Filipino fiancee never arrived and is missing

[DREXEL1 0]

To Steve Thank you for your honest approach after the bit of realizing I was a real person. I will respond to you again at least to say thank you. I though this place was for people looking for help, support, or just information. So what if never joined I always found the information I was looking for by researching here along with the government offices. I just wanted to post here looking for like minded people or people that might have heard of something like this before. Not for be bash and having to defend myself, my choice, her, or every detail of our relationship.

So many of the comments have been just wrong, and I mean really wrong. I though people on here might understand or respect my choices for choosing someone for another country. Isn't that why everyone is on this site for one reason or the other? It seems like there are people no matter where you go on forums just to BASH and trash someone else, and try to impress their option of what they consider right or wrong.

My heart is crushed and will be for sometime, but I think after today this posting has hurt more, and just opened everything even more and made it more painful. For those that were honest and kind THANK YOU for your support and for the support of her in case something has gone seriously wrong. I do not think there is much more I can say. How do you post a year and half worth of a relationship with someone so that everyone has every little detail? That is a book or journey not something I could put out in a few posts. Sorry I could not reply in seconds or minutes, as I tried to continue with my life, keep my head up and my job not to mention my sanity.

For those that have bashed me and trashed what I had to say and feel. What is really worse????

IF WHAT I AM SAYING IS A LIE AND NEVER HAPPENED?

OR YOU IF IT IS TRUE

FOR BASHING SOMEONE IN PAIN THAT JUST LOST HIS FUTURE, DREAMS AND SOMEONE THAT MIGHT REALLY BE MISSING?

Nice karma and if you are unhappy with your choice of whom you have married or are trying to, or even was, I am sorry. I though I was on the right path for me, her, and a happy future. That’s all you can ask in this world and something most people dream about I guess. I was hoping I would be one of the few that reached that goal.

[Que _serasera 0]

Hello, i'm very sorry that happened to you. I have read a story too where the guy waited at the airport and the girl didn't show up. Different thing was they haven't met each other in person yet and also it was tourist visa. You might want to take a look at it. Here are the links:

http://www.theworldoffilipinas.com/forum/i...ORRIED%20FRIEND

the second link gives more details of the story.

<a href="http://www.dragonladies.org/viewtopic.php?f=25&t=409" target="_blank">http://www.dragonladies.org/viewtopic.php?f=25&t=409</a>

Edited March 19, 2009 by brewster

[LoriLawless 0]

I do hope you will come back and let us know once you find something out.

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this

[almaty 19]

poster,

if true, don't worry about what others write..take the information that is relevant and move on...if not, then youa re a 1st class chopf##k..and instant karma will get you in the end..john lennon

[Donna A 4]

op...u must understand we get alot of trolls here who sign up and start writing ####### but they are phoney. this is way people start doubting cuz of past experiences.

[tallcoolone 102]

I wouldn't spend too much more time worrying. Sounds like you were scammed.

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

Stay out of the big cities like Manila and Cebu.

Lots of pretty girls in Mindanao Region

[Ladylethal 12]

I wouldn't spend too much more time worrying. Sounds like you were scammed.

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

Stay out of the big cities like Manila and Cebu.

Lots of pretty girls in Mindanao Region

[almaty 19]

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

[Ladylethal 12]

I am hoping he's being sarcastic, ' cus otherwise I repeat

Edited March 19, 2009 by Luis&Laura

[Kajikit 65]

To the OP, I'm terribly sorry that this happened to you, but it sounds like it was the plan all along for her to take you for a ride... it's a big red flag that you only had an address for her parents (it could have been anyone!) and not a phone number or any way to contact them directly. My gut tells me that she didn't intend to phone you at all, but she does care for you on some level and she felt upset about scamming you, so she called but couldn't bring herself to say goodbye. I doubt you'll ever hear from her again... and I hope you can pick up the pieces of your life and move on.

[tallcoolone 102]

I am hoping he's being sarcastic, ' cus otherwise I repeat

Not sarcastic, just trying to be helpful and truthful.

[almaty 19]

[Ladylethal 12]

I am hoping he's being sarcastic, ' cus otherwise I repeat

Not sarcastic, just trying to be helpful and truthful.

That is ... ok nevermind.

[John&Juvy 36]

This is for the OP . Everything happened for a reason, maybe she's not really the one for u and U deserve much better than her.

[pieceOFcrap 0]

I wouldn't spend too much more time worrying. Sounds like you were scammed.

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

Stay out of the big cities like Manila and Cebu.

Lots of pretty girls in Mindanao Region

The OP's girl is from ZAMBOANGA...she was just working in cebu...did u read???