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Im here in USA as K1, yet I found my fiance has pursuing a new filipina

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Giskat09   2

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Talk to him and ask him with an honest heart - does he really love you or what?

If yes, better seek for a counseling for both of you.. The choice is yours....

GOD bless

CITIZENSHIP 06-19-2013 Sent N400 Application (Chicago Lockbox)


06-21-2013 USCIS received my N400 application


06-25-2013 USCIS mailed the NOA1


06-28-2013 USCIS mailed the Biometrics appt


07-01-2013 Received NOA1 and Biometrics appt letter


​07-15-2013 Biometrics Appt.


08-27-2013 Interview/Test passed


10-07-2013 Oath taking


IR-5 MOM AND DAD


02-20-2014 mailed I-130 for my parents


02-24-2014 USCIS received the I-130 docs


03-17-2014 USCIS approved the petition (took 15 days, weekdays only)


03-25-2014 USCIS shipped the approved case to NVC


04-02-2014 NVC received the papers (6 days from the approval date)


05-01-2014 Got the 2 case numbers. (21 days)


05-07-2014 Got an email & paid the AOS fee (4 days); DS-261(Choice of Agent) sent


05-09-2014 AOS status "PAID" (2 days from the date the was paid)


05-22-2014 AOS docs delivered in NVC


06-27-2014 RFE for I864 and I864A (i left the Place of residence blank, 26 days from the date they received the AOS)


06-28-2014 Mailed the corrected forms to NVC


06-30-2014 NVC received the AOS corrected forms


07-01-2014 Received IV Bill Invoice, paid.


07-02-2014 PAID status of the mother


07-07-2014 PAID status of the father


07-08-2014 Mailed the supporting docs


07-10-2014 Supporting docs arrived at NVC


07-11-2014 Submitted DS260 of mother


07-13-2014 Submitted DS260 of father


09-04-2014 Called NVC and the lady said CASE COMPLETE! (136 days total from the day they received the I-130)


09-11-2014 Received an email regarding the Interview (5 days from the day the case was completed)


09-15-2014 Status "In Transit" inCEAC


09-16-2014 Status "Ready" CEAC


10-03-2014 Interview/AP/USEM (no record of their medical,DAD needs to get an NBI explanation letter&new NBI clearance with his "aka"


10-8-2014 Mom called St Lukes and asked about the medical results, they said they submitted it already back in June


10-10-2014 Mom mailed the NBI Clearance of my dad


10-14-2014 NBI clearance delivered in USEM


10-06-2014 Visa Issued CEAC


10-09-2014 Got an email that my dad's visa was issued


10-14-2014 Visa delivered 11-29-2014 POE


12-08-2014 SS Card arrived

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If you don't like the post/topic then better say nothing to it...this isn't a classroom that we're oblige to listen and get bored. Right class? Anyway, I think everyone has already said every possib

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This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

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Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO. Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

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BrianandMerne   3

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Hello Everyone!

Barely 1 month only me here. I went here as a K1 visa. Suddenly, I discovered he was having online affair to a new Cebuana Lady.

Is there anything I can do. I will go back to the Philippines. I dont want to have problem here.

Wanted to know what should I do. Should I go to the us embassy and tell the reason why we didnt get marry?

I needed an englightment.

Thank you very much in advance.

r_29

Dear r_29,

Your inquiry is more to me a plea to help you decide whether you can forgive this whole thing you recently you found out. I can very well empathize how painful it is you are going through now. The question that go through your mind is WHY and answers can not even be had no matter what explanation your fiance may offer to you. Most of all, your self-esteem is on a downward spiral right this minute. I know because I had undergone a similar situation. The person you trust the most betrays you.

How I dealt with what I went through was to answer only one question: WILL I BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM AS ABSOLUTELY AS BEFORE?

My response: NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT. Contrary to criticisms of being unforgiving, I see it more than that when it comes to committed relationships, especially in marriage.

It is like this, r_29;

We have different valuations on top of fidelity in a relationship. Whether or not that relationship is long distance. I prize fidelity so highly that I would never get back in a relationship with someone who had cheated on me. Fidelity is a mark of character. Fidelity is not only about being faithful but it is also a sign of weakness of mind, heart, soul and body. It is a representation of how a partner WALKS THE TALK of his/her commitment with the other. Fidelity is a HUMONGOUS representation of your partner's character. And mind you, character is HARD to change.

Now, I don't know about you but character is very important for me in marriage for it is only by a stroke of divine intervention can an individual change his character. As your fiance has done this now that HE PROMISED commitment to you, I can very well presume he has done this in his relationships before you came into his life. Hence, he did it to you now as easily. Obviously, he WILL do it again in the future. Human character is a pattern you see.

Although I am not aware of the circumstances surrounding you and your fiance's relationship, yet all I can say is FIND SOMEONE who can truly be honest with you. After all, the definition of fidelity is what one does when the partner isn't looking or isn't around.

One question for you before I close. CAN YOU HONESTLY SAY THAT YOU CAN TRUST YOUR PARTNER AGAIN?

You may respond to me in a form of a message here so we can talk privately or chat if you wish. You take care and remember, NEVER TAKE #######. It is better to live a life alone than be married to a man with a weak character for the rest of your life. But of course not the whole time because you can opt to divorce him eventually. Yet, do you like that? I don't think so you like that at all. God bless you.

Emma

Life is beautiful!

Giskat09 Proficient

Giskat09   2

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I have grown tired of this topic as well

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I have been reading some threads here in VJ where you post this picture and say you've grown tired of the topic.

MAN! If you are go out and get some life....

intiendes???

tallcoolone posted I have grown tired of this topic as well to to this link:

FIREPROOF!

CITIZENSHIP 06-19-2013 Sent N400 Application (Chicago Lockbox)


06-21-2013 USCIS received my N400 application


06-25-2013 USCIS mailed the NOA1


06-28-2013 USCIS mailed the Biometrics appt


07-01-2013 Received NOA1 and Biometrics appt letter


​07-15-2013 Biometrics Appt.


08-27-2013 Interview/Test passed


10-07-2013 Oath taking


IR-5 MOM AND DAD


02-20-2014 mailed I-130 for my parents


02-24-2014 USCIS received the I-130 docs


03-17-2014 USCIS approved the petition (took 15 days, weekdays only)


03-25-2014 USCIS shipped the approved case to NVC


04-02-2014 NVC received the papers (6 days from the approval date)


05-01-2014 Got the 2 case numbers. (21 days)


05-07-2014 Got an email & paid the AOS fee (4 days); DS-261(Choice of Agent) sent


05-09-2014 AOS status "PAID" (2 days from the date the was paid)


05-22-2014 AOS docs delivered in NVC


06-27-2014 RFE for I864 and I864A (i left the Place of residence blank, 26 days from the date they received the AOS)


06-28-2014 Mailed the corrected forms to NVC


06-30-2014 NVC received the AOS corrected forms


07-01-2014 Received IV Bill Invoice, paid.


07-02-2014 PAID status of the mother


07-07-2014 PAID status of the father


07-08-2014 Mailed the supporting docs


07-10-2014 Supporting docs arrived at NVC


07-11-2014 Submitted DS260 of mother


07-13-2014 Submitted DS260 of father


09-04-2014 Called NVC and the lady said CASE COMPLETE! (136 days total from the day they received the I-130)


09-11-2014 Received an email regarding the Interview (5 days from the day the case was completed)


09-15-2014 Status "In Transit" inCEAC


09-16-2014 Status "Ready" CEAC


10-03-2014 Interview/AP/USEM (no record of their medical,DAD needs to get an NBI explanation letter&new NBI clearance with his "aka"


10-8-2014 Mom called St Lukes and asked about the medical results, they said they submitted it already back in June


10-10-2014 Mom mailed the NBI Clearance of my dad


10-14-2014 NBI clearance delivered in USEM


10-06-2014 Visa Issued CEAC


10-09-2014 Got an email that my dad's visa was issued


10-14-2014 Visa delivered 11-29-2014 POE


12-08-2014 SS Card arrived

Giskat09 Proficient

Giskat09   2

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I have grown tired of this topic as well

saicyashleygrill003.jpg

I have grown tired of this immature response as well.

lol... :whistle:

CITIZENSHIP 06-19-2013 Sent N400 Application (Chicago Lockbox)


06-21-2013 USCIS received my N400 application


06-25-2013 USCIS mailed the NOA1


06-28-2013 USCIS mailed the Biometrics appt


07-01-2013 Received NOA1 and Biometrics appt letter


​07-15-2013 Biometrics Appt.


08-27-2013 Interview/Test passed


10-07-2013 Oath taking


IR-5 MOM AND DAD


02-20-2014 mailed I-130 for my parents


02-24-2014 USCIS received the I-130 docs


03-17-2014 USCIS approved the petition (took 15 days, weekdays only)


03-25-2014 USCIS shipped the approved case to NVC


04-02-2014 NVC received the papers (6 days from the approval date)


05-01-2014 Got the 2 case numbers. (21 days)


05-07-2014 Got an email & paid the AOS fee (4 days); DS-261(Choice of Agent) sent


05-09-2014 AOS status "PAID" (2 days from the date the was paid)


05-22-2014 AOS docs delivered in NVC


06-27-2014 RFE for I864 and I864A (i left the Place of residence blank, 26 days from the date they received the AOS)


06-28-2014 Mailed the corrected forms to NVC


06-30-2014 NVC received the AOS corrected forms


07-01-2014 Received IV Bill Invoice, paid.


07-02-2014 PAID status of the mother


07-07-2014 PAID status of the father


07-08-2014 Mailed the supporting docs


07-10-2014 Supporting docs arrived at NVC


07-11-2014 Submitted DS260 of mother


07-13-2014 Submitted DS260 of father


09-04-2014 Called NVC and the lady said CASE COMPLETE! (136 days total from the day they received the I-130)


09-11-2014 Received an email regarding the Interview (5 days from the day the case was completed)


09-15-2014 Status "In Transit" inCEAC


09-16-2014 Status "Ready" CEAC


10-03-2014 Interview/AP/USEM (no record of their medical,DAD needs to get an NBI explanation letter&new NBI clearance with his "aka"


10-8-2014 Mom called St Lukes and asked about the medical results, they said they submitted it already back in June


10-10-2014 Mom mailed the NBI Clearance of my dad


10-14-2014 NBI clearance delivered in USEM


10-06-2014 Visa Issued CEAC


10-09-2014 Got an email that my dad's visa was issued


10-14-2014 Visa delivered 11-29-2014 POE


12-08-2014 SS Card arrived

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Cham   3

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I have grown tired of this topic as well

saicyashleygrill003.jpg

I have grown tired of this immature response as well.

AMEN TO THAT!!

To the op IGNORE tallcoolone, he is normally moronic and insensitive as it is.

You have some great advice on here and I wish you all the best!

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07/15/08[/font] Sent off I 129F

07/17/08 Arrived and picked up by CSC

07/25/08 NOA-1 FINALLY!!!!

07/31/08 CHECK WAS CASHED!

07/28/08 touched!!

12/08/08 NOA2 FINALLY!

12/13/08 NOA2 received in the mail

12/18/08 Called NVC at (603)334-0700 and talked to a nice lady named Rose. Our case was received on the13th and was sent out to sydney...WE WILL SEE!

12/13/08 NVC received letter and said they sent out to Sydney

12/18/08 received letter in the mail from NVC.

12/19/08 another letter from NVC stating it was shipped out

12/24/08 ARRIVED IN SYDNEY at 10:26 am and signed by tom

12/29/08 CONFIRMED it is at Sydney and Good ol Tom did sign for it LOL THANKS TOM!!

12/29/08 Sydney waiting for paper file from nvc and has it requested

12/31/08 Sydney confirmed through email that the paper file was received

01/05/09 His police checks are done and sent off!!

01/28/09 Kai went to his medicals forgot one of his passport pics and needs two more shots all was good!

2/18/09 medicals ready to be picked

2/20/09 packet 3 sent in

2/26/09 pkt 3 received today takes UP to 10 days

04/07/09 interview....APPROVED!!!!

04/20/09 He flew in ..flight was changed he was 3 hours late BUT HE IS HOME

port of entry took 2 mins!! LOL

04/25/09 WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Dominion   26

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I have grown tired of this topic as well

saicyashleygrill003.jpg

I have grown tired of this immature response as well.

AMEN TO THAT!!

To the op IGNORE tallcoolone, he is normally moronic and insensitive as it is.

You have some great advice on here and I wish you all the best!

Tallcoolone has a sexy young wife that he shows off. Wonder how she feels, being a sex object?

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SuperDuper!   230

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I have grown tired of this topic as well

saicyashleygrill003.jpg

I have grown tired of this immature response as well.

AMEN TO THAT!!

To the op IGNORE tallcoolone, he is normally moronic and insensitive as it is.

You have some great advice on here and I wish you all the best!

Tallcoolone has a sexy young wife that he shows off. Wonder how she feels, being a sex object?

But i get confused at her pics. Its like he is using pics of different women. The pic of her at bohol beach club looks nothing like other pics. :blink:

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JeroenAndMichelle Proficient

JeroenAndMichelle   28

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nor the leggy one with all the makeup in his kitchen.

I think the leggy one with the beach club pic actually looks like the same person.. just taken from a different angle and she's more tanned in the beach club pic (that's the same with my wife, whenever she has been in the sun for a day, she is a lot more tanned)... I'm pretty sure it's the same person.

has this become the talk about tallcoolone thread? :unsure:

No, it's the talk-about-tallcoolone's-wife thread :D

N400 Timeline:

12/14/11 - Sending out N400 package

12/19/11 - Received by USCIS

12/21/11 - NOA date

12/22/11 - Check cashed

12/27/11 - Received NOA

02/06/12 - Received yellow letter (pre-interview case file review)

03/13/12 - Placed in line for interview scheduling (3 yr anniversary)

03/17/12 - Received interview letter

04/17/12 - Interview - No decision, application under further review

04/17/12 - Biometrics

04/25/12 - Placed in line for oath scheduling (so I'm approved yay!)

04/27/12 - Received oath ceremony date

05/09/12 - Oath ceremony!!

 
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