Filipino fiancee never arrived and is missing

[kaibigan 8]

I wouldn't spend too much more time worrying. Sounds like you were scammed.

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

Stay out of the big cities like Manila and Cebu.

Lots of pretty girls in Mindanao Region

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older or younger girl, it depends on the persons up bringing and values. not all younger girls are honest either. so, to all guys going to the philippines looking for a wife be sure that you know very well the background of the girl that you want to marry. Don't look much on the outside appearance, the more pretty outside, more ugly inside. I am a filipina and pretty inside out.

Nelly228 --

i agree with you

[kaibigan 8]

to all guys going to the philippines looking for a wife be sure that you know very well the background of the girl that you want to marry. Don't look much on the outside appearance, the more pretty outside, more ugly inside. I am a filipina and pretty inside out.

That is an awful thing to say.... sounds like something an ugly would say for she is jealous of the pretties.

well... all i can say to this is...

[Nelly228 0]

to all guys going to the philippines looking for a wife be sure that you know very well the background of the girl that you want to marry. Don't look much on the outside appearance, the more pretty outside, more ugly inside. I am a filipina and pretty inside out.

That is an awful thing to say.... sounds like something an ugly would say for she is jealous of the pretties.

well... all i can say to this is...

i am not jealous on the pretties coz i am pretty?

[almaty 19]

aw sheesh...you pinays and your beauty complex....

[DREXEL1 0]

The update from the Police office is this.

Him - Sir it happens all the time, you are not the 1st.

Me- I am confused about the phone number how could she get into the apparment?

Long story short he told me this

The number is registered to an elderly lady. I can not confirm if the line is in the old appartment she has moved and is living with her daughter and I do not have an address. The line can be open for several reasons, but without a sepena I can not have the phone company turn over the billing address or the address of where the land line is located now, if it is not still at the appartment. This is just a missing persons case and she is an adult.

ME - ????? Total confusion. So you can not find out where that land line is now?

Him - No

Me - Did you check video footage?

Him - Not knowing what she was wearing that would take to much resources and time.

Me - So there is nothing at all that I can do or say?

Him - No sir there is not, this kind of thing just happened two months ago almost say story.

Me - Um, I, but...... Ok thank you for your time officer

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

The update from the Police office is this.

Him - Sir it happens all the time, you are not the 1st.

Me- I am confused about the phone number how could she get into the apparment?

Long story short he told me this

The number is registered to an elderly lady. I can not confirm if the line is in the old appartment she has moved and is living with her daughter and I do not have an address. The line can be open for several reasons, but without a sepena I can not have the phone company turn over the billing address or the address of where the land line is located now, if it is not still at the appartment. This is just a missing persons case and she is an adult.

ME - ????? Total confusion. So you can not find out where that land line is now?

Him - No

Me - Did you check video footage?

Him - Not knowing what she was wearing that would take to much resources and time.

Me - So there is nothing at all that I can do or say?

Him - No sir there is not, this kind of thing just happened two months ago almost say story.

Me - Um, I, but...... Ok thank you for your time officer

"cough"bullsh!t"cough"

[fozzie 41]

The update from the Police office is this.

Him - Sir it happens all the time, you are not the 1st.

Me- I am confused about the phone number how could she get into the apparment?

Long story short he told me this

The number is registered to an elderly lady. I can not confirm if the line is in the old appartment she has moved and is living with her daughter and I do not have an address. The line can be open for several reasons, but without a sepena I can not have the phone company turn over the billing address or the address of where the land line is located now, if it is not still at the appartment. This is just a missing persons case and she is an adult.

ME - ????? Total confusion. So you can not find out where that land line is now?

Him - No

Me - Did you check video footage?

Him - Not knowing what she was wearing that would take to much resources and time.

Me - So there is nothing at all that I can do or say?

Him - No sir there is not, this kind of thing just happened two months ago almost say story.

Me - Um, I, but...... Ok thank you for your time officer

"okay than you for your time officer"?

I would not have been so polite!

[almaty 19]

wow, sorry man..that is typical....

i know you can trace her if you ahve enough capital resources through a Private investigator

[LoriLawless 0]

The update from the Police office is this.

Him - Sir it happens all the time, you are not the 1st.

Me- I am confused about the phone number how could she get into the apparment?

Long story short he told me this

The number is registered to an elderly lady. I can not confirm if the line is in the old appartment she has moved and is living with her daughter and I do not have an address. The line can be open for several reasons, but without a sepena I can not have the phone company turn over the billing address or the address of where the land line is located now, if it is not still at the appartment. This is just a missing persons case and she is an adult.

ME - ????? Total confusion. So you can not find out where that land line is now?

Him - No

Me - Did you check video footage?

Him - Not knowing what she was wearing that would take to much resources and time.

Me - So there is nothing at all that I can do or say?

Him - No sir there is not, this kind of thing just happened two months ago almost say story.

Me - Um, I, but...... Ok thank you for your time officer

I was afraid of that.

[Craneman 2]

Why??

wow, sorry man..that is typical....

i know you can trace her if you ahve enough capital resources through a Private investigator

[I'm Gone 60]

I wouldn't spend too much more time worrying. Sounds like you were scammed.

My suggestion to anyone going to Philippines to "Wife Shop" is don't get one over 25 years old.

If you do start over, maybe you should find a girl a little younger, Make sure she has some type of degree so she can come to USA and make you lot's of money, and I like girls from the provinces.

Stay out of the big cities like Manila and Cebu.

Lots of pretty girls in Mindanao Region

posts like this only perpetuate the sterotypes and generalizations that exist...

Yeah my wife was 35 and from Cebu and it will be 7 years if we make it 2 more months. Better woman from big city, since I didn't have to explain to her how to use the washing machine. LOL

[DREXEL1 0]

It's not that I was looking or am looking for someone from the Philippines per say. One of the reasons that I have choosen to date outside the country is that I like to travel, I like Asia, I would even live there and have looked into it. It is really hard to find someone here and say, "Well I have a chance to move to Japan are you ready?" That is something that makes dating in the states even harder.

Another reason is money. I have a good job yes, but that does not lead to a lot of money I am not going to make millions, I might not be able to have the big house. Someone that understands money is not what makes you happy and would be happy just living and being with you. If you have traveled to many asian countrys I found or at least like to think they understand that. Were here it's always, bigger and better.

The values that say I wanted to move and live there or have a house there at somepoint and they are happy to move there too. Right now most of my dreams and even my aspirations have changed and that is to be expected I guess. I am not sure were I am going from here but after everything it is clear that I need to stop, and accept there is nothing that I can do which I have. I have to look at it as she knew what she was doing.

Saying that and knowing she is educated and smart, why choose a life where you can never get a real job? Questions that will never be answered. I have E-mailed her at least asking are you ok. I do not think I will be posting to this anymore. If there is ever an update maybe, but I have to move on. I have to do whatever it is that will make myself at least feel a little better about myself and life, and what is in my heart. Every time I read these I just get more upset, and that can not be good for me.

Right now.. Yes, I love her, miss her, and hope she is ok, and care the world for her.

Later in life - I will always think about her, and miss her in some degree. I will always love her and have a place in my heart that will always be hers.

But for now I have to close that off, and shut that door. I can not stand feeling like this, and do not want to be hurting anymore. Thank you all one last time for your comments and concerns. I will be back on here if there is ever an update, or if and when I might find someone else. I do not see why I should not look where it is in the world that I might find true and honest love. I have tried here most of my life and it has been lacking.

I wish everyone that has found their someone the best life has to offer or at least real happyness.

[LoriLawless 0]

But for now I have to close that off, and shut that door. I can not stand feeling like this, and do not want to be hurting anymore.

That's a very healthy way of healing. It may take some time but you're headed in the right direction. Take some time for yourself and take care.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Have you contacted these folks yet?

MICHIGAN

(Detroit)

Honorary Consulate of the Philippines

45 Woodland Shore

Grosse Pointe Shore, MI 48236

(313) 885-4642

Dr. Renato S. Roxas, Honorary Consul

[NickD 203]

First time my wife to be came here, I couldn't find her either at O'Hare, but she was so short, was buried in the crowds. But she found me, those Filipino gals are even shorter, maybe that is why you couldn't find her. Are you short too?