Filipino fiancee never arrived and is missing

[fozzie 41]

It's not that I was looking or am looking for someone from the Philippines per say. One of the reasons that I have choosen to date outside the country is that I like to travel, I like Asia, I would even live there and have looked into it. It is really hard to find someone here and say, "Well I have a chance to move to Japan are you ready?" That is something that makes dating in the states even harder.

Another reason is money. I have a good job yes, but that does not lead to a lot of money I am not going to make millions, I might not be able to have the big house. Someone that understands money is not what makes you happy and would be happy just living and being with you. If you have traveled to many asian countrys I found or at least like to think they understand that. Were here it's always, bigger and better.

The values that say I wanted to move and live there or have a house there at somepoint and they are happy to move there too. Right now most of my dreams and even my aspirations have changed and that is to be expected I guess. I am not sure were I am going from here but after everything it is clear that I need to stop, and accept there is nothing that I can do which I have. I have to look at it as she knew what she was doing.

Saying that and knowing she is educated and smart, why choose a life where you can never get a real job? Questions that will never be answered. I have E-mailed her at least asking are you ok. I do not think I will be posting to this anymore. If there is ever an update maybe, but I have to move on. I have to do whatever it is that will make myself at least feel a little better about myself and life, and what is in my heart. Every time I read these I just get more upset, and that can not be good for me.

Right now.. Yes, I love her, miss her, and hope she is ok, and care the world for her.

Later in life - I will always think about her, and miss her in some degree. I will always love her and have a place in my heart that will always be hers.

But for now I have to close that off, and shut that door. I can not stand feeling like this, and do not want to be hurting anymore. Thank you all one last time for your comments and concerns. I will be back on here if there is ever an update, or if and when I might find someone else. I do not see why I should not look where it is in the world that I might find true and honest love. I have tried here most of my life and it has been lacking.

I wish everyone that has found their someone the best life has to offer or at least real happyness.

I don't know why you keep trying to persuade everyone that this is real. Those that beleive you have offered words of comfort, some even to the lengths of trying to contact police etc on your behalf. Those that don't, don't. You will not likely convince them at this point and as such do not worry about them. We are all annonymous individuals here and many feel free to make many harsh comments cloaked in annonymity.

P.S. Happyness, really? You do know that the movie with will smith explains the spelling mistake in its title right?

Edited March 19, 2009 by fozzie

[mrsartis 10]

to all guys going to the philippines looking for a wife be sure that you know very well the background of the girl that you want to marry. Don't look much on the outside appearance, the more pretty outside, more ugly inside. I am a filipina and pretty inside out.

That is an awful thing to say.... sounds like something an ugly would say for she is jealous of the pretties.

well... all i can say to this is...

Uh, I think Im pretty nice.. now im worried, am i ugly honey?

[Holliday 4]

Have you contacted these folks yet?

MICHIGAN

(Detroit)

Honorary Consulate of the Philippines

45 Woodland Shore

Grosse Pointe Shore, MI 48236

(313) 885-4642

Dr. Renato S. Roxas, Honorary Consul

Yeah, that sounds like a very good idea.

To the OP:

It's my personal opinion that you should at least TRY to contact her parents or her friends, or something. I know you said that you don't know their phone numbers or whatever, but you must have some information to work with. If you still have a copy of the G325A that you sent in with your initial petition, you at least have her parents' full names and their city/country of residence, her employment history and a record of everywhere she's lived for the past 5 years. That's at least a starting point. If I were in your shoes, on the off chance that this ISN'T a big scam and that she has in fact been victimized somehow, I'd at least make every effort to inform those who are/were close to her about the situation.

[fozzie 41]

If you still have a copy of the G325A that you sent in with your initial petition, you at least have her parents' full names and their city/country of residence, her employment history and a record of everywhere she's lived for the past 5 years.

Good point, if you used a lawyer they will have this info on file.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I'll put my reputation on the line here that the OP is being truthful. He has trusted me with a lot of personal info on her in hopes that my wife and I can help him find out if she is ok.

For any Filipinas here that are from Zamboanga City? If so, please PM me. We need your help with contacting her family.

Edited March 19, 2009 by Mister Fancypants

[SMOKE 1,426]

steven be very careful of what you are involving yourself & your family in. VERY CAREFUL

[one...two...tree 2,762]

steven be very careful of what you are involving yourself & your family in. VERY CAREFUL

I will.

[edp333 9]

stfu, and go back to the PI forum if you don't like it here

Good one. Did you come up with that all on your own or did you have to Google for it?

[one...two...tree 2,762]

stfu, and go back to the PI forum if you don't like it here

Good one. Did you come up with that all on your own or did you have to Google for it?

He was being sarcastic.

[edp333 9]

stfu, and go back to the PI forum if you don't like it here

Good one. Did you come up with that all on your own or did you have to Google for it?

He was being sarcastic.

And you perceived I wasn't?

[NickD 203]

"She was confirmed to have arrived at Detroit, but then never rechecked her baggage for the connecting flight. Once she arrived, she called me as planned, she seemed upset, talked for a few minutes, never said goodbye and we got disconnected."

I read your post in detail this time, no details on your immigration procedure to bring her over her, just concern about you spent some money.

No details on her POE airport, above tells me she was concerned about losing her luggage, did call you, but lost a connection, do you even know what city she is in?

Then your concern about finding another woman, that is downright stupid in my opinion when you spend over a year and half with this one, can gained complete trust in her.

Reorganized all the details and repost if you want intelligent advice.

[alienlovechild 75]

I don't know why you keep trying to persuade everyone that this is real. Those that beleive you have offered words of comfort, some even to the lengths of trying to contact police etc on your behalf. Those that don't, don't. You will not likely convince them at this point and as such do not worry about them. We are all annonymous individuals here and many feel free to make many harsh comments cloaked in annonymity.

Getting called a liar tends to make most honest posters a bit angry. Most posters can't relate except as far as the immigration process goes. Even people with beneficaries from the same country can have wildly different experiences.

[LoriLawless 0]

I don't know why you keep trying to persuade everyone that this is real. Those that beleive you have offered words of comfort, some even to the lengths of trying to contact police etc on your behalf. Those that don't, don't. You will not likely convince them at this point and as such do not worry about them. We are all annonymous individuals here and many feel free to make many harsh comments cloaked in annonymity.

Getting called a liar tends to make most honest posters a bit angry. Most posters can't relate except as far as the immigration process goes. Even people with beneficaries from the same country can have wildly different experiences.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

steven be very careful of what you are involving yourself & your family in. VERY CAREFUL

I will.

I know you will, and you should.

As for the missing woman, I pray she is found and has not been victimized. I really do.

[almaty 19]

stfu, and go back to the PI forum if you don't like it here

Good one. Did you come up with that all on your own or did you have to Google for it?

nah, used it on a noob prior..you are not worth it to Google, comrade

stfu, and go back to the PI forum if you don't like it here

Good one. Did you come up with that all on your own or did you have to Google for it?

He was being sarcastic.

sadly, noobs lack humor