How can we help Estadia (Sara)??

[amberL 0]

Steph, I'm very sorry for your loss, I read about it in the Toronto Sun today.

And Sara, I'm sure I can get everyone that I talk to to sign your petition, well everyone at work, they constantly hear me talking about the whole crappy process and would be horrified by how long you have had to wait.

[sara..... 371]

oh my God, my deepest sympathy to u and your family as well as his, do not worry about my visa journey it is insignificant compared to what ur going thru

at first i could not believe what i was reading ur an angel to even think of me with all that is going on in ur life

if there is anything i can do talk, chat anything plz let me know my heart goes out to u

my and my families prayers and thougths are with you i know it is not enough but i hope that at least it can help u get thru this time in ur life

sara

[Cecile and Bryan 0]

Steph, I'm very sorry... My condolences

[HappyDancer 7]

Steph, my hairs stood when I read your message. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going thru right now. I don't even want to think about it. I offer my hugs and prayers to you and Chris. May he rest in peace and the angels in heaven welcome him with loving arms.

God bless you sis. Please hang in there and don't allow this to sway your faith that there will be light at the end of the tunnel.

Much love and prayers,

HD

[Cuchita 1]

I'm in tears, I cannot believe this it's not fair, this is another of my worries, what if my So or me get sick and all this time apart not having the person you love with you, that's devastating I just don't know how you had the strenght to post this, I really thank you.

This is the second time I hear a fiance of a fellow Vjer dies remember the guy with the fiancee in Salvador?. That was terrible she got very sick and died.

He is with God now, no pain that's the only relief.

Take care,

[Saska+Tim 7]

Unfortunately, I'm not up to this task anymore. Feel free to copy the petition draft that I started. I just am not really able to function at all at this point. Although you can no-longer count on me to write the petition, you can still count on my signature.

I flew to Ontario from Washington State after Chris' father called me to tell me that Chris had been hit by a car while crossing the street. When I arrived, I found Chris laying in a coma in a hospital bed in ICU with a black eye and brain damage so severe that his head was swelling. The hospital told us that he would not recover and it was only a matter of time. Later that night, his parents decided to cut his life support and he died within a few hours.

I hadn't seen Chris since November. He always said, "we'll see each other soon enough... why waste the money?"

I know this whole process of waiting sucks, but... be grateful that you have someone to wait for, because it could be gone just like that.

I'll be gone from VJ for a while, but... part of me wants to become some sort of immigration activist. So, we'll see.

Take care everyone, and best of luck to all of you on your visa journey!

Ohhh, this is so sad! I cant stop crying. Steph, I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences

Edited April 9, 2009 by Saska+Tim

[Saska+Tim 7]

by the way this is the letter i received today from them.

The Status of this service request is:

Your petition is currently pending. The process of this case has been delayed as USCIS is currently awaiting

the results of required security checks. Though the background checks for the most applications or petitions are completed very quickly, some of the cases have unresolved background issues that temporary delay adjudication of the application or petition. Although UCSIC makes every effort to resolve such cases promptly, the agency can not move forward until all outstanding issues have been resolved to our satisfaction. USCIS weill make every effort to make a decision on this case as soon as the security checks are complete.

ok thats the last letter i got today and its still same old stuff been getting for about a year now... some of the letters said processing but this one clearly says pending

sara

Sara, maybe this can be interesting for you: FBI name checks

[PB&JAM 1]

Unfortunately, I'm not up to this task anymore. Feel free to copy the petition draft that I started. I just am not really able to function at all at this point. Although you can no-longer count on me to write the petition, you can still count on my signature.

I flew to Ontario from Washington State after Chris' father called me to tell me that Chris had been hit by a car while crossing the street. When I arrived, I found Chris laying in a coma in a hospital bed in ICU with a black eye and brain damage so severe that his head was swelling. The hospital told us that he would not recover and it was only a matter of time. Later that night, his parents decided to cut his life support and he died within a few hours.

I hadn't seen Chris since November. He always said, "we'll see each other soon enough... why waste the money?"

I know this whole process of waiting sucks, but... be grateful that you have someone to wait for, because it could be gone just like that.

I'll be gone from VJ for a while, but... part of me wants to become some sort of immigration activist. So, we'll see.

Take care everyone, and best of luck to all of you on your visa journey!

what??? NOOOOOOOOO. I cant believe this...i'm so sorry steph, i'm in tears. i'm so sorry. :( :(

[nurse1967 287]

I am so very sorry. Reading this makes me realize that our waits are insignificant in light of something like this. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and his family. Peace be with you

[Rob&Dawn 1]

Unfortunately, I'm not up to this task anymore. Feel free to copy the petition draft that I started. I just am not really able to function at all at this point. Although you can no-longer count on me to write the petition, you can still count on my signature.

I flew to Ontario from Washington State after Chris' father called me to tell me that Chris had been hit by a car while crossing the street. When I arrived, I found Chris laying in a coma in a hospital bed in ICU with a black eye and brain damage so severe that his head was swelling. The hospital told us that he would not recover and it was only a matter of time. Later that night, his parents decided to cut his life support and he died within a few hours.

I hadn't seen Chris since November. He always said, "we'll see each other soon enough... why waste the money?"

I know this whole process of waiting sucks, but... be grateful that you have someone to wait for, because it could be gone just like that.

I'll be gone from VJ for a while, but... part of me wants to become some sort of immigration activist. So, we'll see.

Take care everyone, and best of luck to all of you on your visa journey!

I am so sorry to hear this sad news, my thoughts are with you and Chris's family at this difficult time.

[cutedolphinn 1]

Steph, I am so sorry too. Today, it's Good Friday here already. I am sure God is taking care of him now. May God bless you and his family.

[rsn 135]

I am so very sorry. Reading this makes me realize that our waits are insignificant in light of something like this. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and his family. Peace be with you

I couldn't agree more. I had to leave work after reading that story about her fiance I was so sad. Life is so short and precious.

[Shannon ♥ Nick 0]

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

[Mo_Mati 2]

I am just in shock. This thread pertains to two extremely strong woman who have walked through extremely difficult times. It is just unbelievable. So many people will be thinking of both of you and praying that you might find peace. Thank you for sharing your story....

[scandal 951]

Unfortunately, I'm not up to this task anymore. Feel free to copy the petition draft that I started. I just am not really able to function at all at this point. Although you can no-longer count on me to write the petition, you can still count on my signature.

I flew to Ontario from Washington State after Chris' father called me to tell me that Chris had been hit by a car while crossing the street. When I arrived, I found Chris laying in a coma in a hospital bed in ICU with a black eye and brain damage so severe that his head was swelling. The hospital told us that he would not recover and it was only a matter of time. Later that night, his parents decided to cut his life support and he died within a few hours.

I hadn't seen Chris since November. He always said, "we'll see each other soon enough... why waste the money?"

I know this whole process of waiting sucks, but... be grateful that you have someone to wait for, because it could be gone just like that.

I'll be gone from VJ for a while, but... part of me wants to become some sort of immigration activist. So, we'll see.

Take care everyone, and best of luck to all of you on your visa journey!

:cry: That is just awful . I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and to Chris's family. I hope that you find the strength to overcome your grief. All the best.