Filipino fiancee never arrived and is missing

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I hope you get to the bottom of it.

BTW - how did you find out where the phone number she called you from originated?

My question too... how does one know it is an abandoned apartment? Missing person's report and the Wayne County Sherrif's office checked it out?

Maybe he traced the number and he found out its an abandone apartment. But how can she get inside the apartment considering she just arrived US for the first time?

a trace will give you a name... not that it was abandoned apartment... someone is paying the phone bill....

I think this story is full of holes.

[Minya's wife 25]

I hope you get to the bottom of it.

BTW - how did you find out where the phone number she called you from originated?

My question too... how does one know it is an abandoned apartment? Missing person's report and the Wayne County Sherrif's office checked it out?

Maybe he traced the number and he found out its an abandone apartment. But how can she get inside the apartment considering she just arrived US for the first time?

a trace will give you a name... not that it was abandoned apartment... someone is paying the phone bill....

I think this story is full of holes.

and the OP hasn't been back to fill them.

[Ban Hammer 13,570]

I hope you get to the bottom of it.

BTW - how did you find out where the phone number she called you from originated?

My question too... how does one know it is an abandoned apartment? Missing person's report and the Wayne County Sherrif's office checked it out?

Maybe he traced the number and he found out its an abandone apartment. But how can she get inside the apartment considering she just arrived US for the first time?

a trace will give you a name... not that it was abandoned apartment... someone is paying the phone bill....

I think this story is full of holes.

and the OP hasn't been back to fill them.

but it's a good place to park semi trucks

[John&Juvy 36]

I hope you get to the bottom of it.

BTW - how did you find out where the phone number she called you from originated?

My question too... how does one know it is an abandoned apartment? Missing person's report and the Wayne County Sherrif's office checked it out?

Maybe he traced the number and he found out its an abandone apartment. But how can she get inside the apartment considering she just arrived US for the first time?

a trace will give you a name... not that it was abandoned apartment... someone is paying the phone bill....

I think this story is full of holes.

and the OP hasn't been back to fill them.

Or maybe he is busy figuring out if what he really gonna do about what happened that's why. Maybe he realize his not gonna sit all day infront of his computer and wait for another bullshit replies from some people here now. LOL

[DREXEL1 0]

All,

I wanted to thank you for your comments so far. I would have replied sooner, but if you notice I posted really early and even people that are having problems sleeping do fall a sleep. The 1st post was very long and there is more to the story since I could not post it all so please read it a second time and it will answer some of the other questions that I have got. As I stated I have been to the site before to look around and read, but never thought I would need to post. Maybe I also did it to protect myself in case something like this did happen, I didn’t want to the crazy store at the end of the long process.

Yes, I meet her in the Philippines as far as I know you have to now for your paper to get approved. No, I am not trying to slander or make any one nationality look bad. I just needed to get my story out there and just see what people had to say.

As for her parents all I have is an address that I can remember, and I will write them to ask if she is ok. I have also e-mailed her in case she ever checks that again.

She lived in a different city than her parents since she said she wanted to try and make a living and did not appear to like Zamboanga city because of the status of the state of affairs there, so I never had need to call or have their number. I did talk to her mother once when she was on vacation there or at least someone that sounded like her mother, and she was very nice, and kind. She was suppose to be and only child and did not know anyone in the states. That is one of the hard parts of the story is that she never slipped up in conversation if she did know or had someone else here.

The number was tracked down by the police since I have filed a missing persons report. I have contacted the Police, the Embassy, USCIS, Homeland security, and US Homeland Security in the Philippines. I feel that I have done about everything that I can do except now I have to lock all my credit and life down since she has and had access to all my information from the process.

I would say the verdict is that I was scammed, but as I stated it must have been a very well though out plan, and maybe the phone call was just to say she was alive and let me know, but she never even said goodbye. I would think that she is too smart to want to work a low paying illegal job, I told her she could do whatever she wanted her including work so I do not think it was about the money. If it was about that she had a person that lived next door that worked in Japan at a Brothel 6 months out of the year, so she could have went there instead if that was a case. I guess this means it would have be family and friends or another man I guess I will always have to think that was the choice, and maybe never know. I wish I could do more, I wish I knew, but I really do not think I ever will.

As a side note my life and not always been easy, and I have stories that make people say “There’s no way! That’s not real or true!” I though that was behind me, but it was always there in the back of my mind, and was the reason I gave her that last choice. I really though that luck or that life was behind me, but maybe god has bigger, funnier plans for me that I would have ever though.

No one has answered my questions

1) What does this do for my chances in the future if I ever try something like this again?

2) Can you file a prenuptial agreement before you are married on a K visa?

Thank you I do have to work so if I do post one last time it will be very late, but I will check the posting one more time.

[almaty 19]

2) Can you file a prenuptial agreement before you are married on a K visa?

i assume you can..

[one...two...tree 2,762]

*cough* troll *cough*

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

1) What does this do for my chances in the future if I ever try something like this again?

You will have to disclose it on the forms, but I doubt it will do more to your future chances than raise an eyebrow.

[DREXEL1 0]

2) Can you file a prenuptial agreement before you are married on a K visa?

i assume you can..

I would think that shows that you are not serious since later you have to give proof of joint checking accounts etc... I was just wondering if any had done something like that. If I make the choice again I will do things differently, but that would have to be on the list I guess. I would love to get married and be happy with someone I love, but this experience seems to have shown me (I did already know) that people will do anything to get of some Counties.

[fozzie 41]

All,

I wanted to thank you for your comments so far. I would have replied sooner, but if you notice I posted really early and even people that are having problems sleeping do fall a sleep. The 1st post was very long and there is more to the story since I could not post it all so please read it a second time and it will answer some of the other questions that I have got. As I stated I have been to the site before to look around and read, but never thought I would need to post. Maybe I also did it to protect myself in case something like this did happen, I didn’t want to the crazy store at the end of the long process.

Yes, I meet her in the Philippines as far as I know you have to now for your paper to get approved. No, I am not trying to slander or make any one nationality look bad. I just needed to get my story out there and just see what people had to say.

As for her parents all I have is an address that I can remember, and I will write them to ask if she is ok. I have also e-mailed her in case she ever checks that again.

She lived in a different city than her parents since she said she wanted to try and make a living and did not appear to like Zamboanga city because of the status of the state of affairs there, so I never had need to call or have their number. I did talk to her mother once when she was on vacation there or at least someone that sounded like her mother, and she was very nice, and kind. She was suppose to be and only child and did not know anyone in the states. That is one of the hard parts of the story is that she never slipped up in conversation if she did know or had someone else here.

The number was tracked down by the police since I have filed a missing persons report. I have contacted the Police, the Embassy, USCIS, Homeland security, and US Homeland Security in the Philippines. I feel that I have done about everything that I can do except now I have to lock all my credit and life down since she has and had access to all my information from the process.

I would say the verdict is that I was scammed, but as I stated it must have been a very well though out plan, and maybe the phone call was just to say she was alive and let me know, but she never even said goodbye. I would think that she is too smart to want to work a low paying illegal job, I told her she could do whatever she wanted her including work so I do not think it was about the money. If it was about that she had a person that lived next door that worked in Japan at a Brothel 6 months out of the year, so she could have went there instead if that was a case. I guess this means it would have be family and friends or another man I guess I will always have to think that was the choice, and maybe never know. I wish I could do more, I wish I knew, but I really do not think I ever will.

As a side note my life and not always been easy, and I have stories that make people say “There’s no way! That’s not real or true!” I though that was behind me, but it was always there in the back of my mind, and was the reason I gave her that last choice. I really though that luck or that life was behind me, but maybe god has bigger, funnier plans for me that I would have ever though.

No one has answered my questions

1) What does this do for my chances in the future if I ever try something like this again?

2) Can you file a prenuptial agreement before you are married on a K visa?

Thank you I do have to work so if I do post one last time it will be very late, but I will check the posting one more time.

If you were genuinelt taken for a ride then I don't see this affecting your chances of bringing another bride over on a K1 visa. However you should maybe not be in such a hurry to do this. If you do have numerous stories from your past that people find hard to beleive because they are so outrageous then maybe you need to ask yourself why? What is that common element to all these crazy happenings?

So far as I am aware you can file a pre-nup if you wish. However if this comes up and USCIS get wind of it they may ask you why you felt you needed to.

[DREXEL1 0]

1) What does this do for my chances in the future if I ever try something like this again?

You will have to disclose it on the forms, but I doubt it will do more to your future chances than raise an eyebrow.

I thought I read some where that there was a time limit since the last time you sponsered someone.

[Cacerez 19]

How can you have a missing fiance who last called you upset in an unknown city, etc., and you be worried about filing another K1?

[Amby 490]

desperation makes people do and say very strange things

[payxibka 10,047]

2) Can you file a prenuptial agreement before you are married on a K visa?

i assume you can..

I would think that shows that you are not serious since later you have to give proof of joint checking accounts etc... I was just wondering if any had done something like that. If I make the choice again I will do things differently, but that would have to be on the list I guess. I would love to get married and be happy with someone I love, but this experience seems to have shown me (I did already know) that people will do anything to get of some Counties.

prenuptial by definition is BEFORE MARRIAGE.... one that occured after marriage would be POST nuptial.

Marriage is a marriage... It does not matter if it is via a K-visa or anything else. Marriage laws are not stratified.

The only question would be the enforeceability of a pre-nup...

1) What does this do for my chances in the future if I ever try something like this again?

You will have to disclose it on the forms, but I doubt it will do more to your future chances than raise an eyebrow.

I thought I read some where that there was a time limit since the last time you sponsered someone.

Read about the provisions of what is referred to as IMBRA

[DREXEL1 0]

How can you have a missing fiance who last called you upset in an unknown city, etc., and you be worried about filing another K1?

Because I like to know what might be head in my future. I would like to know the things that might lay in store. I am trying to look at this in a differnent angle saying I haven't given up on the process, but what if. I want to think about my future which could be years down the line. Am I sad, hurt, confused, lonely, upset, stressed, worried, and keep cry? YES I AM. I am trying to think of it another way. If you've ever been lonely, and scared your whole life, but have to go through as nothing is wrong, and everything is as it should be maybe you would understand. So I hope that doesn't come off as mean, it's life. Theres nothing more I can do, and it would be nice to at least find someone to be a friend and start over. I am not talking about getting married or starting the process next week.

As for the crazy life thing and why. I dealt with that years ago. It was the life style, beening a teenage and young adult. I changed everything so those things would not happen to me and that was 12 years ago. It took me that long to say maybe it's time to give love and life another chance.