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Wow, me too! How freaky! I wonder if there's anyone else... :lol:

:lol: Must be catching, me too :lol:

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CHERISH YESTERDAY, LIVE TODAY AND DREAM TOMORROW

Life is like a song... Sing it.

Life is like a challenge... Pursue it.

Life is like a sacrifice... Offer it.

Life is love... Enjoy it.

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Wow, me too! How freaky! I wonder if there's anyone else... :lol:

oh ma gawd!!!!!!!! maybe you should start a poll!!! :lol::lol:

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Faith: not wanting to know what is true.~Nietzsche~

“The truth is incontrovertible, malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end; there it is.”

~Winston Churchill~

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My life has definitely got better as I have got older... I don't look 50 (or so am told) but hey I don't care if I do!!! My nephew sai to me yesterday when I asked him to guess how old I am... Bua you are 1 million years old :lol::lol::lol: he then proceeded to ask me if I had any grey hair and I said lots but I colour it :devil:

Paul and I met on the Bazaar on the 14th January (he joined my progressive rock forum that day)

July 3rd he flew to England to meet me

We fell in love while he drove all over the place coz I cannot read maps (we were supposed to go to Ingleton - but touched Darlington 4 times, Pierce Bridge 6 times, Scotch Corner twice and Bernard Castle twice and we never did make it to Ingleton)

It has been so long and so much has happened in between...

Arrived in Houston on October 29th 2006

Married 17th November 2006

Lost my father 8th January 2007 (all dates are a blur after this)

Conditional Green Card dated 24th October 2007

I-751 posted on 6th August 2009

Received on 7th August 2009 in VT

Melo's Prog Bazaar

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I wouldn't want to go back to being in my teens/early twenties for anything. I am sooo much happier now in my 40's than I ever was then. There is a level of self-acceptance, gratitude and inner peace I believe comes with aging thats very freeing. My experience(and most of my friends) has been that life definitely gets better with age.

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Kim(Canada)Lee(WA)

Met online June 14/02

Spent an incredible week together in BC Aug 23/02

I went to NY to see my sweetie and meet his family Oct/02

Spent our first Xmas together Dec 24/02

He proposed!!! Dec 26/02

He visits for a week after 5 long months apart May/03

Lee moves from NJ to WA state to be closer to me Oct 29/03

We got married!!! Feb 28/04

Our son Ethan was born!!! Aug 17/04

Got our visas Aug 1/06 !!!

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I think life does get better as you get older....you're more comfy in your own skin, you've figured out whats really important and what is not...you know what you want , and especially what you need. It's all good :D I spent time when I was younger wondering what people thought....the answere in most cases is...they thought nothing, they were too busy getting on with their own stuff !! I only concern myself with the opinions of people I care about, and they think I'm pretty fab !! :lol: Someone once said " youth is wasted on the young ".....maybe they are right ;)

Kim

21/12/2005 arrive in time for Christmas with my baby !!

18/02/2006 We are married in Coeur D'Alene !!

16/05/2006 AOS and EAD sent off to the windy city. ( day 1)

27/05/2006 NOA's received...woo hoo !! ( day 12 )

09/06/2006 Appointment letter for biometrics arrives ( day 25 )

30/06/2006 Biometrics 11am at Spokane ( day 46 )

22/07/2006 Appointment letter for AOS interview arrives (day 68 )

04/08/2006 Without any warning.....EAD card arrives in the post !! ( day 81 )

24/08/2006 AOS interview at 7.30 am ( day 101 )

24/08/2006 APPROVED !!!

28/08/2006 Welcome to America letter arrives...gee thanks guys !! ( day 105 )

02/09/2006 Green card arrives ...woo hoo !! ( day 110 ) We can relax until 2008 :)

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I'm turning 40 too next tuesday, basically I don't think I am any happier than when I was younger. I think actually when I was younger life had more excitement cause I used to do a lot of crazy things. We still do alot of crazy things, but I basically don't get so excited over doing them.

I notice I like to tie on a good buzz now and then with a couple of friends, and can do so without getting much of a hangover like I used to get in my younger days.

Basically with problems and peole I have mostly been through it all already once or twice so I know what my chances are of getting through it again.

I know how to weigh my choices, and fight to get what I want better than I did in my younger days.

I know how to stick up for myself a little better too, although I still try to avoid conflict at all costs.

The weirdest thing is working with 19 year olds who think I am OLD ( actually I could be their mother)>>>but I don't give a Sh8t. I just tell them wait till you get to be 40. I do all the work around the place anyway, they come dragging in each morning acting like they are 90. Although dumb kids stay up all night and don't get any sleep. I don't sacrifice sleep anymore.

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7-3-06 GREEN CARD ARRIVES IN MAIL!!!! Done for two years!!!!!!

I am here to help, even if it's just to offer my shoulder to cry or vent on... We are all in this together.!

My answers are based on personal experience, not fact.

We are on this rollercoaster ride together holding on for dear life.

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Short answer... YES. With age comes wisdom, and hopefuly more patience! With more patience and wisdom, everything seems better, therfore making you happier! :D

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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I appreciate this post. I'm 22 and have been feeling sorta like I haven't done enough in life. I'm fairly sure it's just the media. But I look forward to all the wisdom and self discovery that only time can bring.

Barbara (Canada) & Dallas (USC)

AOS

Nov 13 2005 EAD & I-485 sent to Chicago Lockbox

Nov 22, 2005 EAD & I-485 NOA1

Dec 15, 2005 Biometrics for EAD & I-485

Dec 19, 2005 EAD & I-485 Touched

Jan 21, 2006 Rec'd I-485 Fingerprint Reschedule Notice (AHHH!!!)

Feb 10, 2006 Fingerprint App't

Feb 1, 2006 EAD Approved!!!!

Feb 11, 2006 Rec'd EAD card

Feb 13, 2006 Applied for SSN

Feb 17, 2006 Rec'd SSN

Feb 23, 2006 I-485 Transferred to CSC (AHHH!!)

Mar 02, 2006 I-485 Has been received at CSC

Mar 13, 2006 I-485 Touched

Mar 14, 2006 I-485 Touched

Apr 15 & 25 2006 emailed CSC for status inquiry on I-485

Apr 26 2006 received a response from CSC, another response in 60 days (ahhhhh!!!)

Apr 27, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 17, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 19, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 20, 2006 I-485 Touched

July 3, 2006 emailed CSC again, no response given in the allotted 60 days time frame.

July 27, 2006 received a response from CSC, another response will be given in 30 days.. ha ha ha.

***app sent back to Missouri ***app sent to Chicago

Aug 21 2006 touched

Sept 29 2006 3rd year Anniversay

October 13, 2006 Immigration Interview - Need to return with Long Form Birth Certificate

October 13, 2006 Long Form Birth Cert ordered with expediated shipping

October 18, 2006 Birth Cert Received

October 19, 2006 2nd Immigration Interview - APPROVED

5-20 business days for the Green Card to arrive, maybe I'll be back to see my family before Christmas?

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Definately not going to be down hill. At 46 Im still climbing. I am going to be looked on as an eccentric wench as the years add up. I have been told I am very much like a great aunt that we lost about 10 years ago now. She was an incredible lady, very much the individual despite some weird looks from some lol she was full of life and passion right into her 90's and I am honored to be following in her footsteps.

:) Lorelle I remember someone on this board called you ``kiddo`` once :lol:;) and I was not aware if it was someone form the ``clique`` :whistle: (someone who knew your age I mean) but either way that was sweet :thumbs:

I am 37 now and think (I do that occasionally :lol: ) ``happiness`` or the lack of it has little to do with the biological age IMO.

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