For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!

[adam1 1]

Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here

I think the wife should see it before the "best friend"

sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean

I told my wife everything about my X girlfriend, and she told me that I you should of married her.lol, She told me that she was in love with me. And I explain to her everything and why we didn't make it. I honestly told my wife do you get mad when I bring my X in a conversation and she said a little bit, But i'm your wife and I need to listen to you and know everything about you. Sometime I think she just want to get as much information as she can about my past which is ok with me. I got nothing to hide and I'm not scared either what ever is going to happened will happen anyways.

Edited April 29, 2009 by adam1

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here

I think the wife should see it before the "best friend"

sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean

I told my wife everything about my X girlfriend, and she told you should of married her.lol, She told me that she was in love with me. And I explain to her everything and why we didn't make it. I honestly told my wife do you get mad when I bring my X in a conversation and she said a little bit, But i'm your wife and I need to listen to you and know everything about you. Sometime I think she just want to get as much information as she can about my past which is ok with me. I got nothing to hide and I'm not scared either what ever is going to happened will happen anyways.

Thats nice.

[adam1 1]

Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here

I think the wife should see it before the "best friend"

sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean

[childress_london 3]

Hi Adam - Your wife sounds very nice and she's trying to be understanding. This is good, however, do not take advantage of this. I ask that you put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would feel if the situation was reversed. Honestly. From the woman's perspective, I can tell you that she does not like you keeping up with the friendship of this woman (and it's not good for that woman either, she needs to get over you and move on). Yes, your wife needs to hear about things that have happened in your life so that she can better understand you, but that's it. She doesn't need this woman's name constantly brought up or this woman to continue to be in your life. From what I've seen, everyone here has advised you AGAINST any contact with this woman, but you continue to ask about it. If you don't want to take our advice, don't, but also don't keep asking questions hoping the opinion is going to change. I can tell you right now you are playing with fire by keeping this woman in your life and that's the last thing I'm going to say about it. Good luck.

[adam1 1]

Hi Adam - Your wife sounds very nice and she's trying to be understanding. This is good, however, do not take advantage of this. I ask that you put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would feel if the situation was reversed. Honestly. From the woman's perspective, I can tell you that she does not like you keeping up with the friendship of this woman (and it's not good for that woman either, she needs to get over you and move on). Yes, your wife needs to hear about things that have happened in your life so that she can better understand you, but that's it. She doesn't need this woman's name constantly brought up or this woman to continue to be in your life. From what I've seen, everyone here has advised you AGAINST any contact with this woman, but you continue to ask about it. If you don't want to take our advice, don't, but also don't keep asking questions hoping the opinion is going to change. I can tell you right now you are playing with fire by keeping this woman in your life and that's the last thing I'm going to say about it. Good luck.

thanks, No more questions.

[Nagishkaw 510]

The both of you sound very immature.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

The both of you sound very immature.

He said no more questions....the interview and comment time is over for now

[adam1 1]

The both of you sound very immature.

He said no more questions....the interview and comment time is over for now

thanks

[Nagishkaw 510]

The thread isn't closed. Until that happens, Im free to comment, thankyouverymuch. Next?

[adam1 1]

The thread isn't closed. Until that happens, Im free to comment, thankyouverymuch. Next?

help your self, you are free to comment and you don't have to be mature.

[Nothing1234 2]

The thread isn't closed. Until that happens, Im free to comment, thankyouverymuch. Next?

[adam1 1]

The thread isn't closed. Until that happens, Im free to comment, thankyouverymuch. Next?

Nawal, I like your son clothes.

Edited April 30, 2009 by adam1

[Nagishkaw 510]

The thread isn't closed. Until that happens, Im free to comment, thankyouverymuch. Next?

help your self, you are free to comment and you don't have to be mature.

As if I needed your permission, but first let me consult with my inner child and invisible playmate and see if they would like to comment also.

[Lebanese Girl 1]

Hey Trust me I been dealing with this problem for almost 10yrs. I have no life, I got so depressed that i left all my friends. Not that I blame anyone but I just feel like no one understands what I am going through. Work passes the time, but like I mentioned I have no life no excitment and it's all in my hands. But Having such a strict sort of say husband that hanging out and wasting time is out the question lol. But I usually watch tv until my eyes burn to sleep, i rather sleep the time away instead of doing something I'll regrate. Its so hard to go out with friends because girls woman usually always talk about what her husband did or what he got her or what they are doing for the weekend. So it's hard to listen knowing the fact that my husband is no where near me. I'm just so tired of waiting and waiting crying i've wasted 10yrs of my life. My fault my desicion but I don't ever regrate loving my husband.

SO I can really relate to wat you are going through, and it will just get tougher. Good luck inshallah allah will look down on you, and you will reunite with your loved one.

[me_4_musa 1]

Hey Trust me I been dealing with this problem for almost 10yrs. I have no life, I got so depressed that i left all my friends. Not that I blame anyone but I just feel like no one understands what I am going through. Work passes the time, but like I mentioned I have no life no excitment and it's all in my hands. But Having such a strict sort of say husband that hanging out and wasting time is out the question lol. But I usually watch tv until my eyes burn to sleep, i rather sleep the time away instead of doing something I'll regrate. Its so hard to go out with friends because girls woman usually always talk about what her husband did or what he got her or what they are doing for the weekend. So it's hard to listen knowing the fact that my husband is no where near me. I'm just so tired of waiting and waiting crying i've wasted 10yrs of my life. My fault my desicion but I don't ever regrate loving my husband.

SO I can really relate to wat you are going through, and it will just get tougher. Good luck inshallah allah will look down on you, and you will reunite with your loved one.

Of course no one is going to understand why you would waste 10 years of your life by dumping your friends, sleeping and watching TV. Not sure what’s so funny about having a strict husband who doesn’t allow you to ‘hang out’. Did he also dump his friends, does he just sleep and watch the telly as well to make the time pass? What’s wrong with loving your husband but enjoying life as well. Why in the h*ll would someone do that to themselves?