.

Thank you.

[HappyDancer 7]

No more of that Krikit! We'll all good boys and girls now.

[RonMay 1]

No more of that Krikit! We'll all good boys and girls now.

cubs scout promise...

[Krikit 1,163]

Thank you.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Well, thats your opinion, his opinion and its my opinion too... I really dont find it bad..because he is american he cant correct filipina grammar or give his opinion?....

Owwws... really? You dont bother even if your husband opinion is offensive ? Wow!

I wonder who is speaking here, Jack, or Anais. Just saying...

[SJ1819 2]

When you say something someone said was nonsense and irrelevant, it's up to you. Every topic is relatively interesting to some, retarded for the others and important to the rest. The whole point of this thread is about a fellow VJ member "upsetting, antagonizing, making fun of, belittling and ridiculing" another member which is a clear violation of TOS. It was never about whether a topic opened was interesting, relevant, or demonstrating moral values or not.

Again, everything is relative. You can post things that may just be ultimately off the wall if you think it's a good point of discussion. But criticizing a member for being too open or too graphic about how she/he does things is uncalled for.

Thanks HappyDancer!

-S

VJ was not this bad during our time.. We are trying to help too.. but some filipina's here need to have dignity and respect for themselves in order to be respected by others. Some threads, are just nonsense which make every reply nonsense too and irrelevant. Forums are for public, and people from Philippines, from other countries can read it, which they can react and give opinion about it. Respect there opinion, rather than making a reply "calling names" "cussing" "filipinas talking in tagalog to talk bad things to others"... this is not right!

If you find some threads/posts irrelevant it is so simple to ignore it. I wonder why you can't do it and most people here can. It was a Red Flag to me that my fiance was personally attacked and your BOY posted a thread titled after our user name! I bit my lip on that and only few gets lucky (once) when i ignore red flags and i don't make sh*t happen (this is NOT a threat..). It's a FYI for you if you do not know your boy's personal attack and it was clearly violating TOS. Some of the VJ members here sent us PMs to just ignore it and from that I knew that your boy is a huge problem on this website cause of all his posts, mostly attacking VJ members.

Hi girl,

You have a lot to learn. You are young and too blinded by your love with your husband. I understand that. You are his wife.

I know you are smart too but I just hope you are smart enough to realize why a lot of VJ members antagonize your husband.

Just because he is your husband, does not mean that everything he does is perfect. Maybe for you, but not for most of us here. Maybe you can try reading you and your husband's posts from another person's point of view.

Peace and I really wish both of you a long and happy marriage. I wonder when you will wake up. B)

~Chinook

maybe you and your husband should start your own forum.

happydancer, teach me to be calm. i'm biting my lip on this one.

Hehehe.... common follow me.... take a deep breath.... count one two ten. Begin! 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 and..... ten! Now, calm down. Relax sister...

So as my fiance.

chinook - Thumbs up on that one!

Oooohh baby! We are on the top list of the hottest topics of the day again!

P.S. I'm a happydancer and I am an attention wh*re! la la la la la

Both my thumbs are up as well!

-S

[Perfect Couple 4]

Oh my... I got waxed again!!

Make Peace not War...

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

Hmmm.......atleast I've learned something on the "WAXED" thread thingy...but with the "Perfect Female Body"? naaah!!! You are making some but not most "Thick" women insecure of themselves..nothing to brag about!

[o0pink0o 3]

Hmmm.......atleast I've learned something on the "WAXED" thread thingy...but with the "Perfect Female Body"? naaah!!! You are making some but not most "Thick" women insecure of themselves..nothing to brag about!

I am here not to argue but just to agree with Mariel hehe!

Edited April 7, 2009 by o0pink0o

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

now i keep thinking of that karate kid movie........wax on, wax off........

[chinese_mutt 11]

Hmmm.......atleast I've learned something on the "WAXED" thread thingy...but with the "Perfect Female Body"? naaah!!! You are making some but not most "Thick" women insecure of themselves..nothing to brag about!

nah! imho, i think he wants to show people that he has good taste in women, however... he ended up making a big fool of himself.

[pieceOFcrap 0]

VJ was not this bad during our time.. We are trying to help too.. but some filipina's here need to have dignity and respect for themselves in order to be respected by others. Some threads, are just nonsense which make every reply nonsense too and irrelevant. Forums are for public, and people from Philippines, from other countries can read it, which they can react and give opinion about it. Respect there opinion, rather than making a reply "calling names" "cussing" "filipinas talking in tagalog to talk bad things to others"... this is not right!

I hope everything will be back to normal.

have you ever read your husbands posts?

[pieceOFcrap 0]

OH SMOKE! You have the memonry of a genius!!!

Remember "got Waxed topic"?

how relevant is that to visa journey?

i dunno...IMO about as relevant as "The Perfect Female Body" is....care to guess who started that gem?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=187175

Well, Saicy is filipina.. and my husband is her fan. That is relevant.... also, thats in OFF TOPIC section. do you understand OFF TOPIC?

but shaving your "down south"... cant even imagine filipina posted that thread. maybe you've lost your dignity too... so shameful to hear that.

Hi girl,

You have a lot to learn. You are young and too blinded by your love with your husband. I understand that. You are his wife.

I know you are smart too but I just hope you are smart enough to realize why a lot of VJ members antagonize your husband.

Just because he is your husband, does not mean that everything he does is perfect. Maybe for you, but not for most of us here. Maybe you can try reading you and your husband's posts from another person's point of view.

Peace and I really wish both of you a long and happy marriage. I wonder when you will wake up. B)

~Chinook