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hey there,

Before i even start i would like to say that i am not complaining or asking for people to feel bad, im simply asking for advice....

so as pretty much everybody here, im waiting for my noa2, i actually had to leave the us after living there for 8 years to reapply for a visa,because i didn t wanna get married underthe wrong visa.

Sooooo i went back to France, moved with my dad whith who i had very lil contact, but im glad i did, it brought us closer together , letting the past go.

so, my problem is, i don t know anyone in this lil village, i don t have my car with me or my driver s license as it is not valid here since i got it in louisiana, i had to quit my job, leave my house, my friends and my love ... i can t work here without a car i live 2 far from the city, and there is just no job available , people everywhereare getting fired and i never had a job in france before...and it s crazy but i m homesick in my own country. i have nuttin to do here, i went from having a very busy life to this and it s starting to drive me crazy. I try to keep busy, i work out , i do body wraps, hair masks watch movies, lol anything to keep me busy .

i can t really go anywhere without a car, i live in the middle of nowhere, it s so small there, there is like a bakery and a pharmacy in the all town.

i m just not a country girl lol.

SO my fiance, well his life is just as busy was it s always been, between gigs, recording, photo shot, band practise, he s extremely busy, so im sure time goes faster for him....and all i do is think about immigration all day, it sucks...i don t want to be 2 needy towards him emotionaly because of this all visa thing. what should i do to keep myself busy in this situation before i lose my mind?Im starting to feel depressed... i don t wanna drive him crazy either...

i asked the ladies to gives me advices because i think they will understand this all thing a lil better ( no offence guys) and especially with the emotional part...

thanks

xoxo

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been dating since june 1st 2007

dec-08 -officially engaged,i went back to France to apply for k1

2-11-09:noa1

3-06-09:My angel is visiting me

3-16-09:my angel is going back to the states

6-06-09: received NOA 2 HARDCOPY!!!!! ( notice date:-05-29-09)

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Get your mind off boredom by going out with him on his gigs and music practice. Hang out with him. Give support for him instead of thinking of yourself. I'm sure your husband is doing this to make a living. It's for you, and your family.

It's really up to you if you want to invest time in him, or go home. It sounds like you don't want to invest time in him.

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Get your mind off boredom by going out with him on his gigs and music practice. Hang out with him. Give support for him instead of thinking of yourself. I'm sure your husband is doing this to make a living. It's for you, and your family.

It's really up to you if you want to invest time in him, or go home. It sounds like you don't want to invest time in him.

She went back to France. She can't be with the Bf because he is in the States....

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Get your mind off boredom by going out with him on his gigs and music practice. Hang out with him. Give support for him instead of thinking of yourself. I'm sure your husband is doing this to make a living. It's for you, and your family.

It's really up to you if you want to invest time in him, or go home. It sounds like you don't want to invest time in him.

If I read the OP correctly, she is in France now....

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Get your mind off boredom by going out with him on his gigs and music practice. Hang out with him. Give support for him instead of thinking of yourself. I'm sure your husband is doing this to make a living. It's for you, and your family.

It's really up to you if you want to invest time in him, or go home. It sounds like you don't want to invest time in him.

If I read the OP correctly, she is in France now....

Oops. Too late. Sorry. I was doing something, then forgot what I was thinking.

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Get your mind off boredom by going out with him on his gigs and music practice. Hang out with him. Give support for him instead of thinking of yourself. I'm sure your husband is doing this to make a living. It's for you, and your family.

It's really up to you if you want to invest time in him, or go home. It sounds like you don't want to invest time in him.

If I read the OP correctly, she is in France now....

that's the way i read it, but what do i know?

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hey there,

Before i even start i would like to say that i am not complaining or asking for people to feel bad, im simply asking for advice....

so as pretty much everybody here, im waiting for my noa2, i actually had to leave the us after living there for 8 years to reapply for a visa,because i didn t wanna get married underthe wrong visa.

Sooooo i went back to France, moved with my dad whith who i had very lil contact, but im glad i did, it brought us closer together , letting the past go.

so, my problem is, i don t know anyone in this lil village, i don t have my car with me or my driver s license as it is not valid here since i got it in louisiana, i had to quit my job, leave my house, my friends and my love ... i can t work here without a car i live 2 far from the city, and there is just no job available , people everywhereare getting fired and i never had a job in france before...and it s crazy but i m homesick in my own country. i have nuttin to do here, i went from having a very busy life to this and it s starting to drive me crazy. I try to keep busy, i work out , i do body wraps, hair masks watch movies, lol anything to keep me busy .

i can t really go anywhere without a car, i live in the middle of nowhere, it s so small there, there is like a bakery and a pharmacy in the all town.

i m just not a country girl lol.

SO my fiance, well his life is just as busy was it s always been, between gigs, recording, photo shot, band practise, he s extremely busy, so im sure time goes faster for him....and all i do is think about immigration all day, it sucks...i don t want to be 2 needy towards him emotionaly because of this all visa thing. what should i do to keep myself busy in this situation before i lose my mind?Im starting to feel depressed... i don t wanna drive him crazy either...

i asked the ladies to gives me advices because i think they will understand this all thing a lil better ( no offence guys) and especially with the emotional part...

thanks

xoxo

It says for d Ladies only. William, Neil and Charles...R U LADIES? :luv:

well, this is serious sis...I also a city gurl but was assigned to a barrio school bcoz of work...wow! a place sorrounded by trees, farmers, people who were just talking as their past time on d street, dogs, cows and etc...but it was never a problem to me as Im a flexible person, Im proud to say that being a city gurl I experienced a lot, be in a city, in a remote areas, in a barrio places, i even good to go but I surely would miss my life here n d middle of nowhere so i delayed my flight...and it seems u are not bcoz u are MAARTE in our dialect :yes: ...if u are in Rome, do as d Romans do...or why not clean the backyard, plant flowering plants, make friends and upload pix in ur friendster so your friends could see how beautiful is your place...dont stay in one corner all day long and think of your fiance...:yes:

hope u wont mind me posting this way...thats a pure suggestions :thumbs: be HAPPY and Good Luck.

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hey there,

Before i even start i would like to say that i am not complaining or asking for people to feel bad, im simply asking for advice....

so as pretty much everybody here, im waiting for my noa2, i actually had to leave the us after living there for 8 years to reapply for a visa,because i didn t wanna get married underthe wrong visa.

Sooooo i went back to France, moved with my dad whith who i had very lil contact, but im glad i did, it brought us closer together , letting the past go.

so, my problem is, i don t know anyone in this lil village, i don t have my car with me or my driver s license as it is not valid here since i got it in louisiana, i had to quit my job, leave my house, my friends and my love ... i can t work here without a car i live 2 far from the city, and there is just no job available , people everywhereare getting fired and i never had a job in france before...and it s crazy but i m homesick in my own country. i have nuttin to do here, i went from having a very busy life to this and it s starting to drive me crazy. I try to keep busy, i work out , i do body wraps, hair masks watch movies, lol anything to keep me busy .

i can t really go anywhere without a car, i live in the middle of nowhere, it s so small there, there is like a bakery and a pharmacy in the all town.

i m just not a country girl lol.

SO my fiance, well his life is just as busy was it s always been, between gigs, recording, photo shot, band practise, he s extremely busy, so im sure time goes faster for him....and all i do is think about immigration all day, it sucks...i don t want to be 2 needy towards him emotionaly because of this all visa thing. what should i do to keep myself busy in this situation before i lose my mind?Im starting to feel depressed... i don t wanna drive him crazy either...

i asked the ladies to gives me advices because i think they will understand this all thing a lil better ( no offence guys) and especially with the emotional part...

thanks

xoxo

It says for d Ladies only. William, Neil and Charles...R U LADIES? :luv:

well, this is serious sis...I also a city gurl but was assigned to a barrio school bcoz of work...wow! a place sorrounded by trees, farmers, people who were just talking as their past time on d street, dogs, cows and etc...but it was never a problem to me as Im a flexible person, Im proud to say that being a city gurl I experienced a lot, be in a city, in a remote areas, in a barrio places, i even good to go but I surely would miss my life here n d middle of nowhere so i delayed my flight...and it seems u are not bcoz u are MAARTE in our dialect :yes: ...if u are in Rome, do as d Romans do...or why not clean the backyard, plant flowering plants, make friends and upload pix in ur friendster so your friends could see how beautiful is your place...dont stay in one corner all day long and think of your fiance... :yes:

hope u wont mind me posting this way...thats a pure suggestions :thumbs: be HAPPY and Good Luck.

My excuse for being here is the duty of a Moderator.

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It says for d Ladies only. William, Neil and Charles...R U LADIES? :luv:

are you?

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hey there,

Before i even start i would like to say that i am not complaining or asking for people to feel bad, im simply asking for advice....

so as pretty much everybody here, im waiting for my noa2, i actually had to leave the us after living there for 8 years to reapply for a visa,because i didn t wanna get married underthe wrong visa.

Sooooo i went back to France, moved with my dad whith who i had very lil contact, but im glad i did, it brought us closer together , letting the past go.

so, my problem is, i don t know anyone in this lil village, i don t have my car with me or my driver s license as it is not valid here since i got it in louisiana, i had to quit my job, leave my house, my friends and my love ... i can t work here without a car i live 2 far from the city, and there is just no job available , people everywhereare getting fired and i never had a job in france before...and it s crazy but i m homesick in my own country. i have nuttin to do here, i went from having a very busy life to this and it s starting to drive me crazy. I try to keep busy, i work out , i do body wraps, hair masks watch movies, lol anything to keep me busy .

i can t really go anywhere without a car, i live in the middle of nowhere, it s so small there, there is like a bakery and a pharmacy in the all town.

i m just not a country girl lol.

SO my fiance, well his life is just as busy was it s always been, between gigs, recording, photo shot, band practise, he s extremely busy, so im sure time goes faster for him....and all i do is think about immigration all day, it sucks...i don t want to be 2 needy towards him emotionaly because of this all visa thing. what should i do to keep myself busy in this situation before i lose my mind?Im starting to feel depressed... i don t wanna drive him crazy either...

i asked the ladies to gives me advices because i think they will understand this all thing a lil better ( no offence guys) and especially with the emotional part...

thanks

xoxo

It says for d Ladies only. William, Neil and Charles...R U LADIES? :luv:

well, this is serious sis...I also a city gurl but was assigned to a barrio school bcoz of work...wow! a place sorrounded by trees, farmers, people who were just talking as their past time on d street, dogs, cows and etc...but it was never a problem to me as Im a flexible person, Im proud to say that being a city gurl I experienced a lot, be in a city, in a remote areas, in a barrio places, i even good to go but I surely would miss my life here n d middle of nowhere so i delayed my flight...and it seems u are not bcoz u are MAARTE in our dialect :yes: ...if u are in Rome, do as d Romans do...or why not clean the backyard, plant flowering plants, make friends and upload pix in ur friendster so your friends could see how beautiful is your place...dont stay in one corner all day long and think of your fiance... :yes:

hope u wont mind me posting this way...thats a pure suggestions :thumbs: be HAPPY and Good Luck.

My excuse for being here is the duty of a Moderator.

PEACE (L)

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hey there,

Before i even start i would like to say that i am not complaining or asking for people to feel bad, im simply asking for advice....

so as pretty much everybody here, im waiting for my noa2, i actually had to leave the us after living there for 8 years to reapply for a visa,because i didn t wanna get married underthe wrong visa.

Sooooo i went back to France, moved with my dad whith who i had very lil contact, but im glad i did, it brought us closer together , letting the past go.

so, my problem is, i don t know anyone in this lil village, i don t have my car with me or my driver s license as it is not valid here since i got it in louisiana, i had to quit my job, leave my house, my friends and my love ... i can t work here without a car i live 2 far from the city, and there is just no job available , people everywhereare getting fired and i never had a job in france before...and it s crazy but i m homesick in my own country. i have nuttin to do here, i went from having a very busy life to this and it s starting to drive me crazy. I try to keep busy, i work out , i do body wraps, hair masks watch movies, lol anything to keep me busy .

i can t really go anywhere without a car, i live in the middle of nowhere, it s so small there, there is like a bakery and a pharmacy in the all town.

i m just not a country girl lol.

SO my fiance, well his life is just as busy was it s always been, between gigs, recording, photo shot, band practise, he s extremely busy, so im sure time goes faster for him....and all i do is think about immigration all day, it sucks...i don t want to be 2 needy towards him emotionaly because of this all visa thing. what should i do to keep myself busy in this situation before i lose my mind?Im starting to feel depressed... i don t wanna drive him crazy either...

i asked the ladies to gives me advices because i think they will understand this all thing a lil better ( no offence guys) and especially with the emotional part...

thanks

xoxo

It says for d Ladies only. William, Neil and Charles...R U LADIES? :luv:

well, this is serious sis...I also a city gurl but was assigned to a barrio school bcoz of work...wow! a place sorrounded by trees, farmers, people who were just talking as their past time on d street, dogs, cows and etc...but it was never a problem to me as Im a flexible person, Im proud to say that being a city gurl I experienced a lot, be in a city, in a remote areas, in a barrio places, i even good to go but I surely would miss my life here n d middle of nowhere so i delayed my flight...and it seems u are not bcoz u are MAARTE in our dialect :yes: ...if u are in Rome, do as d Romans do...or why not clean the backyard, plant flowering plants, make friends and upload pix in ur friendster so your friends could see how beautiful is your place...dont stay in one corner all day long and think of your fiance... :yes:

hope u wont mind me posting this way...thats a pure suggestions :thumbs: be HAPPY and Good Luck.

My excuse for being here is the duty of a Moderator.

PEACE (L)

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For the record, I too am a man.

20-July -03 Meet Nicole

17-May -04 Divorce Final. I-129F submitted to USCIS

02-July -04 NOA1

30-Aug -04 NOA2 (Approved)

13-Sept-04 NVC to HCMC

08-Oc t -04 Pack 3 received and sent

15-Dec -04 Pack 4 received.

24-Jan-05 Interview----------------Passed

28-Feb-05 Visa Issued

06-Mar-05 ----Nicole is here!!EVERYBODY DANCE!

10-Mar-05 --US Marriage

01-Nov-05 -AOS complete

14-Nov-07 -10 year green card approved

12-Mar-09 Citizenship Oath Montebello, CA

May '04- Mar '09! The 5 year journey is complete!

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