Filipino fiancee never arrived and is missing

[almaty 19]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Nessa 23]

why on earth would u be worried about if u can apply for a k1 visa again in the future? i still fail to understand why people would go look for a foreign spouse on purpose. i would never do that. it's extremely difficult to engage in a relationship with someone from another country, it happened to me, i don't regret a second, but i'd never on purpose do that.

go to a bar, start dating, forget about her, move on.

[almaty 19]

right on sister nessa

[spookyturtle 9,466]

Troll. Stop feeding it.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

why on earth would u be worried about if u can apply for a k1 visa again in the future? i still fail to understand why people would go look for a foreign spouse on purpose. i would never do that. it's extremely difficult to engage in a relationship with someone from another country, it happened to me, i don't regret a second, but i'd never on purpose do that.

go to a bar, start dating, forget about her, move on.

He's tasted Pinay! He can't help himself! He's hooked!

[DREXEL1 0]

why on earth would u be worried about if u can apply for a k1 visa again in the future? i still fail to understand why people would go look for a foreign spouse on purpose. i would never do that. it's extremely difficult to engage in a relationship with someone from another country, it happened to me, i don't regret a second, but i'd never on purpose do that.

go to a bar, start dating, forget about her, move on.

Bars are great places to meet people well I really do not agree with that. Some of it for me was family values, standards, true commiment, and not having the american values of we have to have a bigger house, better car, we never go out enough, Theres a lot more to it than that as most people will agree everyone has there own reasons for doing what they do, I though I was taking a chance with someone that held a different set of beliefs about life and love.

[LonnieNCarmie 0]

Sorry this happend to you. A few things going forward one should do if they meet a fiancee in the Phils. 1st thing meet all family members mom, dad uncles, aunts know were they live, and general info names addresses phone numbers etc maybe have a family outing. This gives you the opportunity to meet family members to understand what kind of family you are marrying into see childhood pictures and just get a feel for your future family. Secondly Fly back with your fiancee if at all possible, or meet at the port of entry get there early, and know where the exit point is for customs. When done properly finding your soulmate from the Phils can be very joyous. Good Luck to all.

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

Troll. Stop feeding it.

Wonder if security tapes were ever pulled at the airport ? Maybe she is on them leaving thru fromt door with a person

Edited March 18, 2009 by Paris Heart

[Amby 490]

Troll. Stop feeding it.

I know it's you!!!!!!!

Steven the OP is spooky's other username

[DREXEL1 0]

Sorry this happend to you. A few things going forward one should do if they meet a fiancee in the Phils. 1st thing meet all family members mom, dad uncles, aunts know were they live, and general info names addresses phone numbers etc maybe have a family outing. This gives you the opportunity to meet family members to understand what kind of family you are marrying into see childhood pictures and just get a feel for your future family. Secondly Fly back with your fiancee if at all possible, or meet at the port of entry get there early, and know where the exit point is for customs. When done properly finding your soulmate from the Phils can be very joyous. Good Luck to all.

I do agree but as far as knowing and getting there early that sounds more like I am not giving you a choice. To life is all about choice and I gave her that last one. Maybe as a test, maybe as a sign that you can make your own choices in life. I do not want to be with someone that doesn't truely want to be with me. It was my last gift of this is your life, your choice, you choose. Is that really that wrong of someone to give them that?

I do not have a big family and I can count them on one hand. Most I would not even take to MC'D for food. We both seemed to be loners, not a lot of friends or family, and had a lot of intrested in common, and it felt that it was right.

[DEDixon 39]

As I stated I have been to the site before to look around and read, but never thought I would need to post. Maybe I also did it to protect myself in case something like this did happen, I didn’t want to the crazy store at the end of the long process.

What a load of #######, it says you JOINED TODAY for God's sake!

If you have a phone number or anything to offer just ONE person on here via a private message give it up so someone can verify your story. Send it to me, I will gladly call you and the police station to verify the missing person's report.

ADMIN: Grab this person's IP address and compare it to other IDs.

Edited March 18, 2009 by DEDixon

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Troll. Stop feeding it.

Exactly. I already PM'd the person offering help since my wife's from Cebu but got no response. This troll is taking everyone for a ride.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

I am sorry for what you are going through and hope that you learn something more definite one way or another. I suspect the 'not knowing' what has happened to her is driving you crazy, and leaves you open to all sorts of speculation.

Is there a way the Philippine's Consulate can help you locate a phone number for her parents? You have their address, maybe they can get a number since one of their citizens is missing. Contacting her parents would give you an added piece of the puzzle. She may have had ulterior motives in coming here, or she may herself be some sort of a victim praying that someone will rescue her.

Good luck and I do hope you learn something more definitive soon.

[Empress of Groovy 373]

Sorry this happend to you. A few things going forward one should do if they meet a fiancee in the Phils. 1st thing meet all family members mom, dad uncles, aunts know were they live, and general info names addresses phone numbers etc maybe have a family outing. This gives you the opportunity to meet family members to understand what kind of family you are marrying into see childhood pictures and just get a feel for your future family. Secondly Fly back with your fiancee if at all possible, or meet at the port of entry get there early, and know where the exit point is for customs. When done properly finding your soulmate from the Phils can be very joyous. Good Luck to all.

I do agree but as far as knowing and getting there early that sounds more like I am not giving you a choice. To life is all about choice and I gave her that last one. Maybe as a test, maybe as a sign that you can make your own choices in life. I do not want to be with someone that doesn't truely want to be with me. It was my last gift of this is your life, your choice, you choose. Is that really that wrong of someone to give them that?

I do not have a big family and I can count them on one hand. Most I would not even take to MC'D for food. We both seemed to be loners, not a lot of friends or family, and had a lot of intrested in common, and it felt that it was right.

Uh...what happened to your concerns about her safety?

[Donna A 4]

Troll. Stop feeding it.

Exactly. I already PM'd the person offering help since my wife's from Cebu but got no response. This troll is taking everyone for a ride.

not me...i posted it in #22 i thought he was trolling.