CHEATED

[Cham 3]

The day after i recieved my NOA2 i found out that my fiance was cheating on me. I need to withdraw my I129f application immediately. I sent a letter to NVC requesting a withdraw with my name her name and the case number. Is there anything else i should do to make sure the app. gets withdrawn

Just curious, how did u found out??

I have a vision on that one.

HAHA Well Iam 23 and she is 20. We had an email address that we shared and and one of the guys accidentally used that address and sent her an email. Then i confronted her and she admitted to it. The thing that grosses me out is the dude was 50 years old. I also paid for her surgery because she conracted HPV and then gave it to me. Like i said, iam 23 and im not bringin in the cash like i want to. Anyways i Paid for her surgery and many other things that i couldnt really afford. But I guess in the end its my fault for trusting her.

not to sound mean but there ARE age gap relationships on here who do not find the age difference gross. (including myself:))

Don't blame the age ..blame the fact she screwed around on you with a guy...at ANY age it would hurt. I am HAPPY you found out before she came here! I read a few stories on here where that happened.

Contact NVC, USCIS and whomever others told you to contact.

Good luck and best wishes

[Ginger cat 3]

ahhh, those filipino girls are quite known for these types of scams. in an effort not to help her out, DO NOT CANCEL YOUR I-129F! Let it sit there, if you dont send the affidavit of support, she will never be able to come here. Likely she's b.s.ing the 50yr old guy into the same thing as you... a free ride to the US. As long as an open I-129F exists, she won't get approved at interview. What she will hear, is a can of whoop a$$ from the consulate about having 2 open petitions, and her claims of "love" in both.

She screwed you, now time to screw her over as well.

*coughs* excuse me, not all!

if one did a horrible thing that does NOT mean they are all the same, ha!

Did I say all? No. But you can sure bet on the number of these fraudster chicks being quite high, as the Phillipines are a high fraud country.

:bonk: .....

i beg you to differ:

is that false that philipines are a high fraud contry...please back it up! *idea*

the day you find any stats that shows the philpines are one the least corrupted country, then i turn my hair in blue.

[Ginger cat 3]

found on asiaonline.com

Philippines: Corruption once again steals the headlines

By Marites Sison

MANILA - Reports of high-level, high-stakes corruption are rocking the Philippines again, drawing cynicism and anger from a people who say they are tired of it.

The first case struck right into the heart of the six-month-old government of President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo, who succeeded Joseph Estrada, who in turn is now in jail facing charges of economic plunder.

On July 22, Arroyo's husband, Jose Miguel Arroyo, was accused by a former employee at the presidential palace of having accepted a 50 million peso (US$943,400) bribe from a telecommunications company. The actions of President Arroyo, who says she would let investigations go on because of the "Caesar's wife" principle, are being closely watched by a public that threw Estrada out on corruption charges.

The Philippine Senate has yet to decide whether or not to conduct an investigation into this controversy - because two of its own, opposition Senators Panfilo Lacson and Luisa Ejercito (Estrada's wife), stand freshly accused of having amassed illegal wealth.

Military intelligence chief Colonel Victor Corpus alleged over the weekend that Estrada and Lacson, who was chief of the Philippine National Police under Estrada, maintained 18 bank accounts in the United States, Canada and Hong Kong amounting to $738 million. On Sunday, Corpus said the funds consisted of money made from drug trafficking, kidnapping and other criminal activities.

Estrada's wife reportedly maintained an account containing $180 million. None were declared in their statements of assets and liabilities (SAL), as required by law of senior public officials.

Unlike the scandal involving Mr Arroyo, which produced no hard evidence apart from the word of a former correspondence secretary and family friend who has since stated that her accusation was based on hearsay, the one involving Lacson and Estrada produced a paper trail. A joint military and police intelligence team has also discovered, with the help of the United States customs, that Lacson and his wife also owned multimillion dollar houses in California.

Again, these were not declared by Lacson in his declaration of assets and liabilities. Lacson and Estrada have described Corpus' bombshell as a "hoax" and "complete fabrication". Estrada has promised to file a libel suit against Corpus and newspapers who carried reports of his allegations, and his lawyer Rene Saguisag called the allegations a "bum steer" for the press.

But as columnist Belinda Cunanan-Olivares of the Philippine Daily Inquirer noted, "what's going to be tough for both Estrada and Lacson is that even at this point, citizens are likely to believe the Corpus' expose, inasmuch as there are names of banks and numbers of accounts".

"What's equally tough for them is that citizens are willing to believe that both of them could only have accumulated such a mind- boggling fortune only from dirty sources such as smuggling and drug trafficking, as there is no business here that could possibly yield so much money in such a short period of time," Olivares added.

"My challenge is: Present authenticated evidence by any US authority, any US bank or US customs, and I'll go straight to jail without trial," Lacson said. "I'll jail myself."

That attention has been deflected away from the controversy involving Mr Arroyo does not mean, however, that the public is through with him. President Arroyo, whose initial reaction was to dismiss the allegation, now publicly supports the call for an investigation. This, after critics reminded her that the "moral ascendancy" she claimed to have when she moved for Estrada's ouster was now being questioned.

However, some sources claim that President Arroyo actually encouraged intelligence chief Corpus to prematurely reveal the charges against Lacson - which have been going on since June - to try to deflect some of the attention being given to accusations against her husband.

What President Arroyo and other public officials are beginning to realize is that Filipinos are having a lower level of tolerance for corruption, activists say.

At least two large non-governmental organizations (NGOs) have been created as a result of the public outrage against the scandals that led to Estrada's impeachment and subsequent downfall in a popular uprising in January this year.

Maki-isa (Be One) is organizing "cells" in the country's barangays (districts) that would collect information on wrongdoings of public officials.

"If there is strong evidence, we may initiate the filing of charges against both appointive and elective officials," says former military intelligence chief Benjamin Libarnes.

Critics say that such an anti-corruption effort from among the citizens may be long overdue for a country where nearly 40 percent of the 75 million population is poor, and where much of the resources is believed to be lost to graft and corruption.

As Cunanan herself noted, what Estrada and Lacson have allegedly amassed is "now worth more than 53 billion pesos which would be about 7 percent of the country's budget for 2002".

ARTICLE WRITTEN IN 2001 by a jounralist.

and if i match wikipedia source abotu immigration and the report about bribeyr made...

that's funny how you can noticed a correlation between corrupted country level economic devellopment and their population trying to immigrate to the usa. :!:

http://www.transparency.org/content/download/39275/622457

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immigration_t...e_United_States

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_count...nal)_per_capita

and when i pay attention to the flags on the side, i am impressed here the see the numbers of visa k1 that are made with countries from the third world.

[ikyang 1]

ahhh, those filipino girls are quite known for these types of scams. in an effort not to help her out, DO NOT CANCEL YOUR I-129F! Let it sit there, if you dont send the affidavit of support, she will never be able to come here. Likely she's b.s.ing the 50yr old guy into the same thing as you... a free ride to the US. As long as an open I-129F exists, she won't get approved at interview. What she will hear, is a can of whoop a$$ from the consulate about having 2 open petitions, and her claims of "love" in both.

She screwed you, now time to screw her over as well.

*coughs* excuse me, not all!

if one did a horrible thing that does NOT mean they are all the same, ha!

Did I say all? No. But you can sure bet on the number of these fraudster chicks being quite high, as the Phillipines are a high fraud country.

are you bitter? phillipines is a very beautiful country! save money and try to see the place. you will enjoy dude!

[Old Dominion 26]

ahhh, those filipino girls are quite known for these types of scams. in an effort not to help her out, DO NOT CANCEL YOUR I-129F! Let it sit there, if you dont send the affidavit of support, she will never be able to come here. Likely she's b.s.ing the 50yr old guy into the same thing as you... a free ride to the US. As long as an open I-129F exists, she won't get approved at interview. What she will hear, is a can of whoop a$$ from the consulate about having 2 open petitions, and her claims of "love" in both.

She screwed you, now time to screw her over as well.

*coughs* excuse me, not all!

if one did a horrible thing that does NOT mean they are all the same, ha!

Did I say all? No. But you can sure bet on the number of these fraudster chicks being quite high, as the Phillipines are a high fraud country.

The Phils IS a beautiful country. You kind of need to put your conscience in your back pocket when you observe the overwhelming poverty due to the tradition of corruption in government.

are you bitter? phillipines is a very beautiful country! save money and try to see the place. you will enjoy dude!

[belovedbyme 0]

Sorry to hear that. Let her go and do what she wants but make sure you inform the USCIS and NVC that you are withdrawing the petition. Better you know earlier than later. God is good all the time. You are in my prayer.

[Giskat09 2]

The day after i recieved my NOA2 i found out that my fiance was cheating on me. I need to withdraw my I129f application immediately. I sent a letter to NVC requesting a withdraw with my name her name and the case number. Is there anything else i should do to make sure the app. gets withdrawn

Just curious, how did u found out??

I have a vision on that one.

Good thing you found out so soon... GOD bless your love life

HAHA Well Iam 23 and she is 20. We had an email address that we shared and and one of the guys accidentally used that address and sent her an email. Then i confronted her and she admitted to it. The thing that grosses me out is the dude was 50 years old. I also paid for her surgery because she conracted HPV and then gave it to me. Like i said, iam 23 and im not bringin in the cash like i want to. Anyways i Paid for her surgery and many other things that i couldnt really afford. But I guess in the end its my fault for trusting her.