Im here in USA as K1, yet I found my fiance has pursuing a new filipina

[LaL 418]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

[fendergirl 1]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

[mishy 1]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

I have been reading some threads here in VJ where you post this picture and say you've grown tired of the topic.

MAN! If you are go out and get some life....

intiendes???

Tallcolone These guyz who comment On your post they are right. The girl who posted this thread is in serious problem. We all have the freedom to post what we like but be considirate of the feelings of other. If you think this thread is going too long then stop reading if YOU feel tired. Everyone who has a good heart just want to give some advice to the girl.

To r_29 talk to your fiancé if he really not serious on you better to leave him. Go back home. You deserve someone better. God will guide you.

[eri-ola 0]

In my opinion if a man cheats one he will do it again. You should do what you think is best for you. However leave before you are in USA for more than 90 days. You never know what the future would bring maybe you will meet another guy in the States and you don't want to have problems.

Make sure you know the person very well before saying "yes". I don't know much about online dating never did it never will. But I have heart from other people having problems like this. I am sorry to hear it. I wish you find a good guy who will love and respect you!!

Best of luck to you!

[SuperDuper! 230]

haaa...online stuff...itzallbad

do i have to say once more..that maybe the key is about meeting a girl in real and stopping to think that internet is everything...even finding love!

i love how ppl could have affair and now that all those ppl are doing everythingn online they are even having online affair!

and i laughed hard when i read a woman that broke up with her fiancé (both second life player) , for she suprised him ###### a girl on sencond life.

oh my gawwwwd..some can be so pathetic.

...and some are more pathetic than others.

[Michael and Joyce 0]

Hello Everyone!

Barely 1 month only me here. I went here as a K1 visa. Suddenly, I discovered he was having online affair to a new Cebuana Lady.

Is there anything I can do. I will go back to the Philippines. I dont want to have problem here.

Wanted to know what should I do. Should I go to the us embassy and tell the reason why we didnt get marry?

I needed an englightment.

Thank you very much in advance.

r_29

Hi!

Im sorry to hear your story.

Just dont let your emotion rule over your mind this time. Take a breathe and think over again, you needed a clear mind to have a sound judgment. You two both needed to talk.

[sweet_wifey22 0]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

Correct Go sistah! Bwaaaaaah

[sweetdreams 0]

Hi r_29,

I am sorry to hear that. I know how difficult and painful what you are experiencing now because I've been there before but I'm so thankful that I got over it. I also came here as K1 visa, less than a month of my arrival we got married and 2 months after I found out that my fiance(my husband) still flirting with those old chatmates and one of them was his first Filipina ex-gf despite they know that he is already married (that is one thing I dont understand with some Filipina). But before I go further I will share a story about this first Filipina why my husband didn't marry her. They first met thru internet and after a year that they've been chatting and became bf-gf, my husband decided to meet her and marry her but when he came to the Philippines he found this Filipina wasn't there, she's in Japan married with a Japanese and they had 2 kids. So, my husband went back home with brokenhearted but the communication still continue as a friend and he never gave up to find a Filipina wife. It is fine with me that they are friends but this Filipina trying to win him back, she's trying to separate us and telling to my husband that I am not the right girl for him because it seems that I am socialite people and materialistic and she also add that someday he will see the real me, that I hate his daughter and my mother-in-law. I caught my husband many times and I told him that he shouldn't do that because it shows disrespect, he will stop for a while and sometimes he hid it when he knows that I'm coming. Maybe a guy who gave a comment here is right, chatting is addicted and my husband wasn't get over it. And that time I can't stop to have regret and if I just found it before I will not marry him but its too late. So I talked to my husband heart to heart and explain to him everything. And now, he stopped chatting and I also put those girls to his block lists. And its funny this Filipina is using different name but sorry for her because I am a good detective. Now, our relationship is going smooth and he loves me more same as his daughter and I'm so lucky that my in-laws are very kind to me.

The best thing you have to do now is show to your Fiance how much you care and love him and talk to him about what you found and also have faith in GOD, Prayer is powerful. God Bless You.

[cEzYcHiC 0]

Wow! I can't really believe your fiance is a f***ng moron.

He should at least thought of how much he spent on you for getting there. All the waiting times and paperworks.

I suggest that you talk to him first and inquire about it. Not the kind of approach that you're already judging him of what you are already aware of.

Express your feelings for him (if there is still love) and try make things work.

If the relationship is falling off, I suggest that you talk him over to give you a ticket way back home and just forget how everything turned out to be.

It's nice that you haven't married him yet. This would be so much devastating if you find out.

My prayers goes for you.

[Loolie 56]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

Correct Go sistah! Bwaaaaaah

i think tallcoolone just want some attention...hehehehehhe in some way or another you will be hurt too then you will hear the same thing that you said from other people.

to r_29 try to talk to your fiance before doing anything and if you really want to end your relationship then just go back home so you wont have any problems in the future.

God bless you tallcoolone and r_29

[Jeff&Madz 0]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

Correct Go sistah! Bwaaaaaah

i think tallcoolone just want some attention...hehehehehhe in some way or another you will be hurt too then you will hear the same thing that you said from other people.

to r_29 try to talk to your fiance before doing anything and if you really want to end your relationship then just go back home so you wont have any problems in the future.

God bless you tallcoolone and r_29

Tallcoolone, its SO UNCOOL for you to say such thing when someone has a big problem which will affect their life anf their future. If you dont have anything good to say or advice to this Filipina, then shut up or not leave any commment. You are just adding pain to an already broken heart. Try to be in her shoes. You might think you are just so above other people.

to R-29. HAve a heart to heart talk with your fiance. Tell him everything you know and how you feel. True love is worth fighting for.

you are in our prayers!

[Ana Paula 2]

Do what your heart tells you to do. We never know what the other person carries in his/her heart.

You are here for a month, you still have some time to go before get married and before give up on him.

I dont see why he would do all this process with you if he was not serious about his feelings.

I truly hope you can find the best way to do whatever you decide to do.

Hugs.

[Ana Paula 2]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

Correct Go sistah! Bwaaaaaah

i think tallcoolone just want some attention...hehehehehhe in some way or another you will be hurt too then you will hear the same thing that you said from other people.

to r_29 try to talk to your fiance before doing anything and if you really want to end your relationship then just go back home so you wont have any problems in the future.

God bless you tallcoolone and r_29

Tallcoolone, its SO UNCOOL for you to say such thing when someone has a big problem which will affect their life anf their future. If you dont have anything good to say or advice to this Filipina, then shut up or not leave any commment. You are just adding pain to an already broken heart. Try to be in her shoes. You might think you are just so above other people.

to R-29. HAve a heart to heart talk with your fiance. Tell him everything you know and how you feel. True love is worth fighting for.

you are in our prayers!

As my mom says, some people think that they carry the next king in their belly... All you got with this is one more person thinking that you are ridiculous. But I hope neither you or your significant other goes through anything bad and need help from people, and if it comes to a point that the help needs to come from a forum, that no one posts ignorant stuff like you did just now for this girl... and if it was your wife needing help in any other situation and an idiot post something like this? Would you like it??

Grow up boy

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

I have grown tired of this topic as well

This might have been funny ... oh the first time you posted this - but now it's just obnoxious. Especially in a thread where someone is obviously hurting and seeking help.

Yeah, it does not look even funny at all IMO.

Tallcoolone don't you have any picture other than this one?, i assume everybody are grown tired seeing the same picture all over again.

Correct Go sistah! Bwaaaaaah

i think tallcoolone just want some attention...hehehehehhe in some way or another you will be hurt too then you will hear the same thing that you said from other people.

to r_29 try to talk to your fiance before doing anything and if you really want to end your relationship then just go back home so you wont have any problems in the future.

God bless you tallcoolone and r_29

Tallcoolone, its SO UNCOOL for you to say such thing when someone has a big problem which will affect their life anf their future. If you dont have anything good to say or advice to this Filipina, then shut up or not leave any commment. You are just adding pain to an already broken heart. Try to be in her shoes. You might think you are just so above other people.

to R-29. HAve a heart to heart talk with your fiance. Tell him everything you know and how you feel. True love is worth fighting for.

you are in our prayers!

As my mom says, some people think that they carry the next king in their belly... All you got with this is one more person thinking that you are ridiculous. But I hope neither you or your significant other goes through anything bad and need help from people, and if it comes to a point that the help needs to come from a forum, that no one posts ignorant stuff like you did just now for this girl... and if it was your wife needing help in any other situation and an idiot post something like this? Would you like it??

Grow up boy

BOY?!! hmmmm.....He's an Old Grown up Man! This picture is really so annoying....I'm sorry to be so mean..but it is!

If that is Vin Diesel who's sleeping....I might just stare at it the whole time...

Edited March 29, 2009 by Mariel_Esteban

[Jov_mar 0]

Hi girl!!!!

I'm sad to hear your story..Girl,in every stage of relationship there's a trials or circumstances came in that God gave to us,test us if how strong we are in person..if we have strong faith in Him.Always bear in mind that God gave us this trials coz He know that we can solve it..God only want you to speak to Him maybe He needs you,maybe He thinks that you forget Him that's why He needs your attention.have faith in Him girl..Ask for His guidance..And I know or we know that He give the best thing in you...

And you have to do is talk to your fiance ...why is this so happened?ask him when and how it started?...ask him that are you not enough for him for doing that?...And try to remind him how you started, the beautiful things happened on you..your memories together..maybe in that he will be enlightened..Never give up girl...Prove to him how much you really love him...Don't decide things quickly,it is a process...Always bear in mind that no regrets will came on the first step,they are always came at the end...And listen on what your mind says not with your heart..coz God put our mind in the top for us to think first and it is the mainframe of our body and brain will tell your heart on what u feel...I know that this is not easy for you....coz heart always win...

I hope that my opinion will help you...I am not talking here like an expert but this is just my simple advice....Hope it can help....

That's all.....

I will pray for you.....

Good luck and God Bless