Tired of this Journey and wondering is it all worth it.

[sj5 4]

[my choice 0]

I wonder what you will do to get through this hard journey... I agree with Madame Cleo, better to BE alone than to live alone while with someone. I wonder when you will take as good care of yourself as you seem to take care of others.

Sending peace and love your way.....

Thanks for the comment. I do love myself a great deal. I have always been a giver, and I truly don't mind giving to those that are in need. But when I see it turning to greed, that is when I put all the breaks on.

Broken Hearted.

[tallcoolone 102]

Sure is a lot of money you have sent to the family.

Do not try to buy love

[NickD 203]

Imagination can be a dangerous thing, especially when you create a person, a real person in your mind that doesn't even exist. Fell into that trap with my first marriage, that is why it was my first marriage.

Marriage can either be a religious or a civil contract, but usually, always a civil contract, what is interesting is that the USA doesn't recognize some marriages of a certain country, something to look into.

[Moroccoluv 0]

I am so tired words and describe it. Let me just say that my husband and I filed a k1 and it was returned to the USCIS, for what reason i don't know. We had tons of evidence and i had taking numerous trips there to Morocco. Well after that happen I went to Morocco and got married, and since refiled a CR1 petition. In the mean while I find myself getting frustrated more and more each day. And I am wondering did I choose the right person. He likes to go to the cafe and and watch television, he works on and off and I'm tired pure tired of it. I am to the point I really don't want to take another trip over there and I feel like just waiting this one out and what happens happens. Each time that I go I bring 3 bags full of items for his family. Let me tell you he has a large family. I've spent over $20,000 between the 5 flights and Items that i purchased to bring with me.

My husband has a temper that i descovered after the marriage, and his home was not in the best condition the last time i went. I feel like the family is used to me, so the real thing came out and let me tell you i did not like what i saw. The blanket that i was sleeping on stunk like mildew. There was mildew all in his room, and he had the I don't give a damn attitude. His aunt that is usually so nice acted like a pure ######. Can you believe that I pay for this aunts youngest daughter to attend a private school? His adult female cousins made me feel real uncomfortable as well. I don't speak Arabic but i can read body language. When i told him about what i was feeling he tried to make it like i was reading to much into things but i do not believe i am. Oh here is the good part. There is another woman living in the home that i don't know who she is and all i know is that she is not a family member.

I am drifting away from my husband and the sad part is that I just got married. Truth be told i don't even feel like I am married. We went to the Adul and that was it. It was an unplan trip. But he wants me to come back in the summer to have the celebration. He had the nerves to tell me that the wedding would cost $30,000 dirhams to have a wedding on a farm. That is when red flags came to me. I asked myself is this man trying to con me out of money? When i let him know I am no damn fool then all of a sudden the price went down to $8000 dirhams, and we will split the cost. I don't know how much longer i will stay on this site because i am not sure i will be keeping this relationship. I know i got married there in Morocco but I really don't feel married at all. He enjoys going to the cafe everyday, and works on and off. I work 2 jobs and then I come straight home, and there at the computer waiting for him. Well yesterday was it for me. After having a hard day at work and going to the grocery store and rushing home he had an attitude about why i was not on the computer. I was enraged, and i would not speak to him on the computer or the phone. Infact I have no desire to speak with him today. I am really thinking about withdrawling my I130 and he can figure out how to get the marriage annulled because frankly I am done.

Ok I can tell that you wrote this post when you was angry and more then likely tired. Looking at the time that you wrote it. Now are you angry with your now Husband when you wrote this peace? Did the two of you have a disagreement? Becaise an enteligent woman like yourself that can afford to fly over to Morocco 5'x's and not have to bum off of these men family tells me that you are very independent. Now if we are going to be honest about all of this. The men and woman want to leave what ever 3rd world country they come to because they seek a better life if they want to tell the truth or not I will.

So to hear some woman say don't send them money is a bunch of bull ######. Half of the woman on here trying to marry american men or more then like mail order brides that were born in a shack, orphanage, ####### house and their mothers are the Maddams selling their daughters out for a box of cegirette. We see the movies, (I love you long time for $5 dollars) So no one should be here judging this man. My home town in Morocco it was raining really bad ans so some of that hard rain affects the home. Yes and a odor came in but it was not like he left you there by myself did he? I am sure the answer is no so my dear I suggest you tell the story like it is whey you are telling it. I hate the fact that Moroccan men will look bad buy what you wrote. I am not saying there is no truth in the other part that you wrote. I am from the ghetto so I would have to kick somebody Arabian's #### if she was in my mans house and then ask questions later. People don't try to act dignified in here becasue half of you are here commenting fraud and figuring out how to comment fruad. Since the navy ships left I guess they use the internette to catch a sailor.

Keep paying for the little girls school. Her mother may be a skank but the little girl can't help it at all. The older cousins this is how you pay them back. The one that acted nasty give the others one something more speacial then what you give them better yet give her a stick of gum tell her put it in her mouth and keep her chops shut. Well his Aunt, trust me when i tell you I would never eat anything else from her as long as you both should live., and it won't be long eating from a she devil.

Tell the truth if you been there 5'xs you know that he has done some good in order for you to keep gong back. So next time tell the truth and nothing but the truth so help you Visa Journey LOL. I bet the two of you were making up and confessing all of the love you have for each other.

PS. Look at your other post. Don't you find it strange all these people responded to the negative one real quick and you hardly got any answer from the other ones at all. makes you think. Some people want to feel like My relationship is better then yours child like mentality. I would not post nothing up like this because I think you were angry and the truth be told you are maddly in love with each other. The man wants his woman in front of the computer. Girl have the man here don't knwo where their woman are at because they are in some club, and the woman can't find their man. He makes up lies like I am helphing my family or hanging out with friends or i had my cell phone turned off baby. Just the simple classic line. Worse one is that if you open my heart all you would see is you. This part is for all you judgers without digging and trying to find out the entire story. Go a little gental next time and aske two sided questions. People are in a state of mind that needs us to help them think logically. So Ms Married lady don't drop your petition keep pushing forward. Think of all the positive theings that happen in your relationship .

[my choice 0]

I am so tired words and describe it. Let me just say that my husband and I filed a k1 and it was returned to the USCIS, for what reason i don't know. We had tons of evidence and i had taking numerous trips there to Morocco. Well after that happen I went to Morocco and got married, and since refiled a CR1 petition. In the mean while I find myself getting frustrated more and more each day. And I am wondering did I choose the right person. He likes to go to the cafe and and watch television, he works on and off and I'm tired pure tired of it. I am to the point I really don't want to take another trip over there and I feel like just waiting this one out and what happens happens. Each time that I go I bring 3 bags full of items for his family. Let me tell you he has a large family. I've spent over $20,000 between the 5 flights and Items that i purchased to bring with me.

My husband has a temper that i descovered after the marriage, and his home was not in the best condition the last time i went. I feel like the family is used to me, so the real thing came out and let me tell you i did not like what i saw. The blanket that i was sleeping on stunk like mildew. There was mildew all in his room, and he had the I don't give a damn attitude. His aunt that is usually so nice acted like a pure ######. Can you believe that I pay for this aunts youngest daughter to attend a private school? His adult female cousins made me feel real uncomfortable as well. I don't speak Arabic but i can read body language. When i told him about what i was feeling he tried to make it like i was reading to much into things but i do not believe i am. Oh here is the good part. There is another woman living in the home that i don't know who she is and all i know is that she is not a family member.

I am drifting away from my husband and the sad part is that I just got married. Truth be told i don't even feel like I am married. We went to the Adul and that was it. It was an unplan trip. But he wants me to come back in the summer to have the celebration. He had the nerves to tell me that the wedding would cost $30,000 dirhams to have a wedding on a farm. That is when red flags came to me. I asked myself is this man trying to con me out of money? When i let him know I am no damn fool then all of a sudden the price went down to $8000 dirhams, and we will split the cost. I don't know how much longer i will stay on this site because i am not sure i will be keeping this relationship. I know i got married there in Morocco but I really don't feel married at all. He enjoys going to the cafe everyday, and works on and off. I work 2 jobs and then I come straight home, and there at the computer waiting for him. Well yesterday was it for me. After having a hard day at work and going to the grocery store and rushing home he had an attitude about why i was not on the computer. I was enraged, and i would not speak to him on the computer or the phone. Infact I have no desire to speak with him today. I am really thinking about withdrawling my I130 and he can figure out how to get the marriage annulled because frankly I am done.

Ok I can tell that you wrote this post when you was angry and more then likely tired. Looking at the time that you wrote it. Now are you angry with your now Husband when you wrote this peace? Did the two of you have a disagreement? Becaise an enteligent woman like yourself that can afford to fly over to Morocco 5'x's and not have to bum off of these men family tells me that you are very independent. Now if we are going to be honest about all of this. The men and woman want to leave what ever 3rd world country they come to because they seek a better life if they want to tell the truth or not I will.

So to hear some woman say don't send them money is a bunch of bull ######. Half of the woman on here trying to marry american men or more then like mail order brides that were born in a shack, orphanage, ####### house and their mothers are the Maddams selling their daughters out for a box of cegirette. We see the movies, (I love you long time for $5 dollars) So no one should be here judging this man. My home town in Morocco it was raining really bad ans so some of that hard rain affects the home. Yes and a odor came in but it was not like he left you there by myself did he? I am sure the answer is no so my dear I suggest you tell the story like it is whey you are telling it. I hate the fact that Moroccan men will look bad buy what you wrote. I am not saying there is no truth in the other part that you wrote. I am from the ghetto so I would have to kick somebody Arabian's #### if she was in my mans house and then ask questions later. People don't try to act dignified in here becasue half of you are here commenting fraud and figuring out how to comment fruad. Since the navy ships left I guess they use the internette to catch a sailor.

Keep paying for the little girls school. Her mother may be a skank but the little girl can't help it at all. The older cousins this is how you pay them back. The one that acted nasty give the others one something more speacial then what you give them better yet give her a stick of gum tell her put it in her mouth and keep her chops shut. Well his Aunt, trust me when i tell you I would never eat anything else from her as long as you both should live., and it won't be long eating from a she devil.

Tell the truth if you been there 5'xs you know that he has done some good in order for you to keep gong back. So next time tell the truth and nothing but the truth so help you Visa Journey LOL. I bet the two of you were making up and confessing all of the love you have for each other.

PS. Look at your other post. Don't you find it strange all these people responded to the negative one real quick and you hardly got any answer from the other ones at all. makes you think. Some people want to feel like My relationship is better then yours child like mentality. I would not post nothing up like this because I think you were angry and the truth be told you are maddly in love with each other. The man wants his woman in front of the computer. Girl have the man here don't knwo where their woman are at because they are in some club, and the woman can't find their man. He makes up lies like I am helphing my family or hanging out with friends or i had my cell phone turned off baby. Just the simple classic line. Worse one is that if you open my heart all you would see is you. This part is for all you judgers without digging and trying to find out the entire story. Go a little gental next time and aske two sided questions. People are in a state of mind that needs us to help them think logically. So Ms Married lady don't drop your petition keep pushing forward. Think of all the positive theings that happen in your relationship .

Thank you Moroccoluv, you mad alot of since. Yes there is a great deal of good in my husband. I did have a horrible time when I went there this last time. It was an uplan trip. When our petition got sent back to the USCIS i went to Morocco 2wks later and married him. The gifts that I brought was from my heart, but I have put the breaks on the gift giving. He never asked me to bring anything at all. Neither did his family. I did experience rudeness from his Aunt though. After my husband read the post I did he finally got how I was feeling so I am happy to say he understands. Yes he spent money on me. He took me on a fabulous vacation and spent plenty of his own money the 4th time I was in Morocco. Not to mention that he did purchase me Channell earrings, and a Channell Charm. After reading your response Morooccoluv I will be very careful of what it is that I post if i post anything anymore. I doubt it very likely. I am fortunate to atleast have a professional career that me sending money did not break my account at all. I am only doing what I would expect for my husband to do for me if I was in his situation.

[Peikko 1,575]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

[Peikko 1,575]

Taking an individual incident and drawing conclusions as to the behaviour of everyone within particular communities is necessarily facile. ###### happens for all kinds of reasons.

[Emancipation 2]

I will add one last thing, living alone is not the worst thing in the world. Living with someone and feeling alone, or worse used is a lot, lot worse.

My mother always told me "there are worse things than being lonely"... she lived for 25 years in a loveless & abusive marriage. The woman knows her stuff.

[my choice 0]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

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I will work on my marriage, just like everybody else has to work on theirs. There is alot of good in my husband, and yes there are somethings that I won't be doing any longer.

[Peikko 1,575]

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

another middle eastern man with contempt for women moves to America.

this wolf should hunt carefully. some big dogs around here won't tolerate his smell.

I would take my middle eastern husband any day over a man that treats me like a piece of meat.

You and your self-esteem. By now you should know you are a woman; and like such, you have a low place in society

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[my choice 0]

I am guessing you didn't take my advice

Good luck with your marriage.

another middle eastern man with contempt for women moves to America.

this wolf should hunt carefully. some big dogs around here won't tolerate his smell.

No offence but I would hate to tell you what they have to say about orientals. So I would back off the nasty comments about my husband's culture. I don't hunt, I wouldn't consider myself a wolf but if that is what you call yourself then that says alot about your upbringing.

[Emancipation 2]

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

Sure is.. my father died very suddenly 14 yrs ago. Her prison sentence ended that day. She is now happily married to a man who treats her like a queen and all those years of abuse have been redeemed for her. She's an amazing lady.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Your poor mom, is she ok now?

Sure is.. my father died very suddenly 14 yrs ago. Her prison sentence ended that day. She is now happily married to a man who treats her like a queen and all those years of abuse have been redeemed for her. She's an amazing lady.

Oh sister, all my luvz to your mom