Got a white slip

[liraC 2]

Sobrang pahirap na ito kakatapos ko lang mghintay ng sputum culture ko MARCH 30,interview ko kahapon APRIL 03 and i thought everything went well...I have lots of documents na naipakita ko like emails,chatlogs,greetings cards,phone bills,pictures together,remittances,I-134,bank statement,stock investment,proof of meeting in person like hotel reciepts...She ask me kung ilang taon na fiance ko,i said 53 and am 28.She then ask me,why my fiance still single and never been married,may anak po siya 2 sa iisang babae at nasa fiance ko po ang custody..I got white slip,and she ask me to submit a statement coming from my fiance na kung bakit single siya up to now at bakit daw may 2 anak sa iisang girl tapos hindi man lang daw kinasal..Guyz,i dont really understand kung bakit ganun?its none of her bussiness kung bakit never been married pa ang fiance ko,tsaka pinasubmit ako ng bagong CENOMAR kasi december pa yung sa akin,at nagduda din siya na baka daw pinagawa ko lang yung CENOMAR ko pra lang may maipakita ako,kumuha po kasi ako ng CENOMAR at nagbayad thru agency,kaya pangalan ng agency ang lumabas dun na name sa requested upon by.Yun yung dalawang documents kailangan ko ipasa sa USEM..Pero bakit ganun,binalik nila ang passport ko sa kin,di ko talaga maintidihan?denied ba ako?...Sobrang frustrated na po ako,at disappointed...Akala namin mgsasama na kami at happy,hindi pa pala...

Help me naman kung may advice kayo,plzzzzzzz...

[angelrobin 0]

Just provide what they're asking. Ganun din sa husband ko, He was given a White Slip, binalik din yung passport nya sa kanya. Pero pagkasubmit ng documents they took his passport. He received his Visa on April 2nd. Kaya don't lose hope, kung legit naman ang relationship nyo and all of your documents are valid.

Sobrang pahirap na ito kakatapos ko lang mghintay ng sputum culture ko MARCH 30,interview ko kahapon APRIL 03 and i thought everything went well...I have lots of documents na naipakita ko like emails,chatlogs,greetings cards,phone bills,pictures together,remittances,I-134,bank statement,stock investment,proof of meeting in person like hotel reciepts...She ask me kung ilang taon na fiance ko,i said 53 and am 28.She then ask me,why my fiance still single and never been married,may anak po siya 2 sa iisang babae at nasa fiance ko po ang custody..I got white slip,and she ask me to submit a statement coming from my fiance na kung bakit single siya up to now at bakit daw may 2 anak sa iisang girl tapos hindi man lang daw kinasal..Guyz,i dont really understand kung bakit ganun?its none of her bussiness kung bakit never been married pa ang fiance ko,tsaka pinasubmit ako ng bagong CENOMAR kasi december pa yung sa akin,at nagduda din siya na baka daw pinagawa ko lang yung CENOMAR ko pra lang may maipakita ako,kumuha po kasi ako ng CENOMAR at nagbayad thru agency,kaya pangalan ng agency ang lumabas dun na name sa requested upon by.Yun yung dalawang documents kailangan ko ipasa sa USEM..Pero bakit ganun,binalik nila ang passport ko sa kin,di ko talaga maintidihan?denied ba ako?...Sobrang frustrated na po ako,at disappointed...Akala namin mgsasama na kami at happy,hindi pa pala...

Help me naman kung may advice kayo,plzzzzzzz...

[RonMay 1]

Sobrang pahirap na ito kakatapos ko lang mghintay ng sputum culture ko MARCH 30,interview ko kahapon APRIL 03 and i thought everything went well...I have lots of documents na naipakita ko like emails,chatlogs,greetings cards,phone bills,pictures together,remittances,I-134,bank statement,stock investment,proof of meeting in person like hotel reciepts...She ask me kung ilang taon na fiance ko,i said 53 and am 28.She then ask me,why my fiance still single and never been married,may anak po siya 2 sa iisang babae at nasa fiance ko po ang custody..I got white slip,and she ask me to submit a statement coming from my fiance na kung bakit single siya up to now at bakit daw may 2 anak sa iisang girl tapos hindi man lang daw kinasal..Guyz,i dont really understand kung bakit ganun?its none of her bussiness kung bakit never been married pa ang fiance ko,tsaka pinasubmit ako ng bagong CENOMAR kasi december pa yung sa akin,at nagduda din siya na baka daw pinagawa ko lang yung CENOMAR ko pra lang may maipakita ako,kumuha po kasi ako ng CENOMAR at nagbayad thru agency,kaya pangalan ng agency ang lumabas dun na name sa requested upon by.Yun yung dalawang documents kailangan ko ipasa sa USEM..Pero bakit ganun,binalik nila ang passport ko sa kin,di ko talaga maintidihan?denied ba ako?...Sobrang frustrated na po ako,at disappointed...Akala namin mgsasama na kami at happy,hindi pa pala...

Help me naman kung may advice kayo,plzzzzzzz...

im sorry to hear about your experienced at the embassy... hindi pa huli ang lahat!!! have faith that everything will be ok. hindi nag bibigay si Lord ng problema pag hindi kaya ng isang tao... anyway for now focus on what the embassy asked you to do... and yes if its possible (this is for those na wala pang interview date) always have the most recent documents especially when it comes to Cenomar and NBI, even BC na hindi mag i-expire try to have a new one... a week before my interview i tried to get nbi and cenomar (even if i already had a 3 months old nbi w/ me) its not bad at all to over kill... anyhow im sure your fiance will write a convincing letter for the embassy. and get the cenomar personally... i pray for you guys and its not too late... God bless!!!

[Dakine 26]

You will get more advice if you post in English!

[liraC 2]

I understand naman sa CENOMAR eh,naiintindihan ko lang talaga yun..Pero bakit kailangan pa ng statement na mag eexplaine ang fiance ko kung bakit hindi man lang siya nakasal,or nagpakasal sa mother nung mga anak niya..Gusto ko sanang magkwento sa consul about it,what was really happened kaya lang ayokong lumabas na judgemental ako na jumping into conclusion sa EX live in partner ng fiance ko,kaya nanahimik na lang talga ako,at ska i dont think am in the right position to make kwento to the consul,of course i do believe and am in my fiance side,kasi hindi naman lumaking matalino at mabuti ang mga anak niya kung masama siyang tao eh..Tsaka,di ko manintidihan bakit sinabi ng consul na IT'S UNUSUAL ang ganung case,na ngkaanak ng 2 sa iisang babae and at the age of 53,never been married...salamat sa mga ngreply,..

[noodlesweasel 0]

I will pray for you, ibigay at sundin mo na lang ang hinihingi nila. They are just doing their job, marami nga naman nagpupunta sa US for GC. Tama ka yung fiance mo lang ang makakapag explain kung bakit at 58 eh wala pa syang asawa or pinakasalan. I will include you in my prayers.

[liraC 2]

I will pray for you, ibigay at sundin mo na lang ang hinihingi nila. They are just doing their job, marami nga naman nagpupunta sa US for GC. Tama ka yung fiance mo lang ang makakapag explain kung bakit at 58 eh wala pa syang asawa or pinakasalan. I will include you in my prayers.

Sorry ha,pero hindi naman 58...he just turned 53 last february....

[thepizzadude 26]

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[liraC 2]

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This is too much suffering after I waited so long for the sputum culture result this March 30. My interview was yesterday, April 3, and I thought everything will be okay because I have so many documents to prove to them, like emails, chatlogs, greeting cards, proof of meeting in person like hotel receipt, I-134, bank statement, stock investment, pictures together. The consul asked me if how old is he, I said 53, and I am 28. She asked me again why my fiancé still single and never been married because he has 2 kids from same woman, and have their custody. I really don’t understand why it happened. It’s none of her business if he never was married before. Then, she asked me to submit new CENOMAR because I got it last December.She doubts the authenticity of my CENOMAR because the agency got it for me in whom their name appeared in “request upon by”. That’s the two document that embassy needed from me. But why did they return my passport to me? Am I denied? I am so frustrated and disappointed. I thought we will be together and be happy. Please help me and give me advice.

[RonMay 1]

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im just guessing its easier to express it in our language if one is so depress or stress about her situation. i for example was working at a home base phone agent (like a call center). an irate customer started screaming and cursing and every thing you can imagine a crazy, mad, wacko would do, my brain just went blank and for the first time i cannot think of any english words to say... i tried so hard to calm ourselves down but all i can say that time was ammm ammmm kasi kasi kasi, hindi hindi hindi (in visaya heheh)... so i guess lets just give her a break for now... just loud thoughts...

[ManilaIdaho 2]

It also happened to me before,after i passed the sputum cultures,during my interview,the CO told me to sumbit a NBI clearance with A.K.A since i had the error on my last name changed,they also gave me back my passport but was asked to pay the visa delivery.I know it's frustrating but we cant do anything but submit what's needed and after submission,you'll have to wait 2-3 wks for your passport to be delivered to you.

good luck and God bless

[liraC 2]

You will get more advice if you post in English!

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im just guessing its easier to express it in our language if one is so depress or stress about her situation. i for example was working at a home base phone agent (like a call center). an irate customer started screaming and cursing and every thing you can imagine a crazy, mad, wacko would do, my brain just went blank and for the first time i cannot think of any english words to say... i tried so hard to calm ourselves down but all i can say that time was ammm ammmm kasi kasi kasi, hindi hindi hindi (in visaya heheh)... so i guess lets just give her a break for now... just loud thoughts...

Thank you RONMAY.. i posted already a new topic,an english version of this... gusto ko mgsaya pero natatakot na ako...god bless us..

[noodlesweasel 0]

Sorry ha, I stand corrected. 53 lang pala. I realized that pero na click ko na ang post. Malabo na kasi mata ko. Im still praying for you. Ingat sis.

[MMW 2]

You will get more advice if you post in English!

And even maybe help those that may run into whatever it is you are experiencing in the future.

im just guessing its easier to express it in our language if one is so depress or stress about her situation. i for example was working at a home base phone agent (like a call center). an irate customer started screaming and cursing and every thing you can imagine a crazy, mad, wacko would do, my brain just went blank and for the first time i cannot think of any english words to say... i tried so hard to calm ourselves down but all i can say that time was ammm ammmm kasi kasi kasi, hindi hindi hindi (in visaya heheh)... so i guess lets just give her a break for now... just loud thoughts...

Thank you RONMAY.. i posted already a new topic,an english version of this... gusto ko mgsaya pero natatakot na ako...god bless us..

Hello we have the same date of interview april 3 at 7am baka nag kita na tau sa embassy that time., anyway I am sorry to hear that from u a white slip, anyway all i can give u now is a prayer that I hope everything will be okay soo soon para magkita na kau nang hubby., don't worry god promise to us his words and his endless love to us. Just have faith in God.

MMW

[Fred N Emilia 0]

We are on the same boat pero ok lng, give them what they want as fast as you can and you should be fine. They want a new NBI clearance from my SO. And like everyone else who had to go through a white slip, we have to give them what they want, no exceptions.