Tired of this Journey and wondering is it all worth it.

[my choice 0]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

another middle eastern man with contempt for women moves to America.

this wolf should hunt carefully. some big dogs around here won't tolerate his smell.

I would take my middle eastern husband any day over a man that treats me like a piece of meat.

You and your self-esteem. By now you should know you are a woman; and like such, you have a low place in society

u

I'm not getting your comment.

[Peikko 1,575]

Your OP was very desperate. I have never felt that desperate about my marriage and I have never, ever felt the need to post asking for advice about it on a message board. My first course of action is always to talk to my husband, so far that has been the end of the matter, problems solved on every occasion.

There are sensible places to go for advice. My advice was not based on any preconceived idea of whether your marriage would or would not work, but your subsequent 'resolution' does not show you to have learned anything, hence my post.

You should of course do whatever it is that makes you a happy and whole person. I wish you luck, genuinely.

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

I will work on my marriage, just like everybody else has to work on theirs. There is alot of good in my husband, and yes there are somethings that I won't be doing any longer.

[Peikko 1,575]

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

Sure is.. my father died very suddenly 14 yrs ago. Her prison sentence ended that day. She is now happily married to a man who treats her like a queen and all those years of abuse have been redeemed for her. She's an amazing lady.

That's so nice to hear, that she is now happy and in a great relationship. Wonderful.

[morocco4ever 63]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

another middle eastern man with contempt for women moves to America.

this wolf should hunt carefully. some big dogs around here won't tolerate his smell.

I would take my middle eastern husband any day over a man that treats me like a piece of meat.

You and your self-esteem. By now you should know you are a woman; and like such, you have a low place in society

u

Yes, I am lowly...I must walk 10 paces behind my husband. I think it must be because I am a fat lady that needed to buy a husband.

[Emancipation 2]

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

Sure is.. my father died very suddenly 14 yrs ago. Her prison sentence ended that day. She is now happily married to a man who treats her like a queen and all those years of abuse have been redeemed for her. She's an amazing lady.

That's so nice to hear, that she is now happy and in a great relationship. Wonderful.

Yep.. it's true.. I followed her right into my own little prison the 1st time around (this is my second marriage), but I quickly realized what I had got myself in.. so I broke the cycle.. thankful for her support and patience with me during that time. She's a good Mum.

[morocco4ever 63]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

another middle eastern man with contempt for women moves to America.

this wolf should hunt carefully. some big dogs around here won't tolerate his smell.

I would take my middle eastern husband any day over a man that treats me like a piece of meat.

You and your self-esteem. By now you should know you are a woman; and like such, you have a low place in society

u

I'm not getting your comment.

She is being sarcastic. If you knew anything about her writing style you would understand... I luvz my bff Len!

[Nessa 23]

if you're wondering you probably chose the wrong person.

[my choice 0]

Your OP was very desperate. I have never felt that desperate about my marriage and I have never, ever felt the need to post asking for advice about it on a message board. My first course of action is always to talk to my husband, so far that has been the end of the matter, problems solved on every occasion.

There are sensible places to go for advice. My advice was not based on any preconceived idea of whether your marriage would or would not work, but your subsequent 'resolution' does not show you to have learned anything, hence my post.

You should of course do whatever it is that makes you a happy and whole person. I wish you luck, genuinely.

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

I will work on my marriage, just like everybody else has to work on theirs. There is alot of good in my husband, and yes there are somethings that I won't be doing any longer.

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

Sure is.. my father died very suddenly 14 yrs ago. Her prison sentence ended that day. She is now happily married to a man who treats her like a queen and all those years of abuse have been redeemed for her. She's an amazing lady.

That's so nice to hear, that she is now happy and in a great relationship. Wonderful.

Ms Voodoo queen would you like if I contacted your 800 number and paid you for advice?

[Peikko 1,575]

Your OP was very desperate. I have never felt that desperate about my marriage and I have never, ever felt the need to post asking for advice about it on a message board. My first course of action is always to talk to my husband, so far that has been the end of the matter, problems solved on every occasion.

There are sensible places to go for advice. My advice was not based on any preconceived idea of whether your marriage would or would not work, but your subsequent 'resolution' does not show you to have learned anything, hence my post.

You should of course do whatever it is that makes you a happy and whole person. I wish you luck, genuinely.

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

I will work on my marriage, just like everybody else has to work on theirs. There is alot of good in my husband, and yes there are somethings that I won't be doing any longer.

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Psychic? There are people who specialize in relationship advice, and they are neither psychiatrists nor psychics. And no, I have never been so angry with my spouse that I have wondered what in the world I needed to do. Where you felt that my relationship was perfect I have no clue, I merely said that when we have problems, our first and so far last course of action has been to discuss with each other what the problems are and resolve them together. That's perfectly normal, so far as I am aware.

Seriously, the fact that you are so angry indicates that something is still not right. However, once again, you have a right to lead your life exactly as you choose to. I would be the last person to demand that you do anything I suggest.

[Minya's wife 25]

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Who hasn't had a fight and been angry with their SO/spouse, that's not the issue...I think the advice is not to air dirty laundry on a public forum in a knee jerk reaction to any argument or fight.

[Peikko 1,575]

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Who hasn't had a fight and been angry with their SO/spouse, that's not the issue...I think the advice is not to air dirty laundry on a public forum in a knee jerk reaction to any argument or fight.

Well, that too. I guess I am wondering how this is a 'have you never been cross moment' when clearly whatever was going on led to an action that goes way beyond anyone's normal reaction to a spousal disagreement, even to the length of asking advice from strangers on a message board.

[Moroccoluv 0]

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Who hasn't had a fight and been angry with their SO/spouse, that's not the issue...I think the advice is not to air dirty laundry on a public forum in a knee jerk reaction to any argument or fight.

I thought that this site was a place to write how you are feeling at the time? I just think that nobody should tell anybody when they should leave another person.

[Peikko 1,575]

You can't really prevent anyone posting exactly how they feel is right, hence why I would never ask for advice like that in this way.

[almaty 19]

exactly sister purple..ask for advice here and you will get all sorts...

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Who hasn't had a fight and been angry with their SO/spouse, that's not the issue...I think the advice is not to air dirty laundry on a public forum in a knee jerk reaction to any argument or fight.

I thought that this site was a place to write how you are feeling at the time? I just think that nobody should tell anybody when they should leave another person.

This site is for immigration advise; not marriage counseling. If people post personal stuff on the boards, they are putting themselves in a platter for whatever people throw at them. Don't want people's opinions on your personal business? Do not post in on the internet.