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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you.

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

See my interview experience here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=217544&hl=

Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you.

her birthday is coming up soon should I send her a card or just leave her a alone!!!!

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you.

her birthday is coming up soon should I send her a card or just leave her a alone!!!!

I think you know the answer to that one. :whistle:

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

See my interview experience here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=217544&hl=

Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you.

her birthday is coming up soon should I send her a card or just leave her a alone!!!!

I think you know the answer to that one. :whistle:

I really don't understand girls sometimes, If I do she my get mad if I don't may get upset, so I don't know. Put your self in my situiation and hers too and let me know? thinks

Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: Egypt
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Men are supposed to be mind readers, didn't you know that?

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Kenya
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Adam, you really have a lot to learn about women and about life.

Posting that letter was very classless. That was your business and should be kept private.

Good luck with your new wife.

I believe that in a relationship between a man and a woman, one will eventually want to take the relationship further.

My belief is that a man and woman CAN NOT be friends unless there is something major preventing them from taking their relationship further, like one is married or one has a different persuasion.

What you have experienced is your so called best friend actually wanted, or did in her mind, take your relationship further than you did.

Phil (Lockport, near Chicago) and Alla (Lobnya, near Moscow)

As of Dec 7, 2009, now Zero miles apart (literally)!

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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What on earth have I been missing over here? :P

Adam,

For F's sake leave that girl alone dude.

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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Adam, you really have a lot to learn about women and about life.

Posting that letter was very classless. That was your business and should be kept private.

Good luck with your new wife.

I believe that in a relationship between a man and a woman, one will eventually want to take the relationship further.

My belief is that a man and woman CAN NOT be friends unless there is something major preventing them from taking their relationship further, like one is married or one has a different persuasion.

What you have experienced is your so called best friend actually wanted, or did in her mind, take your relationship further than you did.

I'm trying to do the right thing here, so if you were in my situiation what would you do? or if you were her would you be mad if your best friend didn't wish you a happy birthday?

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: France
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LEAVE HER ALONE! You now have a wife for peete sakes!

Met: 2004-07-18

Islamic marriage: 2006-07-31

Marriage : 2008-12-27

Entry San Fran 2009-09-27

Hubby is HOME!!!!

Received SSN 2009-10-06

Received welcome letter 2009-10-10

GREEN CARD!!! 2009-10-13

Driver's License 2009-10-26

HUBBY FOUND A JOB!!! after about 4 months of being here :)

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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LEAVE HER ALONE! You now have a wife for peete sakes!

some people you can tell not to and they won't, some think about doing it but won't, and some just have to piss on the electric fence to learn.

* ~ * Charles * ~ *
 

I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

USE THE REPORT BUTTON INSTEAD OF MESSAGING A MODERATOR!

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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LEAVE HER ALONE! You now have a wife for peete sakes!

alright sounds like the majority of you want me to live her alone, so I'm not going to wish her a happy birthday, but if she gets mad at me I will blame it on VJ members and I will show her the tread, lol:star: :star:

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: France
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Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here :)

Met: 2004-07-18

Islamic marriage: 2006-07-31

Marriage : 2008-12-27

Entry San Fran 2009-09-27

Hubby is HOME!!!!

Received SSN 2009-10-06

Received welcome letter 2009-10-10

GREEN CARD!!! 2009-10-13

Driver's License 2009-10-26

HUBBY FOUND A JOB!!! after about 4 months of being here :)

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here :)

I think the wife should see it before the "best friend"

sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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Really, you shouldn't be having any contact with her to hear if she is upset or not.

On what do I do when I'm waiting for my love.

I read and chat a lot (online is now only with women) or have discussions with my family about religion, politics and ..... everything, I post and read here a lot, I play games with my daughter, lots of video games with my family, we go hiking or biking or skating. I cook, go out to eat and/or shopping with my family. And I work, work, work. And we call or see each other every day.

Almost everywhere I go is with my family, the few times I went out for lunch or shopping with my friends my husband called me more, like he was nervous.

Marriage : 2008-07-03

I-130 Sent : 2008-09-30

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-03

Dec 22 2008 Transferred to California Service Center

I-130 Approved : 2009-01-12

NVC Received : 2009-1-16

Officially in AVR : 2009-1-17 emailed scanned DS 3032

DS 3032 generated and accepted via email/ AOS I-864 generated : 2009-1-23

Received I-864 Bill : 2009-1-26

Pay I-864 Bill : 2009-1-26 status PAID 1-28

Pay IV Bill : 2009-1-26 status PAID 1-28

Send Completed I 864 and IV Package (overnight) : 2009-2-4 (had to wait for hubby's PC and original birth certificate to arrive)

Case Completed at NVC : 2009-2-11 !!!!

NVC Left : Received email March 3rd

Medical Completed : March 12, 2009

Interview Date : April 22, 2009. 8 am. VISA APPROVED!!!

Visa in Hand : April 27th, 2008!!! Arrival May 11th! POE JFK

Processing Estimates/Stats : Your I-130 was approved in 101 days from your NOA1 date. NVC completed in 26 days! Interview was 201 days from Noa 1.

Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: Morocco
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LEAVE HER ALONE! You now have a wife for peete sakes!

alright sounds like the majority of you want me to live her alone, so I'm not going to wish her a happy birthday, but if she gets mad at me I will blame it on VJ members and I will show her the tread, lol:star: :star:

Why would you care what she thinks? Who is more important? Her, or your wife? If you haven't got that figured out by now I really pity your wife.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

 
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